Question and answer

I honestly don't have a "go to" move. I've never been good at seducing anyone. If anything, I'm a rank novice. However, I think my intense interest and curiosity in others, for some at least, helps me make a connection. And my intense sexuality and passion, for those who can handle me, keep them coming back for more.

What would it take for you to leave your current partner permanently? Is lack of emotional and physical intimacy enough?

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I honestly don't have a "go to" move. I've never been good at seducing anyone. If anything, I'm a rank novice. However, I think my intense interest and curiosity in others, for some at least, helps me make a connection. And my intense sexuality and passion, for those who can handle me, keep them coming back for more.

What would it take for you to leave your current partner permanently? Is lack of emotional and physical intimacy enough?

Interesting question… both probably

What made you love your partner and do you still feel the same?

I fell in love with my wife pretty much the first date. We walked and talked for hours. It was her beautiful self that caused me to lust after her but was the emotional and intellectual intimacy that caused me to fall in love with her. It's gone. Been gone a long time. We actually kind of just really brought everything to the surface last night and was super clear on what I needed to stay in this relationship. That was kind of what led to my last question here honestly. Working on restoring it but marriage is on last legs if things don't change dramatically and soon.

How important are friends in your life to act as a sounding board to help work through difficult situations?

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I fell in love with my wife pretty much the first date. We walked and talked for hours. It was her beautiful self that caused me to lust after her but was the emotional and intellectual intimacy that caused me to fall in love with her. It's gone. Been gone a long time. We actually kind of just really brought everything to the surface last night and was super clear on what I needed to stay in this relationship. That was kind of what led to my last question here honestly. Working on restoring it but marriage is on last legs if things don't change dramatically and soon.

How important are friends in your life to act as a sounding board to help work through difficult situations?

Used to be my friends were everything

Now it is my daughter

Who is your best friend?

Currently would be my Lush gf.

How many pets do you have?

None at present.

Have you ever had an exotic pet?

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None at present.

Have you ever had an exotic pet?

No but I had a friend who kept snakes I loved to hold them they were really interesting to feel.

Can serial cheaters change with the right person or are they just incapable of monogamy?

Incapable, imo

They'd be suited for being poly.

Can sex and love coexist in a relationship?

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Incapable, imo

They'd be suited for being poly.

Can sex and love coexist in a relationship?

Yes though I have yet to find it

I bet lots of people have sexy loving relationships

U confirmed my feelings in serials… makes me sad.

Why then do serial cheaters keep getting married? Why not remain single and just have multiple partners?

That's a topic for a coffee or something.

Serial cheaters getting married is normal, but that goes to show how communication is not there. Either one of them is not keeping the other happy. Cheating, imo, is when a need(s) isnt meant. Getting a divorce and moving on, that's a whole different thing.

Ever knowingly continued a relationship with someone who was married at that time?

Yes I have, we were both married. As an aside, I'd love to chat with you ladies (passionatemind22 and SexyFoolishNun101) further about the serial cheaters and monogamy question, perhaps worthy of a new forum thread. I probably have some insights to add there. If one of you create that thread clue me in. 😊

What feature of Lush do you use MOST? (e.g. Groups, Chat, Forum, DMs, etc)

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Yes I have, we were both married. As an aside, I'd love to chat with you ladies (passionatemind22 and SexyFoolishNun101) further about the serial cheaters and monogamy question, perhaps worthy of a new forum thread. I probably have some insights to add there. If one of you create that thread clue me in. 😊

What feature of Lush do you use MOST? (e.g. Groups, Chat, Forum, DMs, etc)

DM and chat

Do you sexy with people you met in the chat room?

Assuming sext was the intended word... I rarely use chat, but when I do, I kind of lurk and look at pictures. Far more likely to sext one-on-one via DM, and I honestly prefer to sharing real life stories and actual fantasies to sexting.

How did you achieve your first orgasm caused by another person? (e.g. licking, fucking, masturbation, vibrator, etc)

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Assuming sext was the intended word... I rarely use chat, but when I do, I kind of lurk and look at pictures. Far more likely to sext one-on-one via DM, and I honestly prefer to sharing real life stories and actual fantasies to sexting.

How did you achieve your first orgasm caused by another person? (e.g. licking, fucking, masturbation, vibrator, etc)

Haha sexy was the word but I might use sexy from now on

And your answer to my question? 😁

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And your answer to my question? 😁

I never have with another person

Has your partner ever been threatened by your use of toys in the bedroom?

No.

What is the best sex toy you have ever used?

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I never have with another person

Has your partner ever been threatened by your use of toys in the bedroom?

Oh no!! Totally unacceptable! Want help fixing that?

Best sex toy I've used so far is a wand with U-tip

Have you ever had sex with someone the first day you met them?

Yes.

HYE met a TV crush and got turned off by the interaction?

No. I have met a couple minor TV stars but they weren't ones I had a particular attraction to. Like the idea though!

HYE moved on from a relationship as a direct result of a new relationship?

Nope. I suppose it's possible but never happened.

HYE been hurt badly slipping on ice or other slippery surfaces?

Yes. The first woman I met IRL on Lush.

What do you dream about most often?

We had some overlap so I'll answer last two...

I've had some falls on ice but worst ice- or snow-related mishap was sledding down a hill, sled turned backwards, and hit a huge snow boulder someone had rolled down the hill. Hit my head hard on it, probably minor concussion but didn't get it checked out.

Different kinds of dreams darkroot... are you talking about sleeping dreams you wake up from sleep and remember having, fantasies, daydreams, life / business goals type of dreams, what kind?

Would you consider yourself more or less kinky than your everyday friends?

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We had some overlap so I'll answer last two...

I've had some falls on ice but worst ice- or snow-related mishap was sledding down a hill, sled turned backwards, and hit a huge snow boulder someone had rolled down the hill. Hit my head hard on it, probably minor concussion but didn't get it checked out.

Different kinds of dreams darkroot... are you talking about sleeping dreams you wake up from sleep and remember having, fantasies, daydreams, life / business goals type of dreams, what kind?

Would you consider yourself more or less kinky than your everyday friends?

More yet very quiet about it

More or less hair?

Less body hair. more head hair.

What's the most expensive outfit of clothing you've ever worn? (think designer threads)

I've donned tuxes a couple times (my wedding and my friend's). But those were rentals. Designer or fancy clothing isn't my thing.

Do you like "dressing up"?