Hi ladies,
I have spoken to a few people on here and other sites over the course of a few years, and I am always shocked by the amount of women who say they have had partners who objected to them using or even owning toys.
I personally enjoy using them as a couple, or knowing that she can make use of them if I am away, I don't see them as a threat, but there are clearly guys out there who do.
My question is, how many of you have had partners who objected, and what was their level of objection. Although I don't think this should just be a negative thread, if you have had a guy who supported your use of them, share your experiences as well ladies.
Well. Having only had 1 sexual partner I'm not a fair guide for this thread. However hubby has always bought me toys to try out and he seems to love the fact I also use them alone. Maybe I'm one of the lucky ones.
Deb. X
I have had a few boyfriends before I got married but I don't remember if any of them got upset about me having a few toys.
No one has ever dared objecting me using them
I have never come across a man who objected to toys.
The response has usually been delighted enthusiasm! Rather than feeling threatened, partners have felt that my toys have taken any performance pressure off them and made things more relaxed and playful.
When I was married, my husband didn't get mad that I had toys (one of his only good qualities). And since my divorce, BF and GF didn't mind either, especially the girls, LOL!!
My sisters ex got really upset when she bought a vibrator, guess he felt threatened by it, probably with reason! HAHA
Well - I like big toys.
Needless to say - the small guys don't always find that thrilling. They're rather something more to their size gets me off.
Which means we just weren't on the same page and such a relationship wouldn't work since - without serious love - things are mostly about sex and what kind of movies you like.
I bought my wife a sex toy hoping that she would let me watch he play with herself. Sadly she won't.
Toys dont bother me one bit. Whether the lady is using something on herself or on me it doesnt matter as long as we have fun. I do know that some women use toys when there partner is out of town and that shouldnt be a problem at all.
I would think it unusual for a woman not to own at least one. Sometimes I prefer to masturbate over having sex and, I assume some women may be the same. Additionally, I think of them as my helper sometimes during foreplay with my wife. And on top of that, they can last longer than me!!!!!
My former wife wouldn't entertain the use of sex toys - for her or me.
Subsequent to my marriage, I've enjoyed using them with partner's and even repaired a 'rabbit' for one of them ! We had to ensure, of course, that the repairs were durable.
Honestly, it is none of any man's business whether I have one toy or a dozen, and what he doesn't know he can't worry about
I have had 3 serious relationships in my life, first one loved toys etc and even bought me one, second guy was intimidated by them because he thought i would leave him for the toy and hated me having them, third guy when he gets pissed would order online different sex toys and not remember he had done so and one time he sent me two of the same toy hahaha! To be honest I have only used toys with the first guy but i HATE a guy penetrating my pussy with a toy it just doesn't feel right and i would much rather do it myself when alone and use his wonderful 8 inch cock when he was with me!
Everything happens for a reason. Live for the moment and have no regrets.
So for me before I had tried them myself I asked my then boyfriend what he thought about us trying a vibrator because, well naturally I was curious and wanted to see what the fuss was about.
I was his first sexual partner and I guess because I was more experienced than he was he took the suggestion as me thinking he wasn't good enough in bed. He really couldn't see the benefits and the fun it could bring and completely disregarded the idea in case in enjoyed the vibe more than him.
On another note though since splitting from him I have now got quite a collection of bedroom goodies and my current boyfriend encourages me to buy whatever I want so we can use them together.
So yeah, experienced both points of views with partners and I'm so glad my bf now is pro toys !
If you say so babes. the problem though with any tackle is it doesnt also vibrate 
