Have you ever cheated? Been cheated on?

Caught my ex husband in bed with an intern. it did not end well for him. My last ex didn't really cheat. I knew she went to watch. I can't blame her for trying.

No, but I've been the other woman many times. It's just easier to get what I want with someone already prescreened by another woman and not have to worry about some of the things one typically might have concerns about with single men.

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Yes.

I can’t really say I have ever been in a relationship where I didn’t feel free to do whatever I wanted with whoever I wanted to do it with, so no, I’ve never cheated. I may feel a little sorrow for anyone who ever thought we were in an exclusive type relationship. They would have been sorely mistaken. I guess I shouldn’t say that I feel I’ve therefore ever been cheated on. My first husband and I did divorce so he could marry the Mother of his child, but I think we reconciled that issue to everyone’s satisfaction, maybe you would say delight after a couple years.

While I hate to admit it, yes, I cheated while married. While I'm not trying to justify my actions, I will say that my Ex went through cancer twice: uterine (chemo, age 27) and breast (single mastectomy, age 37). She was never the same woman after her mastectomy.

I suppose that must involve a marriage or a committed relationship to be considered cheating. It also, it seems, is contingent on the other person’s definition of the relationship. I have never cheated…at least by my definition. Others have considered my fucking around as cheating but I don’t live my life by others rules or definitions. I have come to prefer being with who I want to when I want to and avoid constraints created by others. There are reasons for the way I think which I will not expand upon as they are nobody’s business.

Yes I have cheated

Yes I've cheated twice

Yes I've cheated on my wife

No, never crossed that line. Haven't even seriously flirted with it. Been in one or two brief situations where the temptation of the (very) distant possibility of an affair presented itself - That is, if I had wanted to pursue that avenue, it would have still taken a good deal of work, but I could have potentially been able to get there if I was willing to invest the effort. The reality is, no one was simply throwing themselves at me, and I was reluctant to engage in the chase. At most, I may have considered it for longer than I probably should have and didn't immediately shut down the possibility (when I was younger, less mature, and we were going through a pretty rough patch), but I don't think I actually could do that to my wife. The fact that I was ever even slightly open to the idea still makes me feel guilty. I doubt I could handle a full-fledged affair. Whatever our issues, she doesn't deserve that kind of betrayal. Monogamy is a really high value for me in my relationship (despite what I might write about). And fortunately, I think we're on far more stable ground compared to earlier in our relationship when we were still very much figuring things out.

Yes, I have cheated, at least sexually. I have not had a full-blown affair, though, just hookups. Have I been cheated on? No idea, but I can't really see my partner doing that.

Yes