Have you ever cheated? Been cheated on?

Caught my ex husband in bed with an intern. it did not end well for him. My last ex didn't really cheat. I knew she went to watch. I can't blame her for trying.

No, but I've been the other woman many times. It's just easier to get what I want with someone already prescreened by another woman and not have to worry about some of the things one typically might have concerns about with single men.

yes i lived wise guilt

Yes.

I can’t really say I have ever been in a relationship where I didn’t feel free to do whatever I wanted with whoever I wanted to do it with, so no, I’ve never cheated. I may feel a little sorrow for anyone who ever thought we were in an exclusive type relationship. They would have been sorely mistaken. I guess I shouldn’t say that I feel I’ve therefore ever been cheated on. My first husband and I did divorce so he could marry the Mother of his child, but I think we reconciled that issue to everyone’s satisfaction, maybe you would say delight after a couple years.

While I hate to admit it, yes, I cheated while married. While I'm not trying to justify my actions, I will say that my Ex went through cancer twice: uterine (chemo, age 27) and breast (single mastectomy, age 37). She was never the same woman after her mastectomy.

I suppose that must involve a marriage or a committed relationship to be considered cheating. It also, it seems, is contingent on the other person’s definition of the relationship. I have never cheated…at least by my definition. Others have considered my fucking around as cheating but I don’t live my life by others rules or definitions. I have come to prefer being with who I want to when I want to and avoid constraints created by others. There are reasons for the way I think which I will not expand upon as they are nobody’s business.