My wife says her lelo is too hard. She says there is no give. What do you think of lelo?
you sure she's talking about a lelo?
If Lelo is her first vibrator, than I could understand. Was she using dildos up to this point? For me lelo is splendid. the texture of it, the vibrations..but now that I think of, I needed few days to get used to it and find position that gives me most pleasure. I am using Lelo brand for years and I never reach for any other toy.
They are true vibrators (and they are sized properly in that regard). Vibrators and glass are always sized much smaller than a standard flexible dildo for example. If a toy has a more 'squishy' feel, you lose some of the power of the vibration. For clit and g-spot stimulation especially, you want something firm with strong vibration power.
I'm not sure what toy you got, but there are smaller LELOs (like the Gigi or Mia) that might be more her style.
It also may be that your wife prefers gentler vibrating dildos or just regular dildos. If that's the case, I would recommend the Doc Johnson realskin line. Every woman is different so maybe vibrators and glass aren't her thing if she prefers a softer/flexible toy.
Lelo? Pfft, for all the muscular relief it brings, I might as well stick it up my arse!
Seriously though, OP, your partner would do well to persevere with it. A new sex toy is kind of like a new lover. You need to get used to them, play with them, find what works...
I'm sure she'll be happy with it, eventually...
My lelos are the best vibes I've ever had and I doubt I'd go anywhere else now...