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The Resident Princess
My biggest flaw....I don't believe in Me....this creates a whole lotta other flaws, but in reading this thread I realized all of them I think are big have to to with confidence and the fact that I let people treat me like crap because I wanted to be wanted.....HAHAHA joke is on you....I am 38 and trying to overcome this....I WANT ME....so now to believe.
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modesty lol
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I have so many flaws that I sincerely think that we might as well call it my humanity
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Very loyal to the ones I care about, which makes me sound needy or controlling.
Lol i laughed reading all these normal people. I at times have skimmed over all or most if those flaws. My biggest and most would be i am so hard to really get to know. I keep everything closed and only let small things out. I have regretted this so many times but my friends are truly people i love. Also stubborn, pride, out spoken at times when it comes to my family and holding hurt in until explodes
so i pretty much stick to the computer
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Being blunt. I have almost no filter. Don't ask me a direct question and expect me to sugarcoat it. I can't lie if my life depended on it.
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Not contacting Lucy much sooner, maybe I could've spared her some hurt feelings.. I love you pussycat ...
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My biggest flaw? I don't sugar coat things, I tend to say what I mean. People are constantly trying to figure out what I am telling them when I am telling them exactly what am trying to tell them (I'm not sure if that makes sense but its what I mean...lol).
I try to be too tolerant and then when I blow it is like a nuclear nightmare and the other person is always shocked because I allowed them to think for too long that I would take their antics when I should have nipped it in the bud earlier. Ignore. Ignore and then Chernobyl. I should have been more honest and then maybe we could have worked it out.EJuOcxGXaA9B4KVK
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Overall, I'd say apathy. It's pretty much the precursor to all of my flaws. I posted earlier that my biggest flaw is easily being able to drop people out of my life once I'm wronged. Also a deeply-rooted stubbornness allows me to do this, even if I hurt myself in the process.
But it all goes back to how quickly and easily I can become apathetic. Perhaps it's a defense mechanism. But once I don't care, I don't care.
But it all goes back to how quickly and easily I can become apathetic. Perhaps it's a defense mechanism. But once I don't care, I don't care.
"What is the quality of your intent?" - Thurgood Marshall
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Being distant with my friends and family too often.
Hard to say....I have so many....
I'd say it's the stubbornness/apathy/distance thing....I also tend to "gunnysack" things a little too much (meaning I let things that bother me build up and then, when I've hit my limit, blow up....giving little or no warning to the person I blew up against). I tend to expect a lot of what I think people SHOULD know....and get frustrated when they don't. Although I'm getting better at this.
I'd say it's the stubbornness/apathy/distance thing....I also tend to "gunnysack" things a little too much (meaning I let things that bother me build up and then, when I've hit my limit, blow up....giving little or no warning to the person I blew up against). I tend to expect a lot of what I think people SHOULD know....and get frustrated when they don't. Although I'm getting better at this.
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I care too much. I know I shouldn't. I keep telling myself not to. I just can't help myself. People keep asking me, Why do you care? I don't have an answer for them. It's A curse. I know I have many other faults. But this is the one that bothers me the most.94VSMm1CaPq8PS7q
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Pushing people away when I feel they get too close
Sort that one out!
I didn't and it cost me big time.