The original message was lacking any creativity in my opinion. I much rather have some sense of humor and common reference like the Flintstones party situation.
I'll admit to being a slut for sex! But I am a professional business woman too and if I receive an anonomous IM or PM, with a crass sexual message, it's a turn off!
If it is someone I don't know and they "test the waters" by trying to see if I'm in the right frame of mind with some small talk, then I might react favorably to them. But most times, I will just delete!
Now if it is a friend and it is someone I can identify with, then it will probably be a different matter.
Kisses!
Steph
Her Nic is very appropriate for a site of sensual stimulations!
Kisses!
Steph
I'd give Slutpuppy a try!
If she's willing to take it from an older woman!
Fuck Yeah!
Kisses!
Steph
Generally, I dislike the word. But sometimes there are times that when I hear another woman in the heat of the moment, yells out to her partner to fuck her cunt, then I find it sexy!
Some stories or written prose using the word cunt can be erotic and very arousing!
Kisses!
Steph
Dollandhercowboy,
I'm trying to understand the root of your question...
Are you asking people in standard relationships their opinion of people in the lifestyle?
Or are you trying to get a "picture" of people who participate in the lifestyle, from their own opinion of themselves?
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Steph
Even though it is hard to believe, at 51 years of age,
<-------------------------THESE ARE REALLY MINE!!!!
And I don't need them any larger!
They are HEAVY, they SWAY and BOUNCE when I DON'T WANT THEM TO!!!
But they are pleasurable to have and as poizenivy stated, if they do head south, I'm not oppose to getting some work done!
But more of a reduction and Lift!
As for women who get theirs done, it doesn't make them FAKE!!!
The gals that go for overly large stripper tits are the ones that are unrealistic!
Those that get a nice size and makes them feel better about themselves, Go For It Girls!
Like my good friend above stated, women wear make-up! It doesn't make us fake!
It's YOU guys who can't take us women behind ANY tits seriously, are the fake ones!
Kisses!
Steph
Speaking from my perspective, I would not pay attention to you if you could not hold an intelligent coversation with me about anything!
You need to tap into what interests the woman and get her mind attracted to you!
It's true some don't want a lot of small talk and just want to fuck.
But you have to be able to get their attention, not just physcially but socially as well!
I know a few girlfriends that as MILF's go for the younger guys that are less experienced, timid, shy and awkward, and enjoy being the older and more sexually experienced person to rock a young guys world!
Kisses!
Steph
Cathy,
A few fun ones I found are on the Burlesque Soundtrack with Christina Aguilera. In fact a lot of her songs, slow, upbeat are good too! Also like some of the Pussycat Dolls stuff but then I can also find some country ballads and other songs to dance/strip to that just depend on the mood and the effect you are going for!
Kisses!
Steph
YES!!! I watch it!
With it being freely found on the internet these days, it's less of a hassle to go out to an ABS and have to deal with finding what I'm feeling interested in and not enjoying the selection! Online offers the clips and the hot stuff and not so much of the other crap.
Although I was used to the old days when we rented tapes and the actors were bad and the stories were somewhat interesting and the people weren't all plastic! I do love the older Porn!
The modern stuff is not as interesting and more in your face with harsh or rude actions, IMO. I much prefer to watch amateur couples and real people anymore. To me, the last of the good stuff was probably from the late 90's to the early part of 2000.
Kisses!
Steph
Zoe, I see a pattern here to your posts!
I enjoy the feeling of being with another woman regardless of if her boobs are the same or larger than mine! If they have perky or puffy firm nipples, than it's even better!
Smaller boobed girls tend to be more obsessed with my larger boobs and I love the feeling of mashing them or rubbing mine against their hard nipples!
I love the feeling of being together boob-to-boob!
But there are other positions too!
Kisses!
Steph
I've had many massages for muscle and tension releases and found so many varied techniques that are not supposed to be sensual, but become erotic because I am so relaxed.
There was a few times that at some specialized spas and resorts, where the persons were trained or learned the proper techniques in providing female pleasures. And I enjoyed the varied applications of the different massuesses who did the work on me.
However, I have found it rare that a man is able to fully understand the subtlty and the degree of touch required to fully provide a true sensually erotic massage. Not to knock most men, but the women who do it are more aware of the nuances and the relaxed way to apply the right pressure, and where, to allow a woman to let go and relax and let it happen!
I found one woman in Northern California that was not actually intending to do sensual or sexual massage but had such an ability and technique, that it was so natural for her. She was able to wipe away the constraints of time and allow the patient to fully relax and enjoy the experience and let it linger on. As a plus to her abilities, she found that the techniques she was studying was benefitting from the sensual techniques and allowed her to be a more effective massuesse for the general clientel!
As for the awareness of a massuesse touching sexual areas, it really depends on them to make the person comfortable and then it is not an issue. Of course, if you are horney and anticipating the touch in a positive way, then it is all too easy to become aroused when they touch you there!
Kisses!
Steph
Like many women, I did not have a positive memorable 1st time experience. It was more the pressure of having sex to please the guy I was with.
Being that you are caring and thinking about her pleasure, seems like you are putting her experience above yours and that is commendable!
I would say that the trauma and fears of the first time along with the pain, could be difficult for her to block out. But since you two have had sex again since that first time, as long as you both take your time and continue to be nurturing and caring, I think she will relax and enjoy the experiences and eventually get to the point of letting herself relax and get into the positive physical sensations.
Remember that the sex is more mental for women! Even though there are more nerve endings in our vaginas, it is still a new experience and until the mind relaxes and enjoys the experience, she will never mentally and emotionally allow herself to to enjoy the sexual side of it! It's basically a huge mental block!
Be patient, discuss it normally, not clinically, and just be loving, compassionate, and supportive, and it will all come together!
Kisses!
Steph
Unless you hear it directly from her lips, Don't do it!
I can only come from her and they be in an open marriage to be acceptable!
Kisses,
Steph
Being around Lush and finding so many interesting, sexy and like minded people!
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Steph
Beckey,
I can't do just a hand job normally without a little mouth action!
And if I can get my mouth on it, I have to use my boobs too!
So with that said, it depends on the situation!
Sometimes it's fun to just drive him to lose control and cum all over!
Then he's rock hard again soon and can keep going until I get off a few times!
Other times it is fun to push him to that edge and then he takes me and fucks the hell out of me!
Either way, I still win!
Kisses!
Steph
Bella is absolutely right!
Knowing that you are getting hard from me on your lap moving around is such a thrill!
Kisses!
Steph
suzeq,
It sounds like you and I share similar feelings about our boobs!
Kisses!
Steph
I thought I posted on this thread...
There is but only a few situations I can honestly see or say where it could be appropriate to make the move on your S-I-L...
But as others have stated, if you are asking, I can tell you are NOT in any of those situations!
Don't screw up your family!
Kisses!
Steph
Awesome Mare24!
Good for you girl!
Kisses!
Steph
I agree with Molly but I also love the feeling of the power I hold over a guy and that I can make him lose his control and he has to shoot his load!
Kisses!
Steph
Zoe,
It depends on the sensitivity and the physiology of your nipples.
Mine do get really hard as they are already thick!
I sometimes can rub mine against my girlfriends clit and get her off!
And then afterwards, we both like to lick them clean and taste her juices!
Kisses!
Steph
My favorite! Is seamed stockings with lacey bands at the thighs and my special french pearl stranded thong!
Kisses!
Steph
Maybe not forced or just a gentle persuasion if there is the desire!
But the best is when he is about to cum and he holds me there as he arches his back and moans!
Kisses!
Steph
Are you serious???
I guess you never paid attention to female anatomy in school!
There are more nerve endings in a woman's vagina that almost any other part of the body!
Of course we can feel it and many of us LOVE IT!!!
Your post is a little difficult to read but if you are asking for some added breast-to-breast fun, there is one thing my girlfriends and I like to do...
We have a couple of nipple chains and toys that we use that when we attach them, we are connected to eachother and love the way it feels to have one person move and it pulls on the other!
we also have some other breast play fun with suction toys and other fun!
Kisses!
Steph
In another thread, I stated I've wanted to get my nipples pierced.
I used to have inverted nipples but they have since "popped-out" after pregnancy and a few fun times!
I love wearing nipple ring clamps and have often wondered about getting the chains that connect to the pierced bars and other jewelery!
For now, we play with clamp on toys and accessories...
Kisses!
Steph
Playsit,
The exercise balls aren't necessarily the most comfortable in all situations but they can be good for some adventurous sexual positions. If the woman is fairly flexible, and is able to arch her back freely, it can be a good way to relax and lay back for oral or to be done by two guys at the same time!
Of course it is good for the standard doggy position!
Kisses!
Steph
I don't go for the overly muscular types unless a particularly cute one catches my eye.
I usually like seeing a fit swimmer type or volleyball type build!
Kisses!
Steph
