Edit: Im not asking this for personal advice, I just thought it would be an interesting question for people to answer
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How do you say "No"
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Just don’t say the word ‘no’….give him that look meaning the very same thing. It’s amazing how quickly things can change with a few lovely well placed kisses, but that’s just me....
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If the relationship is developed, he should get your 'hints' and not be offended when you indicate "No".
If it's still an evolving relationship then you may want to package the truth e.g. "I want you too Tiger, but let's save it for later, I've got to do...." Let's you say "No' whilst minimising risk of causing offence (I think).
Now, what did I do with my "Ann Landers Diploma"
If it's still an evolving relationship then you may want to package the truth e.g. "I want you too Tiger, but let's save it for later, I've got to do...." Let's you say "No' whilst minimising risk of causing offence (I think).
Now, what did I do with my "Ann Landers Diploma"
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"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
Alpha Blonde
Wow, I really struggled with this one! I literally don't think I have ever said 'No'!!
Knowing someone is turned on, usually turns me on as well...
And if not, it's still super easy to convince me... LOL
Knowing someone is turned on, usually turns me on as well...
And if not, it's still super easy to convince me... LOL
Quote by Dancing_Doll
Wow, I really struggled with this one! I literally don't think I have ever said 'No'!!
Knowing someone is turned on, usually turns me on as well...
And if not, it's still super easy to convince me... LOL
I agree with you on that one. The only time I have wanted to say no, was when it near to the end of my relationship with my ex.
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My ex's method was 'Did you want to keep that?'.... I can't say I recommend it, though....
Constant Gardener
Body language and/or facial expressions are decent, first level indicators.
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Just do it anyway you'll get in the mood once you get going!
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!
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Quote by gypsymothBecause the OP is female, asking about how to tell her significant other, that's a reasonable assumption. I wouldn't think that respecting the OP's actual gender when framing our answers qualified as sexist. Maybe I'm old-fashioned that way.
Absolutely amazing that most people have assumed that it is the woman who is not in the mood.
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Quote by ReallyHardQuote by gypsymothBecause the OP is female, asking about how to tell her significant other, that's a reasonable assumption. I wouldn't think that respecting the OP's actual gender when framing our answers qualified as sexist. Maybe I'm old-fashioned that way.
Absolutely amazing that most people have assumed that it is the woman who is not in the mood.
Ah, but you're supposed to give advice on how YOU say 'no', rather than how your ex used to say 'no'.
I'm sure all men aren't in the mood all the time. Or are they?
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Quote by Lisa
I'm sure all men aren't in the mood all the time. Or are they?
Well I don't know about all the other men, but I would have to say that personally I would be hard-pressed to names more than a handful of times I wasn't "in the mood" or at the very least, quite easily convinced to suddenly BECOME "in the mood" when in an active relationship.
I think it really depends on individual libido - and quite honestly mine has always been the more active than any of my partners.
The only time I've been with someone that I just can't get in the mood with was a soon-to-be-ex that I just couldn't stand anymore.
"I can resist everything except temptation." - Oscar Wilde
If no or I am not in the mood works then I would try ....
I'm really tired *not guaranteed to work*
I'm starting to spot or just about to get my monthlies *usually does the trick*
I feel bloated and gassy *again not guaranteed to work*
If all else fails, start picking on the partner about not doing housework
I'm really tired *not guaranteed to work*
I'm starting to spot or just about to get my monthlies *usually does the trick*
I feel bloated and gassy *again not guaranteed to work*
If all else fails, start picking on the partner about not doing housework
Artistic Tart
I don't turn a man down if he is in the mood unless there is some other reason I can't fuck at the time. Its just not the case, I love my sex just as much as any dude does.
hmm... saying no is hard for me, specially when it comes to the girl i love, anyway I could easily be on the mood with her 'cause I'm simply in love with her. Compensating her mood is not a problem with me, except if I'm really tired from work, I don't say No or anything, I would just fall asleep.F5LoIY8FvDob5IxM
english is my second language so please. bear with me lol
english is my second language so please. bear with me lol
Quote by SweetBitch
If no or I am not in the mood works then I would try ....
I'm really tired *not guaranteed to work*
I'm starting to spot or just about to get my monthlies *usually does the trick*
I feel bloated and gassy *again not guaranteed to work*
If all else fails, start picking on the partner about not doing housework
Your tired so I'll get on top and do most of the work
The monthlies, That's why we kept those ratty old bath towels
Bloated and gassy? I'll get the air freshener
Housework? I'll wash the sheets and make the bed in the morning
