Personally? Yes.
I'm certain that the has some thrill adding to the desires and sex!
But like all who are replying, we are slaves to our bodies desires!
Hopefully, everyone had good sex and no problems afterwards!
And we hopefully will never let it happen again!
(Yeah! Right! LOL!)
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Steph
Horney and Desperate are two different things in people! Married or not!
Women and men are both suseptible to this if they don't have good communications and true love in their relationships!
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Steph
Yes! Nikki! I love the Lelo Soraya as well!
But I have to add a few things here like my trusty purple double dildo, my Fantasy Glide, a Sybian with all the accessories, a Medusa vibe, a Super rabbit, and some special custom made toys as well!
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Nikki,
I have seen these first hand and it was at a party where someone brought it in to get others opinions.
They are nice for the guys of lessor endowments but they don't feel all that much better than a strap on or a dildo to many of us.
I believe it was our mindset that it was not a "free reign" on the design like some of the dildos out there and the fact that it is somewhat hollow to allow a guy to wear it. So it didn't really feel right.
But this was more of a party situation and we probably weren't really taking it as seriously as a couple who are looking to help or enhance their situation.
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Steph
Run my fingers through his hair...
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Guilty!
Have you ever seduced a coworker?
I recall the thread Curlygirl posted the link to.
But for the sake of this thread, I will state that it depends on my mood and the situation,
I can sometimes climax in 2-3 minutes if I'm really horney!
Other times, I enjoy the build up and need to let it come to me in waves!
It's always better with someone to help!
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Steph
Hubby does some of the same to me that DD stated.
Another thing he will do is bring his knees up and lift his hips so I can't raise up. Or if he does it right, he will lift me up and just hold me where his cockhead is barely touching me and I start squirming and wanting that to fill me.
Once he has me going crazy, he usually has control of himself and then resumes.
Later, he will pump into me and bounce me off his hips so he pops out and rubs his cock against the crack of my bum for a while and I grind against him before trying to slip him back and into me.
It can be annoying and frustrating some of the things he does but it keeps us going!
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Steph
We have a couple and I love them but hate them!
I don't wear panties or thongs unless I have to.
At Christmas time, Hubby makes me wear my favorite pearl strand thong but has me insert a couple of bullets or eggs that are remote controled.
I get so crazy knowing we can't play but he has the control and drives me crazy with all our families around and it just makes me hornier!
They are great but often need batteries replaced.
sorry! I can't tell you what brand as we've had ours awhile.
But you do need to spend a little more money for ones that work well and last a long time!
We've had ours for years and the remote range is only from across a room. Maybe 25 feet?
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Steph
I just love how much more sensual Black and Whites are!
So much more erotic and mentally arousing!
Thank you all for posting!
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Steph
Okay...
Zoe, your threads are all vague.
I believe you need to share more details and we will be better able to add more variety and fun to your posts.
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Steph
The lightly pressed ones against the back of my ear or down the side and back of my neck.
The ones that linger on my nipples and start out very light then go into full on suction!
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Steph
Well, well, well! Funny to find myself under Mr. President and talking about my boobs! LOL!
Mine go from very hard and firm to soft and full. Unless you are a gal, most guys don't understand the changes a woman's body goes through during different times of the month!
I almost always need to wear a bra! But I prefer not to if possibel
With my large nipples, they feel so sensitive and get hard rubbing up against the fabric of my blouses or shirts and I love it!
But the weight of my boobs need support so I often wear a shelf bra or something modified like them!
Other times, I really enjoy letting the girls swing free! Especially if I'm on all fours!
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Steph
My Bra sizes fluctuate depending on the time of the month. (Seriously Guys!!!)
Anyways, I run between a 38 FF to a 38 G
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My moods vary depending on the situation.
I can always enjoy some of the current soft core or slightly older stuff you used to see on Cinemax. Something about the way they were videoed makes them more enjoyable, even if the stories or some of the actors were too campy or over the top!
Classic Porn from the 70's, 80's and early 90's were pretty good. Decent story lines and not too much fake bodies yet.
Modern Porn isn't that great and too much in your face!
I prefer to watch the amateur stuff and see real people having fun and getting it on without B.S.
As for themes? Mostly couples, and Lesbian. I enjoy more of the mature women in charge as well as the MILF / Cougar stuff.
Some of the exotic travel sex and group stuff is always fun! Love watching real swingers in outdoors or real places other than inside a studio,
I've really found some of the online masturbation sites very enjoyable as well!
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Steph
I have to say the Europeans are much more open about sexuality and the pursuit of sexual pleasures.
The US is a contradiction. We advertise and promote through sexual images and inuendos but sex in general is still supposed to be behind closed doors and not spoken.
When Hubby and I work or travel around the world, it is more than a relief to get away from the U.S. in regards to attiutde and acceptance!
As for Kinky or dirty, the limit is only you mind and attitude!
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Steph
YES!!!
Whitney is definitely deserving of celebrity status!
Now if I can just get her alone! LOL!
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Steph
So are you saying you do it? Or are you asking about how to go about it?
Now from my perspective, you have to realize, I have to get off at least 3-times a day, Morning, Noon and Night! But when I can't get my morning fuck I still have my toys, and imagination ready. And if that's not enough Lush and internet are always handy!
I believe it is a good thing to give it a rest once in a while for brief periods of time.
It helps to relax and let some sensitivity increase since you've probably overstimulated some nerve endings and touch receptors.
Hubby and I will drive each other crazy and do this in preparation for some events or trip, to purposely turn up the desires and intensity.
It will make me crabby and somewhat Bitchy but it also can turn our sex into a rough, fuckfest, which is something to look forward to!
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Steph
Not my Hubby! No way! I may finger him and give him a prostate massage but that is about it.
But I have had a few guys that asked me to do it and it was purely their pleasure.
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Merry Christmas Mike!
First off, I see you are relatively young but very handsome!
So I'm not really sure what the bar scene is in your area, but if you can get away to someplace different, where you ex may not have friends that can report back to her, it would probably be better.
Better yet! If you can find a good Cougar Bar, then I would say your chances are even better!
I know from a few of my girlfriends and my "experiences", that there are many guys who use the recently divorced tactic as a way to get laid.
But, with the sincerity and the honesty that some guys have displayed, some of us fall for that too!
It's a tough game out there! My personal peeve is to not act all sullen and depressed about not having sex for that period of time! But don't go overboard and be a raving sex fiend either! Save that for when you get the girl!
If you are up front, honest and have a sincerity about you, and are able to engage a woman in a discussion, then you have a possibility. But that's me.
I much rather be stimulated by a guy that isn't all about lines or games but honest good conversation and then let it roll towards sex.
If the person you are chatting with is all about a good honest conversation, then you can also be honest of your desires and sexual needs.
I wouldn't doubt if you have a very horney woman, getting super wet and thinking you'll fuck the hell out of her! Which is something she probably wants anyway!
Good Luck!
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Steph
I have to agree with LittleBambi. I know when I was younger, all my friends would be extra frisky due to the emotions of seeing the couple all dressed up and in love! It's a fantasy that is happening before their eyes and a lot of women get caught up in it! It's something a lot of girls through the years have done. Even in this day and age, many women would hate to admit they had the fantasy when they were little girls. But now it's something they long for quietly inside.
I believe it is something that is like the modern "Harlequin" Romance that gets them all wet.
Whenever Hubby and I attended other weddings, I know I got aroused just because of the glam and glitz of the event and even though we were married, we'd still have a wild time afterwards.
When my oldest two kids got married, there were many "hook-ups" amongst people who would never be caught talking to each other! Some were one night stands and a few others actually began relationships.
With my other daughter getting married in the coming summer, I expect no less to happen again.
What MMonroe stated is probably true in many cases as well.
Think of the fact that you will be dressed up and they may see you in a different light and you may be someone new or different from the norm that they see all the time.
Plus! There is sometimes a hidden agenda where they may find a great fuck, but someone that may already be accepted by their family!
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Steph
I live for naughty chats! It really is fun when you can have a good conversation with someone and not be talking sexually, and things gradually build from there!
The key to a good sexual conversation for me is that a good conversationalist will be able to flow as well in written form. You don't have to be super quick witted but it does help if the person in the chat or conversation are on the same pace and wavelength of the tension and anticipation build up.
Sometimes, a certain comment or series of inuendos can turn the direction or pace suddenly, but that is okay. It sometimes breaks up the pace and can add to the urgency of desire and tension!
It also helps to have a smooth flowing chat without too long a breaks in between. What I mean by that is that you and the person you are chatting with, need to give your full attention to eachother to keep the energy and momentum going. If there are long breaks between replies, it can get tedious or drawn out and the energy could be lost.
Of course, there could be a problem typing one or no handed if the chat is going well!!! LOL!
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Hey Buddy! I'm a Girl!!!
Glad to hear it went well for you both!
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Steph
Has an interesting library of erotic stories he has submitted!
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The fact that you are loud and trying to be discrete is a turnon for many guys and gals too!
I've done the same thing with my Hubby and I can be very vocal too. It was hot that he took a set of frilly panties, (which I never wear), and stuffed them in my mouth while we fucked.
Very wicked and fun!
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Steph
