Like Cathy stated above, it's difficult to do with people you are still getting to know. I don't like to wonder if what I say or how I react is okay with them. I think it takes some advance communication and understanding of the persons ideas and kinks before moving into the rp. It can be awkward if you don't really know if what you say or do is a turn on for the other person(s).
Now, with that said, I like the common everyday, casual settings of just meeting friends and having lunch or shopping and getting aroused by something simple or indirect and things lead to a hot and wicked sexual frenzy! For some people, that takes a lot of build up to but the inuendos and hints along the way need to be tactful and very casual...
I also like dealing with age differences since I fall in the middle now. I can be the older desired woman or the younger woman learning how kinky the older neighbors are and how they seduce me!
Les and BI are always good for me and I really enjoy first time experiences for new and younger couples!
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Steph
I'm surpurised I haven't seen this thread yet!
As you can tell, I'm pretty well equipped for this! LOL!
But I do get a lot of enjoyment with the whol act. Not just the fucking but the rubbing of his cock on my sensitive nipples and the licking and teasing before, during and afterwards.
I think that most people feel it is only for the guys but I've had other girlfriends tell me how much they enjoy it as well! We've all shared how it feels to hold him there and to tease him and watch his expressions as he fucks our boobs. It's also somewhat powerful for us knowing their desire and how we can do certian things that make them loose control and cum!
Yes! it is something I enjoy but even more so with another busty girlfriend and a well endowed guy who we can share! How about it Nikki? Cathy? Jenni? or anyone else?
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Steph
If it wasn't for her ^ I wouldn't have such a fun place to cum to!
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I don't like it on my face!
Maybe in my mouth but mostly on my boobs or on my buns but usually anywhere but my face or hair.
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For Hubby and special friends, I enjoy keeping them in me and feeling them get hard again to go another round!
Others I enjoy seeing them cum on me and I love to play with their cocks and get them hard again! I may be just touching but mostly enjoy sucking and licking them and getting them full and hard to go for it!
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Steph
Oh God! Some pretty wicked B & W's here!
Thanks to all who are posting!
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Steph
And I believe the man will enjoy watching the woman enjoy herself playing with his cum!
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A gal's gotta enjoy herself too!
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Yes! or on my bum! I like to feel it and see it so I can also play with it and see how the guys like to watch!
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Neither!
On my Boobs!
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jerseylynn is absolutely correct about it being just for the enjoyment of two people!
However, Hubby and I do have relationships with our FB's outside of the bedroom. But part of that is our lifestyle and the arrangements made in advance. Plus the fact that we know each others FB's and get along just helps.
But for the average person or couples, I think it is helpful but without clear communication with all parties, it can be potential for disaster!
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Steph
I'm sure this doesn't apply to many but since we are in the lifestyle, we enjoy this somewhat frequently.
I really enjoy being with another man when my Hubby can be with the man's wife or significant other.
It may sound strange but it's almost like a competition to see who can better pleasure the other couple and drive them crazy!
I know my Hubby loves to watch me with another guy, just like I love to see him with another woman!
For me, it's knowing what he does and how he feels but also how the other woman reacts to his techniques and skills.
Hubby tells me that is similar for him watching me with another guy. Knowing it turns him on, lets me really try to put on a good show for him and make the guy I'm with really happy!
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Are you Kidding?
Tami-licious is really Hot!
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And she is the one who gets me WET!!!
I noticed that the Black and Whites or the photos with more stark contrasts seem to be more erotically stimulating than the regualr color photos!
Thanks to all who have posted!
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Steph
Good God! Abby's account is almost identical to mine!
I fly frequently around the world and on one trip back from the UK, I had orderd some custom made nipple rings that coil around the nipple like golden springs. The shop that made them was in the UK and I couldnt pick them up the night before as they got backed up on other jobs ahead of me. So the day my flight was leaving, I went to the shop and tried on the rings and had them adjusted to fit. I decided to wear them and get used to them so I wore them back to the hotel. I also got some other naughty items I've wanted and wore them out as well.
When I got back to my hotel, I thought I would have a few hours to relax, and take a swim but I found out that my schedule had been changed and I needed to get packed and ready to leave within the hour!
As you can imagine, I did so and forgot to remove the nipple coils and also the waist chain and clit clip before heading out to the airport!
Well, I got in line for the check and it was getting cold. My nipples started to harden and I realized I still had the coils on and the clit clip and chains! I was up next and couldn't turn back as my computer and other items had already gone through the X-ray scan so as I was called up, I asked if I could have a private search with a female agent. I got strange looks from the staff there as they were all male, and I was moved aside and escorted into the private inspection area.
I was already nervous about missing my flight and I was trying to explain to the male agent who was wanding me that I had some body jewelry I would remove and show if he would get a female agent! He seemed to ignore me and I got frustrated! I could tell the male agent was getting aroused and could see my nipples poking my blouse as I wasn't wearing a bra and I could also see he was amused at my frustration.
Finally, after a basic and lingering pat-down, I just thought to myself, "the Hell with it!" and started to undo the buttons on my blouse. I got the sleeves undone and all the buttons in the front and as I started to remove the blouse, a female agent came in and gasped. The male agent saw my naked boobs and was smiling like a chesire cat and the female officer yelled at him to leave!
She chased him out and apologized for the situation and asked me if I wanted to file a formal complaint. I said "no" and just wanted to get this done and make my flight. She was now standing in front of me and finally looked down at my boobs and saw my nipple coils and then smiled. When she looked back up at me, she asked if I was down in Bristol. I said yes. Then she asked if I purchased anything else. I then remembered the chain and clip and said "yes". She smiled more and I raised my skirt and spread my legs, ( don't wear panties), and she laughed. I explained my situation and she asked me if I had anything else she should "KNOW" about, and I said no. She started to write some notes down on a clipboard.
She then advised me to strip down to remove all the jewelry and gave me a clear bag that was marked with the TSA or security logo. I did so and then she then did her pat down, much like Abby's agent did to her and even lingered on my boobs and it seemed like she purposely rolled my nipples in the coils to get a reaction. It felt like she took extra time to "feel" my bum and examine between my legs before gliding a wand over all of me again.
She finished and told me to get dressed and took the clear bag. After I was dressed, she escorted me outside and had my belongings placed onto a cart and drove me to the gate so I would not miss my flight. She stayed there watching me get cleared to board and then handed me my "contraband" bag and smiled as I turned and left.
When I got on the plane I tossed my carry-on in the overhead but kept my computer bag with me as I sat in my seat. I was about to place the bag of my new jewelry into a pocket in my computer bag when I found a card inside. I opened the bag and found it was a note from the agent. I stated that her "friends" ran the custom shop and she was one of the models for some of the displays. If I ever return to the U.K. look her up and she would be happy to show me some of the custom items they made for her!
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Steph
Has a beautiful profile pic and makes me wish I was there with her too!
(Thank you for your kind words too!)
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Steph
chef,
I believe it comes from the individual persons upbringing but also the lack of self confidence and the ability to be successful on their own, without a mate! Male or Female!
I have seen too many women who could not change and grow with the times and were never prepared to be on their own, so they are lost when their marriages crumbled apart. Part of that is also due to the relationship with their husbands in keeping the woman as subserviant rather than equal partners.
Nowdays, it's almost mandatory for women to find some way to establish themselves as an individual. But I bet the answers are different from woman to woman and they results would be startling
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Sy
Disagree!
I believe the MILF's / Cougar's/ and Mature Women have become more desirable these days!
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Steph
Ha! Dancing Doll read my mind!
But anywhere and anytime it hits me, I need to take care of it!
Whether I am alone or with someone, I take care of it!
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Steph
By All means! Where should we start?
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Comes from an area of Switzerland I have yet to visit!
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He has some tastefull and intriguing photos in his profile!
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The most is well over a dozen times! But it was the beginning of long weekend and a short week of vacation and partying!
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No.
Closest I get to that is some phone sex or maybe a lover may send me some pics but I don't keep them. Too much to risk if it's found by someone else!
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