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signs of cheatin/infidelity???

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people i would like to know your opinions on what are some typical signs of you being a victim of your partners deception...cheating is a no no but we all experience it!!...so let me hear your stories!
1. Secretive phone-calls/texting/computer use. One of my friends' had a guy that would literally take his phone with him into the bathroom when he showered.

2. Decreased interest in sex with you, while having an increased interest in improving/upgrading their looks (ie. working out more, buying new sexy panties or outfits that she clearly isn't wearing for you).

3. Unusual showering patterns (ie. showering after coming home or random showers before supposedly going to run errands. Again, it would just have to be something out of the norm to whatever their typical pattern is).

4. Emotional distance.

5. Suddenly talking a lot about someone you don't know, or bringing up someone's name often (ie. the new guy at work, or this new 'friend' from the gym).

6. Change of pattern in terms of going out more often or staying out later than usual.

7. Potentially guilty behaviours... ie. buying flowers, gifts after periods of emotional distance.

8. When that person starts projecting and starts accusing YOU of cheating or starts acting suspicious. In many instances, people who are cheating tend to start suspecting/accusing their partner of the same thing.
Dancing doll covered a lot of the big ones.

The cell phone is the biggest give away. When they won't part with it around you or even hide it from you. The battery always being dead on it when you're around. If you suspect your partner of cheating "accidently" forget your phone and ask to use theirs to look stuff up a lot. If they are cheating they'll get really nervous a text will come in while you're using it.

Also if your partner starts picking fights with you to get out of hanging out with you. If they start fights then need they're distance for a couple of days, look out.
Secretive phone-calls/texting/computer use.


Didn't we have a discussion/thread about whether online chatting/talking etc. was cheating?
yeah. Last I checked, most people still think cybering is cheating.
My ex showed all of those signs, DD. Those are good tips.
When your boyfriend comes home and you catch him washing his dick in the sink! That's a sure one!


And Chef....I think Doll is saying that secretive texting/computer use is A SIGN of cheating. Not that it is cheating in itself.