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Cogent Sensualist
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Sure, I've tried it. I read the same sorts of things Woman did and I figured it was worth trying. Lots of reasons--intensity of orgasm, orgasm without erection, different sensation, experimenting a bit with what it's like to be penetrated (even if just with a finger); it all seemed like it might be worth experiencing those things. I have to say that the reports are all correct. Those effects can all be achieved. I've found that everything clenches up at orgasm and, if there's something pressing against the prostate, it intensitfies the orgasm, which presses the prostate, which intensifies the orgasm, etcetera, etcetera. Can be a very long and intense orgasm indeed.

As alluded to by Felix, our default drive is to stick our cocks into things. As such, reaching around runs counter to the basest drives. Fortunately, we're not all of us are limited to our basest drives and get to explore other types of orgasms. How else can you learn how your consistency changes with prolonged orgasm?

Adding it to masturbation isn't a common thing for me. We've all been masturbating since before we can remember and have it down to a science. Stroke or rub for a while and it's all done. Adding lube, toys, etc. just seems like a lot of trouble when there's a quick and easy method at hand (pardon the pun). But, yes, every so often (months or longer between for me), I (and apparently a some others as well) will take the time, get out some lube and explore.

Playing with it with a partner adds another twist. It seems pretty 'advanced', 'kinky', dirty, deviant, adventurous...pick your word, to have someone playing with your ass as a straight man. It's kind of exciting to have an adventurous partner too. Given that it hasn't/doesn't get much play, it's extremely sensitive and I still jump, even when I know it's coming.

We males have been trained to think that doing something 'gay' is the worst thing in the world. Even those of us who are very comfortable with our sexuality twinge a bit at doing something like that, it's so very ingrained in us. That makes it threating for some, scary for others, but certainly adds an 'edge' of taboo for us.

Long-winded, I know, but I hope that helps.
Rookie Scribe
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When it comes to masturbating, im not really into plying with my prostate. Ive only done it maybe three times. Only when im really horny but, if a girl wants to do it then im all for it. A girl i used to mess with liked to lick and play with my ass all the time and at first i was hesitant but, i gave in. After that every time we got together i was letting her do it. I loved it.
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I do it occasionally. I love a girl using her tounge and would love to experiment with a strap-on.

Can I ask, do the girls enjoy stimulation of their little bums when they play?
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damn I am missing out. I have never experienced the p-spot. Now I am curious.
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Clean your anus, inside and out. Then, touch it, penetrate it, enjoy it. If a lady is amenable, then all the better. If you are not straight, then you already know.
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If I wasn't in class right now I would drop my pants ;) but I do enjoy the stimulation both internal and external. I stole my girlfriend's vibrator just so I could have some fun in the shower. She has only done it to me once and I loved it. I wish she would do it some more.
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I have been doin this along time and still enjoy it.Over the years have tried many different things from store bought dildos to household items.One of my go to toys is a toilet plunger handle.It works great,it is small and easely inserted with a little bit of lube.you can stick it to the toiet seat and back up onto it the real enjoyment comes from it pounding deep into your bowles when you rock back and forth stroking your shaft.It feels unreal that deep up inside of you and makes me cum like a stalion.Be careful though if it is in you deep it will hurt to stand up straight.I would love it for my wife to use a strap on and fuck me but I am to embarresed to ask her to go there.She knows I like a little dildo or a finger up there but never really wants to do that.so I keep that for myself pleasuring.Hope this isn't a freak thing with me but it does feel really good.
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Internal prostate stimulation is ok for me, yet I need to be in the right mood otherwise it won't work. I do it mostly by myself using my own anal toy yet I cannot deny having tried it with other people - the thing is, anal toys are much better than "simple" fingers to me so the best experiences were playing it myself.
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Prostate stimulation is amazing. I use a vibrating plug and barely have to touch myself before my whole body is shaking, it feels way different than normal guy orgasms. If you have not had a prostate orgasm, you have no idea what your missing. It is just so much more intense, I just can't describe it.
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I do sometimes but I let my wife to be do that because she enjoys my moans and groans of pleasure. Also; she enjoys the "end results" of my exploding everywhere.
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I dont do it regularly anymore, just special occasions when I really wanna cum hard. When I do though its like a whole different level of orgasm. I used to love having my girlfriend do it during blowjobs or putting a vibrator in my ass while I was fucking her.
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not yet but me and my partner planning to have this for experience
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Allot of us guys are a bit nurvous of going there really. Much because it makes us worry that the act is a bit gay. If we're really honest. But dropping the issue and having a go can really be fun. Bunny's so right, especially when time is taken to carefully massage the Prostate by inserting a finger gently and finding the spungy bit from inside about an inch or so in. Give this 15 mins or so with some matsturbation, and maybe the girl can kiss his boy and give some sensual head too. Youll be so suprised ho much you can cum if you take long time over it. like up to 3 or 4 times as much cum as normal. A very satisfying experience guys.

Girls does that idea turn you on?
Squirt is in the eye of the beholder
Alpha Blonde
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Quote by Squirthero

Girls does that idea turn you on?


Absolutely!

A woman that understands the male anatomy and wants to bring her man to new levels of intense pleasure will definitely be turned on by it, and eager to be a part of it.

I kind of feel sorry for those that would dismiss this idea. Imagine if a guy said to his woman, "sorry hon, I know you have a g-spot, but don't expect me to go near it"... It doesn't really make sense to ignore the p-spot if you're someone that's truly committed to the pursuit of pleasure. The orgasms are way more intense. Why would any woman want to deny her lover a more intense orgasm?

Everyone needs to get over this whole ridiculous concept that "ass-play = gay." People who think this way seriously sound like they are living in the sexual dark ages.
Cogent Sensualist
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[quote=Dancing_DollEveryone needs to get over this whole ridiculous concept that "ass-play = gay." People who think this way seriously sound like they are living in the sexual dark ages.

There are lots of women who have to get over this too so it's not just a "guys, get over it" issue (and no, DD, I'm not suggesting your comment was oriented at just one gender because it wasn't). Women also have to get over the "icky" of touching a bum and sticking something inside. I know many (friends) who've said "ewwww, I'm not sticking my finger in there". It's time to get over ourselves in general.

Botttoms up!
Alpha Blonde
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Quote by WorkAlone

There are lots of women who have to get over this too so it's not just a "guys, get over it" issue (and no, DD, I'm not suggesting your comment was oriented at just one gender because it wasn't). Women also have to get over the "icky" of touching a bum and sticking something inside. I know many (friends) who've said "ewwww, I'm not sticking my finger in there". It's time to get over ourselves in general.

Botttoms up!


Oh, I agree. There is this certain double standard that a man's ass is dirtier than a woman's ass. The point is, an ass is an ass. If you are hygienic and clean, then I don't really see how one is worse than the other. Tongues, fingers, and dildos are fun for both genders.
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Yes - like the Prostate stimulation. We have a couple of different toys we use to enhance the sexual experience. Certainly seems to expand the ejaculation! I'm sure there are many different places to buy them, but we bought our toys at Adam and Eve.
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i love having my ass played with. when i masturbate i can sometimes be found putting a finger or two up there. it is a completely different feeling. im very into it. i can almost cum just by playing with my ass.
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I agree with a lot of what has been said above... I love it! It is an amazing feeling that incredibly enhances my arousal. I have done both internal and external stimulation, and while they both feel great, massaging the p-spot from the inside takes me to a different world! It feels sooo good, and is an intensely different experience. LOL getting aroused just thinking about it!
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I enjoy it very much. I cum much harder. I use a finger or a toy. I prefer a sexy woman to do it but have no problem doing it myself. Bunny12 would be my first choice she has lots of experience.
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Women, great subject you added. I go with most of the other guys. Outside.... well, hardly any effect. Inside... amazing and incredible cums, of a different kind somehow. But need to be in a special mood, actually do it rarely. Think of it more often, start and then doesn't work out.
Same as then my girlfriend tried to stimulate me first time. It was just...wow, wow, wow... She found my reaction and cum so good, that next time she started to do it again. Didn't work out for me. She tried so often again but took weeks until it was great.
So your question, if so good why not do it, do it more. Simply have to explanation whatsoever.
Other question homophobia... tried.. simply cannot touch a man.No way. Damn sure it is not homophobia.
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internal stimulation. I have a dual polar insert I use with my tens unit, that works really good, and an egg vibrator that works pretty well also. Add urethra stretching during milking and the orgasim (no other word describes it better) later is mind blowing
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it happened to me a few times in the past... and it's mind blowing!

one time I was inside my gf ass, I was fucking her slowly trying to hold myself from cumming... we were in missionary position and suddenly she put her finger in my ass too.
as soon as she went deeper, I started to cum very hard, no chance to stop or avoid it! then she started orgasming too from my spasm and feeling my heat... wonderful

second time, classic blowjob with added finger behind!

but she was very very slow, long teasing.. I think I screamed loud that time!
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Occasionally. Internal usually using an Aneros. Love fucking missionary with my Progasm inserted. Feels like you are being fucked from behind and it moves and rocks with your thrust.

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Been playing with my prostate since early days. Feels so amazing! Internally is best, especially with prostate focused toy like Aneros Progasm, butt rubbing hot spot between ass and balls nice easy substitute. Almost every time I masturbate prostate play is part of it, just too good to not do!!

Guys, you have to try! Stop the caring and just enjoying your body!

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I am alsoin support of prostate stimulation. The feeling is so intense unfortunately I learned of this once I was married. My wife will have nothing to do with anything involving back door. I would love to find a girl that had open mind.