Active Ink Slinger
Not sure if anyone has covered this before, but I was curious what people think. If you are in a relationship, is it cheating to cyber with someone?
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Is Cybering Cheating?
Mr Nobody
I disagree.. Chatting to someone by email/mssenger probably over great
distances is a harmless piece of self entertaiment between 2 people.
distances is a harmless piece of self entertaiment between 2 people.
Active Ink Slinger
I agree Sweet, Lexy and Ali.
If you're hiding - ask your self why.
Bat
If you're hiding - ask your self why.
Bat
Active Ink Slinger
I agree! It's definitely cheating if you are keeping it a secret.
Active Ink Slinger
And if it isn't with your partner doesn't that signify that something is missing??? and if that isn't fixed so much as you have to cyber with someone how long would it be before you were cheating for real because the cyber wasn't enough?
Active Ink Slinger
exactly orion.....how long before you cheat for real?
Active Ink Slinger
ain't that the truth, my ex was like that. it started on line and went over into real life.
Active Ink Slinger
I thought most people would anser yes to this, but I'm surprised there aren't more people who think its just a healthy form of fantasy.
Tech Moddess AKA Danger Kat ;)
Chatting/email/messenger...all harmless in my mind. But cybering is different in my opinion. If you are having sex with someone, even if it is via computer, it's still sex. If your partner knows, that is one thing, but if they don't, that's cheating. Just my thoughts,
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Advanced Wordsmith
Cybering is not cheating. All you are doing is masturbating; and all guys do that...(well 95% admit to it) I don't know about women. Women do have a much lower sex drive by all surveys I have seen. They force us to meet our needs through masturbation.
I had better duck now. I can already see the shoes headed towards my head.....LOL
I had better duck now. I can already see the shoes headed towards my head.....LOL
Quote by techgoddess
Chatting/email/messenger...all harmless in my mind. But cybering is different in my opinion. If you are having sex with someone, even if it is via computer, it's still sex. If your partner knows, that is one thing, but if they don't, that's cheating. Just my thoughts,
Exactly what Tech said. As long as all people involved know about it and are cool with it then no big deal. It becomes a problem when you have to hide about it
Quote by baker992009
Cybering is not cheating. All you are doing is masturbating; and all guys do that...(well 95% admit to it) I don't know about women. Women do have a much lower sex drive by all surveys I have seen. They force us to meet our needs through masturbation.
I had better duck now. I can already see the shoes headed towards my head.....LOL
*throws a shoe*
So it wouldn't bother you if you found out your partner was regularly cybering with another man and keeping it from you? I'd be pretty annoyed if that happened to me.
Quote by sweet_escapeQuote by baker992009
Cybering is not cheating. All you are doing is masturbating; and all guys do that...(well 95% admit to it) I don't know about women. Women do have a much lower sex drive by all surveys I have seen. They force us to meet our needs through masturbation.
I had better duck now. I can already see the shoes headed towards my head.....LOL
*throws a shoe*
So it wouldn't bother you if you found out your partner was regularly cybering with another man and keeping it from you? I'd be pretty annoyed if that happened to me.
If I caught my hubby cybering with another man I would be more than annoyed!
Smiley Guru
Quote by ali2teaseu
If I caught my hubby cybering with another man I would be more than annoyed!
Even if he believes he was cybering with a woman, he most likely was cybering with another man.
Active Ink Slinger
CYBERING IS CHEATING if it is kept a secret, whether it is with a man or a woman. If you and your significant other both agree to it then so be it .
------------>throwing a big shoe at baker
LOL
------------>throwing a big shoe at baker
LOL 
Tech Moddess AKA Danger Kat ;)
Throws a big shoe with my good hand!
I'll Be Home For Christmas - Holly spends Advent preparing for Nick's return.
Active Ink Slinger
Good for you Tech! Glad to see you!
Tech Moddess AKA Danger Kat ;)
Quote by fystee
CYBERING IS CHEATING if it is kept a secret, whether it is with a man or a woman. If you and your significant other both agree to it then so be it .
------------>throwing a big shoe at baker
AMEN!
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Tech Moddess AKA Danger Kat ;)
Quote by fystee
Good for you Tech! Glad to see you!
Thanks!
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Active Ink Slinger
if you are just entertaining yourself and not hurting either of the partners you are with, how can it be cheating. do you tell them every time you fantise while masterbating? is there ready muich of the difference?
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by baker992009
Cybering is not cheating. All you are doing is masturbating; and all guys do that...(well 95% admit to it) I don't know about women. Women do have a much lower sex drive by all surveys I have seen. They force us to meet our needs through masturbation.
I had better duck now. I can already see the shoes headed towards my head.....LOL
Damn, straight, buster...
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One goes... WHACK... DARN!!!
the other: DAAAAAARRRRRNNNNN..... WHACK... *Bloody red stain on the ground*