Watching this situation build at Virginia tech on the news...
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And chatting with new friends and trying to see what is going here between Sprite and CandiceSmiles...
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1Zratedgal
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Love her profile name and has an interesting profile to read!
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Anyone want to tangle with Cynthia Rothrock?
Hubby introduced me to her workouts and this gal rocks for being over 50!!!
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Hubby introduced me to her workouts and this gal rocks for being over 50!!!
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My reply may not be the best to gauge your replies by since Hubby and I have been in the lifestyle for many years!
But to answer your question, YES! As I know it will get him off! Much like I enjoy seeing him with another woman!
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But to answer your question, YES! As I know it will get him off! Much like I enjoy seeing him with another woman!
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I would love to meet several of the women here I've chatted and exchanged posts with for a coffee and discussion.
Some of the most erotic trysts began this way!
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Some of the most erotic trysts began this way!
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Quote by LauraLee_sugah
watch without interrupting. for purposes of knowing what things i could do that would please him more. i would keep my clothes on... but my fingers would be exploriing my body. chances are there would be fingers in my puss before it was over......
Exactly my thoughts! And them some too!
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I would never have said yes to either in the past, however things change, don't they?
I wouldn't want to do it with a partner, but rather be the guest, if that makes sense?
I think that could be rather fun...
I understand what you are saying Mazza. Especially if you have not had a lot of experience in this before.
It allows you to be somewhat detached and no relationships threatened. Some wickedness in part of being a stranger in the mix as well.
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Thanks Nikki!
You know where you lie in my book! Or my bed! LOL!
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You know where you lie in my book! Or my bed! LOL!
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Thanks ladies!
I chatted with some friends here after their posts and I quickly realized that I did not word my question in the right manner.
I was trying to understand how other gals felt about being called a slut or whore duing sex.
Many of you have stated your feelings about this and I thank you!
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I chatted with some friends here after their posts and I quickly realized that I did not word my question in the right manner.
I was trying to understand how other gals felt about being called a slut or whore duing sex.
Many of you have stated your feelings about this and I thank you!
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Abso-Fucking-Lutely!
Sex is an art! and therefore it is ever growing, changing, evolving.
It has no end except the limits of your imagination.
There are so many different ways to do it and enjoy it!
There are many seminars and smaller classes in things like tantic and sensuality and don't forget resorts for adults that have similar themes and intimacy classes as well.
It's about time for a full sex school! There are too many bad fucks out there! LOL
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Sex is an art! and therefore it is ever growing, changing, evolving.
It has no end except the limits of your imagination.
There are so many different ways to do it and enjoy it!
There are many seminars and smaller classes in things like tantic and sensuality and don't forget resorts for adults that have similar themes and intimacy classes as well.
It's about time for a full sex school! There are too many bad fucks out there! LOL
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Yes and I have.
In fact, there are few friends here I would love to get into more with!
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In fact, there are few friends here I would love to get into more with!
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How is she after she goes on the site? Does she use it to get her in the mood for sex? Or as a replacement for sex? You need to talk to her about why she does it. Maybe she got bored with what you were doing before. Maybe you can both go on Lush together.
Talk to her!!! Communication is so important.
What Nikki said!!!
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I was never into sex toys until after I got married but I can share some thoughts from my perspective on this.
I have heard from guys that are dating gals and when they discover some toys as mentioned, in their "girlfriends" nightstand or wherever, they feel they have "competition" and may be a blow to their egos! At least from what I see, this probably applies to many men as they think that once they start "servicing" the needs of a woman on a regular or frequent basis, there is no reason for their girlfriends to need or have the toys to satisfy themselves! The guys think they are always horney and therefore they can give a gal all the sex that they want! But I believe there are a great many of us here that do not believe this to be true!
In many of my friends and myself, we have bought the toys as a safe way to experiment and add different elements of pleasure to our sex play! Yes! Sometimes it is a deal where a woman can be a size queen and take that monster 3-ft dildo and flog herself with it, but it starts out as the fantasy and may a need for some that can't find what they want or need!
Another way to look at it is if there is a couple that are madly in love with each other but one person cannot perform adequately or at all! But there is a way they both can enjoy the experience together with a little variation. Then in this situation maybe the dildo is needed as a substitute but both are involved in the sex play and they both share in the pleasure.
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I have heard from guys that are dating gals and when they discover some toys as mentioned, in their "girlfriends" nightstand or wherever, they feel they have "competition" and may be a blow to their egos! At least from what I see, this probably applies to many men as they think that once they start "servicing" the needs of a woman on a regular or frequent basis, there is no reason for their girlfriends to need or have the toys to satisfy themselves! The guys think they are always horney and therefore they can give a gal all the sex that they want! But I believe there are a great many of us here that do not believe this to be true!
In many of my friends and myself, we have bought the toys as a safe way to experiment and add different elements of pleasure to our sex play! Yes! Sometimes it is a deal where a woman can be a size queen and take that monster 3-ft dildo and flog herself with it, but it starts out as the fantasy and may a need for some that can't find what they want or need!
Another way to look at it is if there is a couple that are madly in love with each other but one person cannot perform adequately or at all! But there is a way they both can enjoy the experience together with a little variation. Then in this situation maybe the dildo is needed as a substitute but both are involved in the sex play and they both share in the pleasure.
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T-rex,
I can see how it will be difficult to get her to go to a therapist or some sort of counseling since she may not see your situation as a valid need for outside help. But if you can start talking to her about your desires and that you feel your needs are being ignored, at least you can open the door to find out her feelings about the situation and if she has any thoughts or concerns in a similar area.
The hardest thing is going to be if you both can discuss the situation and then if you both are willing to help each other out! It will at least take some communication and common acknowledgement of what you both perceive. Then, if you can take this to someone who can help you both, it will be more effective as long as you both are open minded and willing to work together to resolve and grow!
I hate to say it but I have heard many examples similar to yours where the male feels ignored and the female feels bothered or is being demanded of too much sex. Just getting together to recognize her thoughts and feelings first to identify what the situation is will give you more indications on what direction to take to resolve your frustrations.
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I can see how it will be difficult to get her to go to a therapist or some sort of counseling since she may not see your situation as a valid need for outside help. But if you can start talking to her about your desires and that you feel your needs are being ignored, at least you can open the door to find out her feelings about the situation and if she has any thoughts or concerns in a similar area.
The hardest thing is going to be if you both can discuss the situation and then if you both are willing to help each other out! It will at least take some communication and common acknowledgement of what you both perceive. Then, if you can take this to someone who can help you both, it will be more effective as long as you both are open minded and willing to work together to resolve and grow!
I hate to say it but I have heard many examples similar to yours where the male feels ignored and the female feels bothered or is being demanded of too much sex. Just getting together to recognize her thoughts and feelings first to identify what the situation is will give you more indications on what direction to take to resolve your frustrations.
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Talk to him and discuss your concerns. I bet if anything, he wil express his desires for you even more and you will have a fantastic time together!
With sex as well as love, communications makes it a better experience!
Like poizenivy stated, get working on some kegel exercises! They do work! I've had 4-kids and to this day, it is still like working out the most important muscles, (besides your brains!), that will give you and your lovers much more pleasure!
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With sex as well as love, communications makes it a better experience!
Like poizenivy stated, get working on some kegel exercises! They do work! I've had 4-kids and to this day, it is still like working out the most important muscles, (besides your brains!), that will give you and your lovers much more pleasure!
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Congratualtions on being together for this long! That is a testimate to your love or efforts towards each other!
I suggest you seek out some intimacy for couples counseling. You may also look at some retreats or resorts that deal with older couples anr how to reignite the spark and intimacy in your marriage!
You're never to old to learn new tricks in love and intimacy!
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Steph
I suggest you seek out some intimacy for couples counseling. You may also look at some retreats or resorts that deal with older couples anr how to reignite the spark and intimacy in your marriage!
You're never to old to learn new tricks in love and intimacy!
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I have to agree with an earlier poster in which they stated they more attracted to musicians in classical music. For me it is musicians that are clean cut, actually play an instrument and are not the long hair rock and roll types.
Something about musicians being in tune with the vibes of a woman's sexuality makes them more attractive to me!
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Something about musicians being in tune with the vibes of a woman's sexuality makes them more attractive to me!
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Susan,
I'm sorry you feel this way about this thread. In hindsight, I could have worded it differently.
I was trying to figure out other women's feelings about this in the context that poizenivy replied.
Being called a whore or his whore during sex as opposed to his slut. And what other women's feelings are.
Thank you to the others who have posted their replies!
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Steph
I'm sorry you feel this way about this thread. In hindsight, I could have worded it differently.
I was trying to figure out other women's feelings about this in the context that poizenivy replied.
Being called a whore or his whore during sex as opposed to his slut. And what other women's feelings are.
Thank you to the others who have posted their replies!
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Not at all Lafayettemaster!
Thank you for posting.
it is like when people say they love to have a lady on their arm and a whore in the bedroom.
I'm just trying to get a feel of what guys and gals think of this.
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Thank you for posting.
it is like when people say they love to have a lady on their arm and a whore in the bedroom.
I'm just trying to get a feel of what guys and gals think of this.
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Thanks guys!
So in your opinions, can a woman who acts like a whore, be sexy and desireable? But not accept money or favors?
And would it be a situation where you call a woman you are fucking a Hot Whore, acceptable?
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So in your opinions, can a woman who acts like a whore, be sexy and desireable? But not accept money or favors?
And would it be a situation where you call a woman you are fucking a Hot Whore, acceptable?
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Just a few moments ago after reading a particular good erotic poem!
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Hubby likes it when I hold or touch him. We just have to communicate that it is not for sex since he will always get hard instantly! There are few times when we do it after sex but the other times, I like to play with his balls and it will relax him even though he gets hard.
Sometimes, If I'm in the mood, I'll just lay my hand there and feel him get hard then go down on him and suck him off or give him a quick tit fuck and then we'll fall asleep together
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Sometimes, If I'm in the mood, I'll just lay my hand there and feel him get hard then go down on him and suck him off or give him a quick tit fuck and then we'll fall asleep together
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This may have already been posed since there are so many pages.
But to have the ability to edit posts in the forums would be nice.
Maybe it is there and I don't understand it but there are times when I see a spelling error I made or to clarify a thought that didn't read right.
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But to have the ability to edit posts in the forums would be nice.
Maybe it is there and I don't understand it but there are times when I see a spelling error I made or to clarify a thought that didn't read right.
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Just posted two threads and chatting with a couple of friends!
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This will also be posted in the Gals section but I would love to hear the Guys opinions on this!
In the heat of the moment, I love to be or act like a slut! I hate being called a whore but there are times that I know I can act like one!
So Guys, what is your thoughts as to the differences between the two?
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In the heat of the moment, I love to be or act like a slut! I hate being called a whore but there are times that I know I can act like one!
So Guys, what is your thoughts as to the differences between the two?
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This will also be posted in the guys section but I would love to hear the girls opinions on this!
In the heat of the moment, I love to be or act like a slut! I hate being called a whore but there are times that I know I can act like one!
So Gals, what is your thoughts as to the differences between the two?
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Steph
In the heat of the moment, I love to be or act like a slut! I hate being called a whore but there are times that I know I can act like one!
So Gals, what is your thoughts as to the differences between the two?
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Steph
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laserdude almost sounds like my Hubby!
We shave eachother regularly as a form of foreplay and intimacy for us both!
We always get to enjoy the benefits afterwards!
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We shave eachother regularly as a form of foreplay and intimacy for us both!
We always get to enjoy the benefits afterwards!
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I've wanted to have mine pierced for awhile.
when I was younger, my nipples were inverted and I thought it would help them pop up more.
After I had kids, they got bigger and more pronouced but since I have such large boobs, they are perfect for my size now.
Still, I would love to get some of the cute jewelrey, chains and dangles they have!
And that girl in the pic posted by Buzz has me Going!
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when I was younger, my nipples were inverted and I thought it would help them pop up more.
After I had kids, they got bigger and more pronouced but since I have such large boobs, they are perfect for my size now.
Still, I would love to get some of the cute jewelrey, chains and dangles they have!
And that girl in the pic posted by Buzz has me Going!
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Steph