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How big a gap in years would you consider ok for a sexual partner?

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For me, sex is an intimate time with someone I have a relationship with. It depends on the person, but as long as we can talk about life and have things in common, age is just a number. 12 years younger seems to me the perfect age difference though.
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Quote by jayhaddock
A friend moved in with an older man when she was 22. She just left him at 71 and she is 45 and has no kids or anything of value. I just wonder did he rob her of her years?


Hmmm ... more like she prolly robbed HIM (if that's how u see it) of all his money, assets, house bla bla ... just sayin' now ... she may have no kids, but I'm sure she's got lots "of value" OMG ...
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I see no prob, just as long as he's at least ten years younger than me ... okay ... fifteen years younger than me .... mmmm ... ehhhhh ... 20? :d/

ehhhh and btw ... I do not believe I've ever, but EVER, seen soooooooooooooooo many cliches on one subject here ... OMG ... just sayin' ...
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ALL things are relative. Simple as that. Everyone has their own preferences and I'm fine with that, I simply see age as being as meaningless as race, hair or eye color.
babybooski77
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My fiance and I are 18 years apart. Younger men all the way smile
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Quote by babybooski77
My fiance and I are 18 years apart. Younger men all the way smile


Wow! Younger men are awesome aren't they? My boyfriend is younger as well but only by two years. But then again, if he were any younger, I'd have to be arrested ;D
begentleornot
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age is irrelevant as long as consenting adults
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JackiePie
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Age isn't important, but I tend to think guys look too old once they are over 45 or so.
alicenchains80
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Age really isn't important to me.
So long as the guy is in great shape, have a thing for muscular guys.
Greatest age difference I have had was 15 years.
But was seriously some of the best sex I have ever had when I was with him.i5pZoJfWFm7kmOQw
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I'm lesbian and have dated women 15 years older than me, but I don't look at age so much. If they have the energy to handle me and a personality that is fun? We're probably good. smile
Txsportsman2010
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I was 24 and she was a very hot 48 year old blonde. Utah has amazing women
sf_mta
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5 yrs in either direction. I am 41.
sf_mta
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5 yrs in either direction. I am 41.
Meggsy
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I don't have any idea as I have not had any experience with very much older or younger partners male or female.
Performance is my desire .
Baby_Rain
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At most 5 in either way i feel like if its more than that then you dont have much in common
Im here to make you squeal one way or another
evilfish76
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My OH is 17 years younger ....
RicanLovin
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For a man the age gap depends on your mood. The younger girls tend to be fun to teach and explore with. The older women in my experience always (most times) knew how to get to me cumm quicker. What I found the most true is not necessarily the age gap between two.. its more of the sexual experience between the two. I have met some 30's that were very prude in their younger days and girls 19-21 who knew what they were doing.
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Depends on the person

But more than a decade most likely not

But you never know..brains are ageless
HappyInTN
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I would sleep with Helen Mirren right now and she is 22-years older than me turning 70 in July. All depends on the person.
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I do adore you asleep!!!
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Sexual maturity is more important than age. Sexually mature women know all the right things to do. Not saying that you cannot be young in age and mature, but it is rare.
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I see age as number... If 2 people love each other (as long as legal age) why should age matter...When I fall in love with someone.I see no age I see him as a person...
Magik
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For a relationship 10 years would be max. But depends. For casual sex or friends with benefits no limit. If the attraction is there I would have no problem with casual sex with someone at any age.

(Within legal boundaries obviously)
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agree age is not the important factor. older, younger, same age(or close) if the connection is there, it's the only thing that matters.
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If age mattered to my Baby Girl and me, we would not have got together. It is the person that matters
ChuckEPoo
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I'm in my fifties and date women mostly in their twenties and thirties. That must mean I'm either young at heart or just a dirty old man.
stupid2
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don't all shout at me but 50 years (younger) different but I couldn't keep up!
stupid2
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I will write a story soon to explain the circumstances that led up to this happening. It was not something I am proud of.