What you think "best" means is open to interpretation. It could be the most memorable, best orgasm, most fun to be with, etc. I just wanna hear some fun stories.
Brandie (NOLAHotGal) my wife of 37 years and 36 as my sub. I would rate her sexuality in the top 3 to 5% nation wide. Her profile is a pretty good description of her sexuality.
Nawty
Im still to meet her but if I can describe my ideal lover, She would be curvy with a nice bald plump pussy and 36c boobies, adventurous and spontaneous, with a personality to match
The effort and that mean all the things you mention and more. Time, sex, touching, laughing, memories, and the family one makes together(dont' have to have kid to have a family or a home). All these things have to be taken into account to figure out who was your best lover.
My wife! Now I've had some great times with other lovers, but they don't sleep and live with me. Love can and does happen literally any moment of the 24 hr. day. We cater to each other sexually, hoping doing this will make our lover perform better. I know how to make her cum fast. She knows how to get me off quick. We know how to make a fuck last 90 minutes as well!