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How big a gap in years would you consider ok for a sexual partner?

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legal but with my man he is younger and I'm older
Age gap is entirely dependent on you. According to Mark Twain : "Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter."
Up until a few years ago I’ve only dated guys older than me, until I got with my ex. He was five years younger than me. I think a five year range is best, I truly do.

I’ve been with up to fifteen years older and eleven years younger. I’ll never go that young again, but the person I’m interested in right now is nine years younger than I am.

I’ve never dated anyone my age, but I have fallen for two.

For me, if you’re an ‘adult’, which to me is anyone without teenager attached to their age, you’re datable. If you’re an adult, there is no need to date someone in their teens. Not sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, nineteen. Find someone who is truly an adult, not just because you think they’re adult. Chances are, they truly aren’t. And that isn’t even getting the law involved.
10 years
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10, more or less. smile Teehee
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Age gap is entirely dependent on you. According to Mark Twain : "Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter."



My sentiments exactly
The heart and the brain do not know age, they only know the chemical and primal response that a person causes. I have met people before that I instantly did not like for no known reason. Just as I have met someone that my heart loved and I was drawn to before I ever asked how much older they were, the heart knows what it wants.
I think there is none. I like older guys and i place my limit on who i will date based on attitude not age
Sixty five years.
I think that age is irrelevant in a relationship. I have met some very mature men who are quite a bit younger than I am, and conversely, I have met some very very immature men who were 20 years older than I am. So to me age is just a number.
Let's see, the age of consent down here is 16, so I'd say 21 years under for a sexual partner. Oh don't judge me, you're all thinking it too. And probably 10 to 15 years over, give or take.

For a relationship, and let's be honest, decent sex, 10 years plus or minus.
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Ideally 10 years.
13 years max. 5 years min.
Any gap as long as she is legal. I just luv girls in their teens and I am in my early 60s
When two lovers have that special chemistry age is insignificant. If it feels right it is right.
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I think that age is irrelevant in a relationship. I have met some very mature men who are quite a bit younger than I am, and conversely, I have met some very very immature men who were 20 years older than I am. So to me age is just a number.


I'm pleased to hear that because I'm so much older than her. But, sadly, she's already in a committed relationship.
From when she is mature enough to really understand herself and life until she's to old to understand life any more.

Age is how her mind works. Smart, independent, strong (not dominate). If she can be a "Partner" in the true sense, she's just the right age.
I am always a gentleman.
Up to ten years older and five years younger
When I was a late teen, I was with a gal old enough (barely) to be my mother

When I was in my early 40's, I spent some very enjoyable evenings with a gal half my age.

It's all relative - if the person you're with is someone you're attracted too (and legal) I don't think it really matters

My current live-in partner is 11 years my junior, couple other gals I spend time with range from -15 to +10
Im (50yrs) the youngest ive had sex with was 19 the oldest was 65 so for me (19-65)
I am 64 and my new lover is 38 . A age gap of 26 years .

I personally don't mind how old they are as long as they are legal.I4fOco4H4wwoP6Es
I prefer a guy 8-15 years older than me if I was looking for a relationship. If it's just sex I really don't care.
Where the heart is involved, arbitrary numbers are just a needless obstacle.
Almost any number as long as both persons are consenting legal and wanting
I'd probably cap it off at about 40 years older than me.
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I'd probably cap it off at about 40 years older than me.


FYI, I'm only 21yrs older than you, HAHA!!
As long as she is legal, I'm game as for older, as long as she is interested I'm game too.
This is sex only a relationship is a horse of a different color.
It's only kinky the first time.
Always preferred older men, and currently the age gap between my love and I is 12 years.
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I'd probably cap it off at about 40 years older than me.


So I'm still in with a chance?

xx Steph

LadyX: "Except for you..."

Me: "Fuck you, Tokyo Rose..."

LadyX: "Aww, Darling... You just blew it!"

Me: "I WAS JOKING!!!!"

LadyX: "So was I!!!!!"

Me: (Relieved Sigh!) "The 'except for you', part?"

LadyX: "YEAH!!!!!! (But THEN you blew it...)"

Me: "Seriously... I'm a lot older than you... But what's my chances?"

LadyX: "WELL.... If we are ever stranded on a desert island... Just you and I... With ABSOLUTELY no hope of rescue... I'll be honest... I'D RATHER FUCK MYSELF WITH A TWIG OR A HANDFUL OF FUCKING SAND!!!!!"

Me: "I was joking!!!! You KNOW I adore you!!!!"

LadyX: "Yes, I do, OLD MAN.... Ummmm.... This sand actually feels kinda gritty and nice... Oooooh! Oooooh! Oooooooooh...."

Me: "F U C K you."

LadyX: "Dream on, Precious..."