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Having an Affair

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ComealotSex
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I turned to having an affair after my LL wife made it clear that she did not enjoy sex anymore. Our marriage became celibate. I was faced with stark choices: 1. remain celibate (too difficult, and, frankly, I didn’t see why I should) 2. leave my wife and find someone else (not an option; I love my wife and adore our children) 3. pay for sex 4. have an online affair. This last one seemed the “least bad” option. I reasoned with myself that even though paying for sex was just sex, an animal act, and I was not being emotionally unfaithful, I was being financially unfaithful because I was spending our hard earned money on something my wife did not want.

But there was another reason to have an online affair. Certainly my ego would be stroked more by having an affair and that’s what I knew I wanted. I would know that the person was doing it because she found me attractive, rather than just being paid. For some reason this made it feel even better to me.

Even though the risk of emotional attachment by one or both of us would be great, that’s a good thing. I find it erotic, like watching a paperclip pulled into the invisible force field of a strong magnet a few inches away. The thrill and excitement of animal attraction can be intoxicating.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
Your wife probably fucking around... Think about it.
RikkiSue
Active Ink Slinger
There is something very exciting about having an affair with your body always all of a tingle, the secret liaisons, sex in unusual places, and so forth -- but actions always have consequences. The fact that I have several divorces under my belt proves that I know what I am talking about.
redcaramel01
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While I was married I never thought about having an affair. Since my divorce I have not had sex.
mmmmm_wong
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when I was married, it was wonderful. it was before kids, aids, mobile phones etc etc.

I worked in a bank, the guy lived across the street, my husb worked the swingshifft at the post office.

this was a year and a half of wonderful sex.

my husb never caught on.

he did w my second affair haha.
Unknown User

I have had sex (affairs) with numerous married women. None have been especially long-lasting. seems most of them needed to get something out of their system
grunt425
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I've had several, married affairs. The excitement, , aspect. Plus little or no sex at home is one reason.
grunt425
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I've had several affairs. Some married, some not. My wife hated sex, I certainly did not, so I looked elsewhere.

The best sex I ever had. One lasted 10 yrs, off & on. She was off the charts in bed.

Do I regret it, nope.
Lincoln26
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A Married women having an affair is often a result of her seeking something that is lacking in the marriage or getting into a rut with no variety or lacking some excitement so she looks elsewhere.

I have been with a number of married woman and they certainly don't hold back and have been amazing in bed.

Mostly they only want a short fling to get it out of there system and that can be a good thing as one does not have the time to get attached.

From my point of view I now prefer married women for that reason

Having sex with a married women is a totally different experience with each woman, The sensation, the way she reacts when having sex, the fact she now has someone different fucking her and the feel of being inside someone different can be extremely stimulating.
Hotghirl
Advanced Wordsmith

😜 Just know your wife is getting rattled more times than a charity box hun 😉 💋

Try before you buy x
Abbacus
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I really have no scruples about the marital status of my lovers thus what we do is simply fucking.
Jen31
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Currently enjoying exploring my sexuality now Married but hub works plenty and isn't will to explore. i finally got to the point where I took the plunge. There is not turning back now for me
mmmmm_wong
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Quote by Jen31

Currently enjoying exploring my sexuality now Married but hub works plenty and isn't will to explore. i finally got to the point where I took the plunge. There is not turning back now for me

my thrilling adventures started with a friendly handjob 😊
Unknown User

Yes, I am, with a couple of men.
Gordon_Brail
Advanced Wordsmith

I get his situation and I feel his pain. I’ve had multiple affairs, other married women, and the reasons for the affairs were mutual between the other women and I. Long story short, I’ve given up the sport for the time being.

No matter what you say, someone will get attached. I was like a gateway drug to one honest girl, leading her to do other dumb shit that got her caught and divorced. She assures me it wasn’t my fault, but I still felt somewhat responsible.

I’m done with the emotions, late night messaging and texting, the pain of when I can’t have her, and the pain we feel when we call it quits.

Better to have loved and lost, so I’m counting my losses and moving on from all of that.

I wonder how his affair turned out. They usually last a year, so…
passionatemind22
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It's a reality lately and I am not one to say that it doesnt exist. Ppl change, we have too, but some are stubborn AF to not and that will ruin things for them. Sad to see that those are the ones who claim that they are being cheated on...Well genius, why didnt you see the signs before?