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My ability to empathize is both a strength and my biggest flaw. It makes my heart too big of a target.
? A True Story ?
To opinionated at times with a sarcastic point of view when dealing with the public. Its not a flaw, but a hindrance...however I sleep soundly.
I simply cant pick just one .. someone else or even others likely could.
Sometimes I engage my mouth before my brain. I'm also in the habit of telling people the truth instead of keeping quite or telling a good lie.
Arrogance.
(If you need a longer explanation, then you are obviously too stupid to understand one, anyway.)
I tend to take over in every situation. If someone tells me a problem they're having, I have to solve it for them. I invariably take charge in every context if someone else doesn't step in and beat me to it. My ego is enormous and I always think I know better than anyone else what is the right thing to do. I'm also an insufferable narcissist! I'm overly in love with myself, even though I try to appear modest and self-effacing to others, knowing my own glaring flaws all too well.
Impatient, (notice,I didn't even have the patience to type very impatient)
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I tend to take over in every situation. If someone tells me a problem they're having, I have to solve it for them. I invariably take charge in every context if someone else doesn't step in and beat me to it. My ego is enormous and I always think I know better than anyone else what is the right thing to do. I'm also an insufferable narcissist! I'm overly in love with myself, even though I try to appear modest and self-effacing to others, knowing my own glaring flaws all too well.

In the movie "Network News" there is the following exchange between Holly Hunter's character and her boss (paraphrased, of course):

Boss: It must be wonderful to always be the smartest person in the room.
Hunter: No, it's awful!

I can relate.
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I tend to take over in every situation. If someone tells me a problem they're having, I have to solve it for them. I invariably take charge in every context if someone else doesn't step in and beat me to it. My ego is enormous and I always think I know better than anyone else what is the right thing to do. I'm also an insufferable narcissist! I'm overly in love with myself, even though I try to appear modest and self-effacing to others, knowing my own glaring flaws all too well.



Tell me: Is your real name Sheldon Cooper by any chance?
Mine?

Asking to many highly impertinent questions of otherwise perfect females.
I have a problem with saying no. I don't just mean sex but that too. I am shy in that way. It seems strange describing myself as shy when I am kind of a sex addict LOL

I just go along with what ever the other person wants. I need to be more assertive.
Leaving the commode seat down when I drain the wizard
How awful my self esteem is. I wish I could see myself the way others see me.. But when ever I look in the mirror I just start to calculate all of my flaws. Quite depressing.
Most definitely my lack of attention to detail! I over look things very easily, and it makes life VERY difficult.
My biggest flaw is that I have a very negative outlook on life.
Very impatient and stubborn...
Being overly patient.
In reading some of the answers I have more than I thought LOL..

In getting older my patience has thinned out.
One thing that has stuck with me for a long time is "I forgive way to easy"
My trust factor is not up to par like it used to be. Been hurt a couple of times.

I am working on these three things....
I tend to try to please everyone, often at the expense of myself.
I think my biggest flaw Is the fact that I know I'm a "nice" person. Everyone always tells me about how nice and accepting I am and I often use the fact that I know people are comfortable around me, and would never expect bad things from me to in turn do bad things.
Though it is something I would now choose not to change, I know my biggest flaw is that I wear my emotions too openly. I have tried not to and I finally just accepted that it is who I am. I cry at a drop of a hat, but I also radiate happiness....... No second gear.
I'm much too sensitive
I'm passive to the point that I would probably make a good tree sloth.
That famous line from Othello, "...One who loved not wisely but too well."
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Smelling??? just a suggestion

I have none..they call me Poppins..practically perfect in every way


I posted that ages ago! .. I am sure you could have come up with more than that about me.

Poppins by the way is a high street cafe and they dont have pizzas on the menu.

You are 'practically perfect in every way'? .. ok since its your birthday I wont disagree but I will re-quote tomorrow and add my views lol.
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I have a problem with saying no. I don't just mean sex but that too. I am shy in that way. It seems strange describing myself as shy when I am kind of a sex addict LOL

I just go along with what ever the other person wants. I need to be more assertive.




I am much the same in the sense I am shy in public and won't aproch yet here it seams easy and free from judgment but that's where my flaw is being to open to my own thoughts and desires sometimes has me in more trouble than it's worth lol
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I posted that ages ago! .. I am sure you could have come up with more than that about me.

Poppins by the way is a high street cafe and they dont have pizzas on the menu.

You are 'practically perfect in every way'? .. ok since its your birthday I wont disagree but I will re-quote tomorrow and add my views lol.


WOW add old to your flaws LOL. I havent seen a Poppins Cafe in years, last one I knew of was in Uxbridge and used to have Mr Wimpy roaming around to get you to go eat there instead..FYI only 1 Wimpy that I know of now exists and its in Addlestone...lucky me as I do love a Wimpy.
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I would say my biggest flaws are indecisiveness and fear of rejection.

I prefer others to make decisions (what film to see, what restaurant to eat at, when/where to have sex).