I don't know if this qualifies but I love to have my boobs covered in cum if we are with a group.
Something wickedly sexy about having that much cum to coat me!\
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For those that know me, yes I have huge boobs but inverted nipples ,I do wish i had stiff outies and have thought of getting nipple piecings to keep them from inverting
Have often considered that too! But since I am such a wimp about pain, and I love the sensitivity of my nipples now, I haven't done that...yet!
I have talked to others who have had it done and those that did have inverted nipples are about 50/50 on the results.
I love the rings and chains but since we can use the clamps, I just use them with a combination of the rings to make them pop up more!
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Quote by cathyrohan
Guys are guys, boobs are their kryptonite. They can't help it.
That is so true! LOL!
But I have no issue with it now. I used to hate my boobs being so big when I was younger, but I love them!
I have seen when a confident and secure guy, takes a good lingering look, purposefully, but not like a leacherous stare, and I enjoy it. But like Nikki stated, if they go out of their way like a young guy who has never seen a set of boobs. Those are annoying!
But I have been known to flash a bit more if someone I find attractive or the situation is right and let them see the girls! LOL!
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Besides call my Hubby? Probably sign the ticket if I have not already done so.
But I would call an attorney and our accountant and go over our finances
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But I would call an attorney and our accountant and go over our finances
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Everyone is usually naked at our home. Unless we ahve company or other people, clothes are left aside most of the time
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We've visited a few "holistic" retreats and have experienced a few group sessions dealing with the art of Tantric Sex. It is very eye opening how much more you can get connected to your body and mind and experience a completely different sexual climax!
I just wished there was more time we could spend learning and trying the different techniques!
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I just wished there was more time we could spend learning and trying the different techniques!
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If you are talking about the fabric covered foam wedges or Triangles, those are great!
If you are looking at other options, try a large exercise ball or one of the smaller balance balls with the rim around it! If you are thinking "WTF", use your imagination and be creative with your partner!
Also, we found a store that had retro bean bag chairs and extra bags of beans to refill. Our friends got a couple of chairs in various sizes and added more beans to make the shapes larger and firmer. Those helped in various positions as well!
Now if you are thinking about Sex Sling Swing Chair... Just make sure it is fastened well to a solid beam in the ceiling!
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If you are looking at other options, try a large exercise ball or one of the smaller balance balls with the rim around it! If you are thinking "WTF", use your imagination and be creative with your partner!
Also, we found a store that had retro bean bag chairs and extra bags of beans to refill. Our friends got a couple of chairs in various sizes and added more beans to make the shapes larger and firmer. Those helped in various positions as well!
Now if you are thinking about Sex Sling Swing Chair... Just make sure it is fastened well to a solid beam in the ceiling!
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It's in the eye of the beholder. I don't believe I take more notice of a person sexually because of their race or ethnicity! But I do feel that there are some people that have some physical attributes related to their race that is sexy.
With that being said, I love the mix of our girlfriend who lives with us. She is half Asian and half South African and 100% Gorgeous! A bit exotic but completely dripping sexyness even if she tried to dress down and not wear any make up!
I do get aroused watching Hubby with her and also when he is with other women of color! But I just love people and have enjoyed seeing and being with many great people of different ethnic origins!
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With that being said, I love the mix of our girlfriend who lives with us. She is half Asian and half South African and 100% Gorgeous! A bit exotic but completely dripping sexyness even if she tried to dress down and not wear any make up!
I do get aroused watching Hubby with her and also when he is with other women of color! But I just love people and have enjoyed seeing and being with many great people of different ethnic origins!
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I used to have inverted nipples when I was younger. I have very large aureola and I used to think I was a freak. But thankfully, my Hubby got me to realize that I was unique and special, not just becuase of having large breasts, but what pleasures I could derive from them.
As time went on, and our sexual play involved more breast and nipple activities, they started to change. But it was when I got pregnant that they began to become more normal. Well? Over a period of 4-kids, they are now the opposite and I have very large and thick nipples. But that is due to the combination of the kids and the breast play!
I have a few girlfriends that have inverted nipples and it's fun to play with them! A few seem to enjoy the extra attention with suckling them to get their nipples to "pop-up"! LOL!
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As time went on, and our sexual play involved more breast and nipple activities, they started to change. But it was when I got pregnant that they began to become more normal. Well? Over a period of 4-kids, they are now the opposite and I have very large and thick nipples. But that is due to the combination of the kids and the breast play!
I have a few girlfriends that have inverted nipples and it's fun to play with them! A few seem to enjoy the extra attention with suckling them to get their nipples to "pop-up"! LOL!
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Quote by Nikki703
Simple things like open a door for me, helping me on with my coat, asking me my opinion and actually listening and showing interest in it.
It's showing a genuine interest in my thoughts, opininons and what I have to say!
It's giving me the respect and value of not just being an attractive woman but with one with more cerebral connection! And the biggest erotic organ is the brain!
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I'm somewhat of a late bloomer but the older I've aged, the more sexually driven I've become to pursue my pleasures. In other words, I make them more a priority now than I have before!
I've had other girlfriends go through the change of life and the majority of them have found their drive and desires increase, rather than diminish. When we disucssed the fact that they are hungrier and more sexually demanding to get their satisfactions as a priority than before, we can only guess at the reasons why.
Some speculated that we as a society have changed many things in the way we live now as compared to the past. Some of us feel there are differences in our diets and routines that make us more active and less suseptible to the older ways of slowing down sexually. Some of us feel that the current culture of older women taking better care of themselves and being found attractive and sexually desired, has spawned new "mind-over-matter" change in which we mentally overcome menopause. Some of us also thought that some of the hormones and chemicals in foods have made changes internally so we don't have the dramatic downward changes that were common in the past.
No matter what the reasons are, I have more freedom and ability to enjoy sex than when I was younger and this is a great time of my life!
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I've had other girlfriends go through the change of life and the majority of them have found their drive and desires increase, rather than diminish. When we disucssed the fact that they are hungrier and more sexually demanding to get their satisfactions as a priority than before, we can only guess at the reasons why.
Some speculated that we as a society have changed many things in the way we live now as compared to the past. Some of us feel there are differences in our diets and routines that make us more active and less suseptible to the older ways of slowing down sexually. Some of us feel that the current culture of older women taking better care of themselves and being found attractive and sexually desired, has spawned new "mind-over-matter" change in which we mentally overcome menopause. Some of us also thought that some of the hormones and chemicals in foods have made changes internally so we don't have the dramatic downward changes that were common in the past.
No matter what the reasons are, I have more freedom and ability to enjoy sex than when I was younger and this is a great time of my life!
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Not Talking to eachother!!!!
It's al;l about communication and not playing with eachothers emotions or minds....
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It's al;l about communication and not playing with eachothers emotions or minds....
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Quote by Nikki703
I once made a vid of myself masturbating. It was for my own enjoyment (OMG that sounds so vain!!), But I actually used it as part of an "experiment" and what resulted was both surprising and wonderful. What I wont do for science, HAHA!!!
Hell! Just the thought of you doing it in front of a camera does wonders for me, Nikki!
Oh GOD! You've made me So Damn WETTT!!!!
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Not A Vibrating One!!!
Would you be willing to try???
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Quote by Buz
I like porn for the deep and intricately complex plots, the great acting and the intellectual stimulation.
After watching porn I have to read some Nietzsche.
Buz, you are sooooo DEEEEPPPP!!!
LOL!
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I'm hoping that the first picture is deceiving from the perspective of the camera angle.
Still, it is kinda hot to see her expression but it could be out of context too.
In any case, there are a lot more enjoyable toys and accessories to use anallly and those extreme examples we all see in the stores are more for the cringe factor!
Hey Nikki! Ever share a double vibrating dildo anally?
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Still, it is kinda hot to see her expression but it could be out of context too.
In any case, there are a lot more enjoyable toys and accessories to use anallly and those extreme examples we all see in the stores are more for the cringe factor!
Hey Nikki! Ever share a double vibrating dildo anally?
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It would be purely for my enjoyment and my eyes only. Well, my eyes and a few select friends, lol.
Anyone I know???
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We did do some videos for ourselves and some of our parties way back. But after we had some problems with our photos being seen on a website, we erased all the tapes and destroyed them.
They were fun to make and watch but the real world would not be as tolerant of our fun as our close friends and playmates.
But I think the way TanBrunette is doing it is a little bit safer, but not much...
It is still an exciting and fun thing I admit, but as we have gotten older, we have to be more careful!
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They were fun to make and watch but the real world would not be as tolerant of our fun as our close friends and playmates.
But I think the way TanBrunette is doing it is a little bit safer, but not much...
It is still an exciting and fun thing I admit, but as we have gotten older, we have to be more careful!
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I never wear panties! I rarely wear thongs. If I do, they are for bikinis on public beaches but mostly pearl strand thongs under my skirts.
I love the urgency and the animalistic desire for the quickie and I'm such a slave to my kitty that I need to feed it whenever it gets hungry!
So doing it with my clothes on is a normal thing. That is why I try to dress for easy access but just enough to be tempting without being totally slutty!
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I love the urgency and the animalistic desire for the quickie and I'm such a slave to my kitty that I need to feed it whenever it gets hungry!
So doing it with my clothes on is a normal thing. That is why I try to dress for easy access but just enough to be tempting without being totally slutty!
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Quote by Nikki703
I wont have sex with someone who I know is married unless it is in a threesome with both of them or maybe with a woman who is in an open relationship. But I do not believe in doing anything behind their partners back!!!
Being in the lifestyle, this is a requirement for both the man and woman to understand. It is not an open and free pass to fuck anyone! If there is a couple involved, there needs to be clear communications with all and total acceptance from all parties before anything begins!
So yes! I will fuck a married man! As long as I have the blessing, (and hopefully the participation!), of his wife too!
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The older I've gotten, the more I am willing to try and enjoy different things.
You can try anything but if your mind is not in the right place, you may not "allow" yourself to enjoy it!
With that being said, I have gotten more enjoyment out of DP's and being filled with 3-cocks. As I've become more relaxed and actually enjoy and desire anal, I have only recently had a couple of opportunities to attempt DV and DA. But the circumstances were very unique! I know this will make me sound like a major slut but read on...
In another thread elsewhere about small dicks, I mentioned about this guy with a small one that is an amazing lover. He has just the right size to be inside me and also slip a small vibe or dildo at the same time! He also has done it with me and another girlfriend who wore a strap on and the two of them rocked me in a nice rhythm that sent me to the moon!
The last time we played, I was sharing a double dong with my girlfriend and he was in my bum and used a small vibe at the same time! I gushed and flooded the bed!
I'm still tight on a good sized cock but when hes around, it is a wild feeling to be a little nasty and know I have taken two objects in my holes at the same time. Just the detail that they are a little smaller makes it a little lest nasty! LOL!
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You can try anything but if your mind is not in the right place, you may not "allow" yourself to enjoy it!
With that being said, I have gotten more enjoyment out of DP's and being filled with 3-cocks. As I've become more relaxed and actually enjoy and desire anal, I have only recently had a couple of opportunities to attempt DV and DA. But the circumstances were very unique! I know this will make me sound like a major slut but read on...
In another thread elsewhere about small dicks, I mentioned about this guy with a small one that is an amazing lover. He has just the right size to be inside me and also slip a small vibe or dildo at the same time! He also has done it with me and another girlfriend who wore a strap on and the two of them rocked me in a nice rhythm that sent me to the moon!
The last time we played, I was sharing a double dong with my girlfriend and he was in my bum and used a small vibe at the same time! I gushed and flooded the bed!
I'm still tight on a good sized cock but when hes around, it is a wild feeling to be a little nasty and know I have taken two objects in my holes at the same time. Just the detail that they are a little smaller makes it a little lest nasty! LOL!
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Again I find myself feeling the same as Nikki703! We must be on the same sexual pages! LOL!
Seriously, though, I would not do or allow it to be filmed but there are only a few persons in the porn world I would participate with and they do have to be clean!
Actually, I have had the fortune of being around several people over the years and have played with a few since some have been involved in the lifestyle as well. We've been lucky to attend some events and parties outside of the porn industry and have some fun with some nice guys and gals that rocked on the screen and were even better in real life!
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Seriously, though, I would not do or allow it to be filmed but there are only a few persons in the porn world I would participate with and they do have to be clean!
Actually, I have had the fortune of being around several people over the years and have played with a few since some have been involved in the lifestyle as well. We've been lucky to attend some events and parties outside of the porn industry and have some fun with some nice guys and gals that rocked on the screen and were even better in real life!
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Being a little bit older, we have watched a great deal of porn from the days of the VHS tapes, (remember those?), to the current productions.
I am particular in what I like to watch. The older porn had more of a story but with really bad acting. The sex was hot as it seemed so natural and not as badly looped as the videos in the late 80's to mid 90's. Plus there were rarely any plastic surgury bodies and it made it more enjoyable to feel like a voyeur watching real people fucking.
The current stuff seems too fake and much to cheap. It's too harsh and not very enjoyable. I've found more enjoyment out of watching amateurs and real people than the high end production stuff. There are few actresses that I enjoy watching but not too many.
I really enjoy more of the stuff that is online, especially those made for women and couples. A little bit softer but still gets hot! And the websites that are specifically with women masturbating is really HOT!
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I am particular in what I like to watch. The older porn had more of a story but with really bad acting. The sex was hot as it seemed so natural and not as badly looped as the videos in the late 80's to mid 90's. Plus there were rarely any plastic surgury bodies and it made it more enjoyable to feel like a voyeur watching real people fucking.
The current stuff seems too fake and much to cheap. It's too harsh and not very enjoyable. I've found more enjoyment out of watching amateurs and real people than the high end production stuff. There are few actresses that I enjoy watching but not too many.
I really enjoy more of the stuff that is online, especially those made for women and couples. A little bit softer but still gets hot! And the websites that are specifically with women masturbating is really HOT!
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Depends on my mood, the situation and who I'm with!
Some people are a little more flexible or have a better body part that allows for a great feeling in that certain spot!
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Some people are a little more flexible or have a better body part that allows for a great feeling in that certain spot!
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I just looked at your profile and realized you are male.
I was writing my responses to your questions as if you were a college girl trying to become intimate with your best friends mom.
Sorry! I was giving you my thoughts for the situation if you were female and trying to get into a relationship with her.
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I was writing my responses to your questions as if you were a college girl trying to become intimate with your best friends mom.
Sorry! I was giving you my thoughts for the situation if you were female and trying to get into a relationship with her.
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If your conversations with her are more in depth and of more personal or intimate subject matters, then it would be something to explore further. If the conversations are more general like the weather or shopping, then you can take control of the conversation and start dropping some sensual inuendos that would lead into more possibilities of broaching sexual topics.
I'm assuming you are female?
I'm assuming you are female?
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Love his propic and loves the fact that he uses the word "Fab" in his profile!
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I've seen a few guys on the smaller size that were fantastic lovers and a few that were truly amazing orally.
But one of the most amazing small dicked guys I've ever known was perfect for those girls who were willing to try anal!
He wasn't tiny, but he was the right size to be a good initiation into anal sex with just a slight discomfort for an anal virgin. And he was also a good size for someone who would enjoy it on a moderate basis but not wanting to be ripped apart!
Vaginally, he was slender and long enough to resemble some of the pocket vibes but had a good shape and curve to him.
Nice guy and knew how to please a woman, but not someone I would obsess over...
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But one of the most amazing small dicked guys I've ever known was perfect for those girls who were willing to try anal!
He wasn't tiny, but he was the right size to be a good initiation into anal sex with just a slight discomfort for an anal virgin. And he was also a good size for someone who would enjoy it on a moderate basis but not wanting to be ripped apart!
Vaginally, he was slender and long enough to resemble some of the pocket vibes but had a good shape and curve to him.
Nice guy and knew how to please a woman, but not someone I would obsess over...
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Your questions are a mixed situation. It feels like you are scattered and trying to grab at any older woman. Not just your best friends mom.
I would suggest you stay focused on your best friends mom.
What kind of relationship do you have specifically with her?
Are you two sociable?
Do you have any common interests?
Do the two of you freely engage in conversation about anything in general and not specifically with school or her daughter?
If you can find some common ground between the two of you, it would help to have her interest more than just sexual in nature.
Us older gals tend to be flattered by compliments like stating how young we look or how much fun we are to be around. Something that belies our ages.
If you are able to share a genuine interest in something that she relates to, then it is an ice breaker and will help to avail you of more opportunities to test the waters with her.
If she is making an effort to be around you more with and without her daughter, then you have more of an opportunity to engage her in conversations which could hint at a possible erotic interlude. Not all older women are hungry for a wild time, but many are curious and looking for a comfortable opportunity to explore a secret sapphic tryst. Some older women may relive their college year and remember the freedom and wild times but others may try to make up for not taking the chances. You need to find out what their interests are and if you can engage them into a conversation that would lead into this without causing them worry, that their own child is acting wild and carelessly, to cause them concern.
Best of luck!
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Steph
I would suggest you stay focused on your best friends mom.
What kind of relationship do you have specifically with her?
Are you two sociable?
Do you have any common interests?
Do the two of you freely engage in conversation about anything in general and not specifically with school or her daughter?
If you can find some common ground between the two of you, it would help to have her interest more than just sexual in nature.
Us older gals tend to be flattered by compliments like stating how young we look or how much fun we are to be around. Something that belies our ages.
If you are able to share a genuine interest in something that she relates to, then it is an ice breaker and will help to avail you of more opportunities to test the waters with her.
If she is making an effort to be around you more with and without her daughter, then you have more of an opportunity to engage her in conversations which could hint at a possible erotic interlude. Not all older women are hungry for a wild time, but many are curious and looking for a comfortable opportunity to explore a secret sapphic tryst. Some older women may relive their college year and remember the freedom and wild times but others may try to make up for not taking the chances. You need to find out what their interests are and if you can engage them into a conversation that would lead into this without causing them worry, that their own child is acting wild and carelessly, to cause them concern.
Best of luck!
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Steph