Would it be possible to add options in the profile description of "Sex:" ? I'm finding a number of instances where a couple actively uses the same account, and would think having something beyond "male" and "female" would facilitate people finding what they are looking for.
Okay, next suggestion(s) are about the chat rooms.
1) Would it be possible to make the ''says to'' list alphabetical? Leave says to as the default and at the top of the list, but make the rest in alphabetical order. It would make it much easier to locate other actions. Also, the inquire should display as ''Innocently inquires of'' rather than ''Innocently inquires about''.
2) I have asked this one before, but going to request it again. Can a color palette chart be added to the user created rooms in addition to the other backgrounds? The current color options could be eliminated, just leaving the picture backgrounds and the palette. Along the same lines, would it be possible to change the background color in the Lush rooms to something a bit less stark, like a pale grey or beige?
3) I know a lot of changes have been made to the user rooms in the last 8 months or so, most good, but some not as good. The current way it is set up can leave these rooms without a mod. Also, quite often, two people open a room together, but only one will have owner rights. So....
3a) Can an option be added, either during the initial set up, as a member option in the room, or in both places, to add a co-owner. This person would be in addition to the current 4 additional mods that can be assigned, and would have the same rights as the room creator. If added during then initial setup, both names would show on the chat home page.
3b) At one point, someone with a shield could leave the room for 10 minutes (I think it was 10) before losing their shield, but somewhere along the line, that changed. With Lush frequently hiccuping, necessitating people to refresh, or the way sometimes certain things can make you accidentally boot yourself from a room, it leaves a room mod-less. This should be restored to the 10 minute time frame before a shield is lost.
3c) It seems like there are some people that create a room, stay a short time, then leave. Sometimes they assign other mods, sometimes not, but as these rooms often live on for long periods of time, once again, rooms are often left without a mod. So my suggestion here is that if neither the creator or an assigned co-owner is present in a room after a specific amount of time (say 60 minutes), the room shuts itself down.
Not sure if it has been mentioned previously but a way in which you can "tag" another member into forum posts. I know you can quote them and it appears on their timeline so something similar to this but in a way to tag others in your posts.
I'm always looking for ways to track my growth as a writer and find other great authors to read, so with that in mind I would be interested if I could track who the top 100 authors on the site are.
You could do this either using a similar technique as the top author of the month box, or you could go off the number of followers an author has.
Just thought of another thing. When commenting on a friend's wall, or on one of the photos in their gallery or albums, you have the option to delete the comment. If you find you have made a typo, the only thing you can do is delete and redo it. Could an edit feature be added to these areas?
I use my playstation3 for all my internet requirements, including logging on to Lush (i don't have a pc or laptop) but i'm unable to access the chat rooms, i have e-mailed the team to see why but they haven't managed to rectify this yet.... it would be nice to chat with the other members...some of you might think that the audience of playstation users would be a bit young for this site, but surveys have shown that the majority of playstation users are in the 25-35 year old bracket, and i'm older! so please Team Lush... try to sort this out
I'm wondering, if we log completely off of Lush, that when we log on, that there could be a feature to come on invisible or available before coming on. That way if we just want to come on to submit a story, we can do it privately. Or, whatever the case maybe. If we come on available, people see us, even if we jump into invisible right after. I don't like ignoring folk. Is this something we can do? Please.
Or go invisible before you log off? Then you'll be invisible when you log back on- am I right?
I'd like to suggest a sub section in the General Forum for Members Announcements.
This could be for wishing Happy Birthday, Leaving, Taking A Break, New Story Out. Things like that, that would be a go to place rather than them being scattered. It might encourage members to post before they leave as long as they post their user name in the thread, lol.
Member announcement: Nicola is in a relationship with dpw. It may not work out, but we'll give it our best.
I can foresee a forum like that being a drama magnet, but it could have its merits.
Don't know if this is right place to post this. Can we have it be a secret on what we score/rate a story or poem? I'm assuming authors like to have their work commented on, but maybe it's best not to score/rate it?
I just gave a "friend" a score of 4, then wrote a nice comment about enjoying the work.
I got a black box asking why a 4. I gave my reply that it had too many similiarities to other works (or something like that). Then I said I wish I could rate the best work a 5++++++, but I only had a 4 or 5 to choose from.
This was his response: " your reasoning sounds so typical...I am not porn writer...you disrespect my work and that's deceiving and like typical lushers "
Ouch! I said I certainly did not mean to disrespect his work, but feel free to un-friend me.
His response: : “consider it done...you are a disgrace "
I would hesitate to rate any more people if they can see what I rated. That HURT and I don't like hurting others - obviously I did.
Where there are scores, there will be drama. There's not much you can do about that.
When you make it harder for folks to figure out who voted what, those who are overly concerned with their scores will begin guessing instead. That can turn out even worse.
If you ever wonder why so few people vote compared to the number who read ( even discounting the various bots and spider hits ) the author reaction posted by elizabethblack above is a textbook example of one reason.
Everybody starts out a little touchy about their scores. Some simply don't grow out of it.
Three Alarm <= Almost famous, give it a read and get it one step closer!
I'm sorry that's happened to you, Elizabeth! Some writers need to get over themselves. Readers shouldn't be rebuked by a writer because they give a story something below a 5.
If people are getting abused because of scoring maybe we should remove the names from the timelines. I don't like that, but no one should be treated that way.
I wonder how often this is happening...
Like anyone here that writes and has their work posted, I certainly like to get "5"'s for my work.
Now, MISS SPRITE may or maynot remember this, but she boldly told me "why" she gave me a lesser score after helping me get a piece properly formatted, etc. for publication. TO THIS DAY, I am proudest of that score because she told me "why" and it has been a big help to me since then.
As for Elizabeth's 'former' friend ... that was extremely rude and UN-gentlemanly to fuss at her for taking the time to be honest with how she felt. Those of us that write and post our work really need people to read our work and feel free to honestly comment on it. WRITERS need READERS and this is the kind of thing that drives readers away.
I'm happy / thrilled to have someone like Mazza, or Sprite, (as notable, talented writers) to comment on my scribblings. But I'm also extremely pleased to have a 'reader' like Elizabeth to read/score/and comment honestly on my work and to say that they were "touched" by it. I think that Elizabeth is due an apology.
I would like to see the "block friend" tab moved. It sits below "0n line message" and I have lost count of how many friends I block by mistake.
I access the site using an iPad and unless I zoom in, very often the block tab gets hit!
I wished it was not so hard to have a story submiited, quotation marks, paragraphs, ect, maybe the editors that read them and deny them can fix them too