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How would you feel about fucking a lesbian? Is it a turn on or would you be intimidated to go where no man has gone before?

(thinking about switching teams)
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Definitely a turn on! Men love the chase and chasing and catching a lesbian would be owesome!
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Only in the way that fucking a woman you're attracted to is a turn on.

I don't think men truly believe that woman are ever 100% lesbian - I think porn has a lot to answer for our perceptions of lesbians ;)

I can see where they're coming from though - why the hell have sex with a man when you could have sex with a woman - it's no contest really.
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Being a woman that has never been with a man or want to be with one. Women have all ways been a turn on for me. So I guess that makes me a real lesbian!
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Like what overmyknee said, if she is attractive then yeah, it would be a turn on. The fact that she is a lesbian does nothing for me in the way of making it more exciting. In fact, it might make it less exciting for me knowing that she isn't even that attracted to me if her preference is women. The whole male fantasy of 'turning' a lesbian is about as realistic as a man thinking he can turn a straight man gay.
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If that lesbian is Hot, it’s a turn on for me!
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If she is up for it, then hell yes I'll do it
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Very hot! smile

You're tapping into a lot of eroticism and latent desire there for many men :)

There are plenty of men out there who would love to make it a most pleasurable experience for you.
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Ermmm...the hugging/kissing parts are still yummy. But, i don't wanna see the rest. hahaha!! biggrin

(Ohh!! Its a guy's thread. SORRY!!)
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Agreeeed, I love the kissing part the most. :3 Although, I just love the concept of like, two hot lesbians together, such a turn on!
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Just feel like I should say... If she's gay that means you aren't gonna get any!

In my opinion, people waste a lot of time fantasizing about lesbians. Go join the bisexual line.
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YES maybe she will be bi after we are done
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ya a turn
but u got to try it to know for sure
The Linebacker
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It depends. I don't find butch's very attractive at all. And if she wants you to fuck her she's not a 100% lesbian but a bisexual.
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Most i have found don't play games and little more level headed which is a plus
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i would be down. obviously they love being penetrated with dildos and fingers, so why not my penis?
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Quote by Magical_felix
Like what overmyknee said, if she is attractive then yeah, it would be a turn on. The fact that she is a lesbian does nothing for me in the way of making it more exciting. In fact, it might make it less exciting for me knowing that she isn't even that attracted to me if her preference is women. The whole male fantasy of 'turning' a lesbian is about as realistic as a man thinking he can turn a straight man gay.







Totally agree with Felix
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A handful of years ago, before I'd ever even stumbled across Lush, I'd had an AdultFriendFinder personal ad running a slow troll through the churning waters of my local area.

I had changed my profile interests a few times over the previous few years, but at that moment I was a Straight Man in search of Women and interested in...

Discreet Relationships, 1-on-1 sex, Miscellaneous Fetishes, Other 'alternative' Activities and Group Sex (3 or more).

By placing too much on your profile, you ran the risk of scaring women off...but by not outlining what you were game for, you stood the chance of meeting vanilla cupcakes all the time...At least that was something I had figured out quickly.

Anyway, Mary replied to my ad. Mary identified herself as Bi-curious, in her profile...and she'd been a member for just a short two month timeframe. No photo's on her profile, which indicated to me that she was discreet, didn't have a scanner or digital camera or was as attractive as a mud fence.

In her 1st greeting to me, she claimed he was a volleyball coach at a local area high school, 40 years old...taking care of her long term partner (a 56 year old female whom she had been in a life-long, monogamous lesbian partnership with - the woman approached Mary when she was 18 and on the college volleyball squad, and they'd become fast friends). Her partner had developed some muscular degenerative disease at the age of 48 and there was little intimacy between the two of them for the last 6 years. Mary had become a caretaker and she still loved her partner...

But you can draw your own conclusions, just as I had to, as well.

Mary had never had penetrative sex with a man. No boys or men had ever even fingered her. She made out with just a very small number of young men before she decided that she was 100% lesbian and lived that way for the next 22 almost 23 years.

Mary was propositioning me to become her 1st fuck.

When I replied back, I informed her that I was flattered. I also replied that I'd never been with, to my knowledge... a virgin in that aspect and was quite hesitant. I ticked off a few of my reasons and ended the email with... My friends call me Jeff, maybe we can be friends first?

Mary sent back four photographs of herself.

She was Hot Bro. 5'10", blonde, blue eyed, racked and stacked, tanned, athletically lean and quite tasty looking. Lipstick femme was my first visual impression. My mind immediately swayed towards......... Um, well maybe I can, ummm, overlook my own bias just this once. There I was, 46 yrs old and thinking with my dick, again.

I replied with: "You're a very attractive woman, Mary...but you've lived as a lesbian your entire life. Your partner is still alive, I understand your sexual frustrations, but have you considered how you might feel if you cheated on her for the 1st time ever? I'd have to be that guy and then watch as you careened emotionally with demons which I had a hand in feeding.

I then reiterated a few key points to consider, such as... I was not looking for a life partner, but more a fuck buddy type of casual relationship, as I was still interested in pursuing more playmates. I wanted a stable of women to fuck...one for every day of the week, if possible. I attempted to paint myself as quite the rogue.

I was tossing her grenade back into a sack of crap and lobbing it back into her sports car. I knew it was risky, as I might have to actually man up at some point in time.

Mary was not to be put off. "Yes, I have thought long and hard about my decision. I first ran an ad on AFF 2 years ago and met a few men, but none of them, in the end...could pull the trigger, so-to-speak. They all wanted a trophy lesbian girlfriend, but had no clue how to give me a hard cock. I became disillusioned quickly, but the point now is I am fucking tired of my gawddamned Rabbit, no physical touching, being the nursemaid to my girlfriend who cannot really now remember even who I am...her death is imminent and I've made my peace with this too. Do not worry, I have considerable thought put into my searching and you won't be the first person I've had who has penetrated me, just the first one with a real, hard penis...which I hope to experience and then swallow your cum as you treat me like the whore I want to be treated like. Even if only for a night...or perhaps, I could be your Wednesday night slut?

Mary grabbed the bag of crap, with the grenade inside and loaded it into a mortar shell and fired it back across the bow of my aircraft carrier...knocking a flight of F-18 super hornets into my churning waters.

Now which man here could resist such bold talk and dare I say...confidence being issued forth and fucking challenging his masculinity?

Okay, so maybe there is some hyperbole on my part, but that is the basic crux of her last reply to me, before I caved and agreed to meet her...one week before xmas 2006.

While I was shopping at Bed Bath & Beyond. Ya gotta pick the right venue, don'tcha? I did not want alcohol to come into my decision, and I wanted her to feel as comfortable as possible too. Who knew...maybe we'd meet and (hopefully) she'd have a third eyeball growing under her left armpit or something. Mary could help me pick out presents for sisters-in-law, such as the proper bath towels or frilly scented soap baskets...and we could if nothing else, become friends.

No fucking sex to follow.

In the end she wore the DebonairRogue down. She did in fact assist me with purchasing Christmas gifts for all the females in my immediate family that evening...and she did indeed show me how she wanted to suck my cock, when she pulled her familiar Rabbit from her purse, while we were standing in an isolated area...expertly showing me that she'd been practicing her deep throat techniques with it... No gag reflex.

You guys know how long and thick those vibrating dildos are, right? The are slightly bigger than I am and she almost wrapped her lips around the whole fucking thing!

Back to my place as fast as I could check my cart full of gifts out.

Turns out, fucking Mary was like fucking a virgin for the 1st time. Tighter than hell...needed additional Astroglide...and reminded me of when I as 19 and messing around with 17 and 18 year old young women. Had not clue one how to move or glide or grind or thump and I felt as if I was going to break her in half...with all her shrieking, finger nail clawing - I think she dug furrows in my upper shoulder blades!

In short...the worst fucking sexual experience I'd endured in over 25 years.

Mary loved it. She started climaxing the moment I got myself fully inside of her...three strokes and she had turned into Linda Blair's character in The Exorcist. Complete with head spinning 360 degrees and calling me a fucking mother fucking mother fucker! She had to learn about talking sexy too...and I wasn't really in the mood, at 46 years of age...to break a virgin in...and train her...to my preferences. Even a woman as fucking fine looking as Mary was/is.

She wanted to spend the night cuddling. I wanted no such thing as I could tell where this was heading...Mary was in-fucking-faturated to the Nines, and already calling me her version of pet names...sweetykins, honeypie, babydooodle, sugarbritches, etc...

I had done gone and fucked up but fucking good, gentlemen.

I managed to convince her that I was one who woke up at 4 am...(in 6 short hours) to get ready and be in my office by 5:30 for work. And that she'd sleep a lot better in her own bed, etc. I practically had to push her out of my house with a scoop shovel, then hold her hand to walk her to her car in my driveway.

Teen infatuation in full bloom. She was striving to become my Wednesday, Thursday and Friday night slut whore bitch!

I had violated the Rogue's rule number 1. Some fantasies are better left - a fantasy. And hell was left to pay, yet.

Mary pestered me every day and night for the next three weeks, until I finally answered her 47th phone call one evening and just laid it all on the line.

"Mary, you're a lovely person, but you're too fucking much for me. This is not what I wanted and told you before hand...I was not relationship material at this point in my life...you're a likeable and personal woman...and very sexy...and you'll make the right fellow extremely fortunate. But I am not the right fellow...Let's be friends. Not to put this all behind us...what happened happened, but I'm seeing three other women (I wasn't) and between them and you...I am flat worn out...in a good way, but still...you're wanting a 24x7 relationship, and I am not."

She got that message.

Last I heard from Mary via email in the late spring of 2007...she was engaged to be married to a man from Omaha...some 180 miles away from our town. I wished her the best of luck...and she disappeared from everything but my memory.

Dudes...some fantasies are best left...right inside your brains.
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not always to be frank...
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If one is a lesbian, then no. If you are only turned on by other women, then stay on the team. If bi, then there's room.
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Would give/pay a lot for some more lesbian fun! lol Threesome... Its always a good laugh with me! ahah
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Personally, I don't think having carnal realtionships with a lesbian would be a turn on. I've often been accused of not being wired correctly and more feminine then most men. If a women is a lesbian, then she really doesn't get any satisfaction by having relationships with a man so where's the fun in that? Sure, if she's attractive I'm going to get aroused and be able to bang her brains out, but deep down I know that she's just going through the motions and not truly enjoying whatever pleasures I dispense.

It all sounds rather depressing to me.
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Would not be threatened at all. If there is attraction and something to learn ftom one another its all good.
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definately a turn on.
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How can i put it... If she is interested (and not butch-looking)... Hell, yesss!!!
Actually, about ten years ago, had the pleasure of enjoying the company of a lesbian couple, guess I may have been a novelty for them.
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Yeah, and I'd teach her to be hetrosexual, over and over again!
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Quote by sexyinnNH
How would you feel about fucking a lesbian? Is it a turn on or would you be intimidated to go where no man has gone before?

(thinking about switching teams)


Fucking a lesbian? No, not interested.

Making love to a lesbian, letting her feel my tongue tasting her tongue, circling her nipples, teasing her clit; letting her feel my hands caressing her cheek, roaming her body, caressing her curves, exploring her crevices; well these are just a few of the things I would love for a lesbian to experience.
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Only the lesbians on this site. All the lesbians I've personally known are pretty butch and totally unsavory!
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The seems to be a big misconception with guys and lesbians, guys seem to have this fantasy that its really horney, when really, its just two people having sex the same as anybody else. Another thing guys dont seem to realise is that lesbians, are not fucking intrested, we are absolutely no use to them, and they dont want us to be involved lol, so its really a misplaced fantasy. All that being said, bi-curious, and bi-sexual can be really hot, especially if the willing to bring some fun your way, and at least you know that they have an interest and find you attractive, unlike lesbians ;)