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How big a gap in years would you consider ok for a sexual partner?

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Doesn't matter a hill of beans to me, although my gal is a couple decades younger than me. She doesn't remember black and white tv.
“It's nice sometimes to open up the heart a little and let some hurt come in. It proves you're still alive.”
What would it matter, does love have an age limit? I've been married to a woman fourteen yrs my younger for twelve yrs now. My son married a woman twelve yrs ago and she is fourteen yrs older than him. Love has no eyes for age limits, you can't really help who you click with and fall in love.
I am 60 and always have thought like 10 years younger. But I met up with someone this last past May in Malta and he is 43.....
I think "age is only a number" is a fine attitude to have but only once you're both 30+ and you're fully mature to make those decisions.

At 25, maybe 10 years older. Maybe more depending on the individual.

At 18, maybe 5. Any older is definitely creepy.
I've had two relationships with women 13-14 years younger than me. It makes a difference, but not a bad difference. Everyone has differences. I loved them both.
It shouldn't really matter but some advice to the other girls from someone who found out the hard way. Don't let your dad find out you are sleeping with someone older than he is. He didn't take that news very well.

Alison xxx
I am 26 to start with. My age of interest in a sexual partner is between 30 and 50. The same would go for a relationship!
Just to have sex , 21 years old and upwards !
As long as the people involved are consenting adults, I don't think age matters. Whatever makes them happy.
Love knows no barriers...
Well i am a virgin...but i am 20 years old bisexual crossdresser. My dream is to make out with people of all ages.So according to me....age difference should be a problem ever.
I personally don't ever have sex with men my own age. No offense to young men, but they just don't do it for me. Not to mention, in my own experience they are in it for themselves and could careless if I enjoy myself. Older men, at least the ones I have met, aren't like that. As far as relationships go, I am married to a man 9 years older than me.
20 years.

Best sex and best relationship ever.
does it really matter so long as you both consent and like eachother? lol
A friend moved in with an older man when she was 22. She just left him at 71 and she is 45 and has no kids or anything of value. I just wonder did he rob her of her years?
I would say as long as they are both adults and consenting there is n't a age limit.cqGxCNOjOei90B2B
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I agree with this. However as far as you and I go .. I am 21 and you are now getting the state pension I believe so thats just toooooooooooooooo bigger gap for me ... sorry.
age is irrelevant. if we feel comfortable together that is what really counts.
Well 23 yrs is my biggest gap and he was amazing so im not sure I have a limit.
20 years
Nafisa
No matter what people seem to think, age does make a difference in romantic relationships, if for no other reason than the amount of life experience a person has. While it's true age is no measure of maturity, the amount of life experience a person has makes a difference when you are trying to build a future with someone. It can be a major issue in family planning, finances, in health concerns (sexual and otherwise), and social situations. Take a 50 year old man and pair him with a 25 year old woman. Her friends won't want to hang around with someone who is old enough to be their father, and his friends won't want to socialize with someone who is barely out of college and struggling to establish a career. Realistically, it's awkward at best.

That being said, a few years age difference really isn't a big deal. There is seven years difference between me and my man, and we get along great, partially because I have always been more mature, and he often acts younger than his age. We balance each other out. Ten years or less is ideal. More than that and it starts to get weird. Plus, the larger the age gap the more likely it is you won't have many common interests anyway.
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A friend moved in with an older man when she was 22. She just left him at 71 and she is 45 and has no kids or anything of value. I just wonder did he rob her of her years?


That is incredibly sad...
i like a Lady 10 years older than me, though i must admit, i prefer a Lady twice my age or more.
I am aware of an intimate relationship between a single 21yo medical student and an widowed 80yo. It has been occurring for almost a year. He is capable, and she is willing and they are both happy and enjoy the casual intimate companionship without commitment. For her it fulfils a need and relieves frustrations and she has no problem with the fact he is older. He is evidently not demanding and prepared to meet with her on her terms.
About 20 years, seems right to me.
kisses, amy