I see many people describing different levels but I believe it is dependent upon your perspectives!
Being in the lifestyle, My Hubby and I have a bond of trust established by thorough communications. We still do have sex with other people. But for us, we always inform or tell our mate what is going on and with whom. It's a safety issue.
But for the original question, No! There is only one level. When you have any physical sexual act with another person, without the consent of your mate is unfaithful!
Now I now people will ask about cybersex. For Hubby and I, we talk about it and the people or personas we are chatting with and what our desires are. We feel that Cyber or onlne stuff is a form of flirting but mostly foreplay. Because after the chatting or texting, you want to do it with someone! And when you do it with someone other than you mate, that is when it is unfaithful.
Kisses!
Steph
There are some very creative and unique places that people have posted!
My place wasn't so unique but how I went about doing might be.
I was so worked up after a long session of cybering with a friend and her boyfriend that I had to escape and give myself so release! She had me all worked up as usual and after we logged off, I needed to run an errand but when I got to the place I needed to be, they were delayed.
Still thinking about our sexy cybersession, I drove around to find a place to park and just let myself go. I couldn't find a private place to park, so I ended up under an overpass and since it was hot out, I opened up the sunroof and just started to touch myself
Being that I was in a skirt and don't wear panties, I have quick and easy access to myself and I unbuttoned my blouse and grabbed at my boobs in my demi cup bra. It felt good to feel a slight breeze through the windows and sunroof and I was really working myself over into a sopping wet mess. Thinking about my girlfriend licking me and her boyfriends insanely hard and thick cock in me was driving me crazy!
I needed and wanted something hard but didn't have my vibe or bullet with me. So I got up out of my seat and started to straddle the console and rubbed myself against the fat hard leather covered shifter knob. since the sunroof was open, I could support myself while rocking against the knob and get myself off! I think someone could and may have saw me as my head was bobbing and rocking out of the sunroof but I was in need and wanted to get fucked from the chat about his monster cock!
I know I moaned out a bit and tried to stifle myself while I was cumming but I believe I screamed out his and her names as I came. I know I was heard since after I came down from it, I turned around to look if anyone was around and I saw a couple walking past the back and smiling!
Kisses!
Steph
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Steph
Angela had some very sound advice!
I would just make sure you are in a comfortable setting, with no distractions. Turn off the phones and maybe put on some good music that puts you into the mood.
Maybe take a nice shower or bath then explore and touch your whole body. There are body parts that stimulate and feel good that are not connected to the genitals.
When you do find a part that feels good. try different touch techniques. Different pressure, tugging or light pinching, maybe licking your fingers and adding a little moisture to smooth your touch, whatever! Nothing is wrong!
If you go right to your nipples or kitty, just try to not concentrate on them but play around a little bith then go touch something else for awhile until the desire is overwhelming!
When you get to your kitty, lightly touch around your lips and clit. I like to capture my bud between my fingers and lightly pinch and release it as it causes it to swell more. Light tugging and then releasing it to roll my fingers on it thne lightyl dipping into my slit an getting a little more of my juices to spread around.
As for your juices, relish the taste and smell. If you can accept and enjoy, it helps add to your mind and enjoyment of your pleasures....
Just lay back and enjoy your own touch! You may find something magical that no one else does and there is nothing wrong with that, when it cums to self pleasure!
Kisses!
Steph
I've been with many who cannot enjoy the oral stimulation and even though most guys are visually arroused, I've often found it takes a little something extra for them.
I've been blessed to have a good set of boobs that I can combine a nice tit fuck with oral as well as a few other tricks but for most of the guys, they love to be talked dirty to and feel like their cock and cum is being worshipped.
One other thing that does well besides the prostate massage is that I really give their balls a good licking, sucking and then playing with while sucking them off. It's kinda like milking their balls gently while doing all sorts of oral tricks on them.
I'm old school. But I still see other women my age range doing it too. Must be a current trend or something.
I was taught and still believe "less is more"
At least the person I would sleep with would know what they would wake up to! LOL!
Kisses!
Steph
Ummmnn! Delicious!
Nice name! Cream Stick!
Must have been a pretty liberal beach to allow that sort of thong...
And why do feel you guys just love pregnant women for the fact that our boobs get bigger???
LOL!
Kisses!
Steph
I love how mesmerizing they can be to men and women and how I can manipulate them sexually without even taking my top off!
But when I do, I really enjoy the attention and control I have with them!
Kisses!
Steph
I like a nice smooth shaft and balls!
Hubby and I often shave together as a personal grooming and foreplay.
I don't like sucking his balls and having hair on them and I can understand how guys don't like women with hair around their kitties as well.
Depends on the moment.
Sometimes I need just a good hard cum or sometimes I need many waves of it washing over me!
And other times, I need a few spread out over a whole day, (well, that's almost everyday! LOL!)
It just depends on the moment.
Kisses!
Steph
You are in a new point of your relationship sexually and it will take some time to find the right situation that works for you both! Don't be afraid to communicate and experiment! Try to commit to each other the willingness to step outside of your comfort zones for each other and establish new boundries and skills to pleasure each other!
Look into Tantic sexual techniques that involve breathing and positions.
Above all, establish your experiments as a commitment to each other to make pleasure your own special event!
Have fun and enjoy the journey!
Kisses!
Steph
There is no true and perfect answer to this question.
the fact is, if you are in a truly committed relationship, you should be in a loving and enjoyable sexual relationship for the life of your relationship!
As for the duration of great sex, it is all dependent upon the people and the situation. It can be a Hot and Nasty quicky or it could be a loving and long weekend of endless fucking, or it can be a wild and wicked fuckfest! It just depends on the people involved!
Kisses!
Steph
On my Boobs or on my bum. And then having another fun friend to share it with or rub it in to each others body parts makes it nice!
Kisses!
Steph
I've been married to one man nearly 30 years.
But thought my wonderful Hubby, I have been allowed to let my BI side freedom to enjoy other men and women without guilt as we both have been in the lifestyle and enjoyed many different partners and fuck buddies.
I am totally committed to him and we have a strong communication, which is necessary for a sexual lifestyle like ours.
I enjoy being with other men and women and sometimes in multiples. So I guess I am a Penthouse Letters textbook fantasy for some guys and gals.
Kisses!
Steph
Oh Hell Yeah!
Love knowing he is horney and needs to cum!
It is sometimes foreplay for the two of us to masturbate together also!
Kisses!
Steph
WOW! I am honestly surprised at the "NO" votes here!
I thought this was more of a liberal crowd but I guess I'm in a totally different situation!
My hubby and I have been in the lifestyle over 27 years and it is always a thrill for us to see each other with a new partner!
I love watching another woman experience being with my Hubby! Knowing what he feels like and what he does, it is interesting and a great turn-on to see how her body reacts and her facial expressions and sounds!
Kisses!
Steph
I love them! And would love to have one!
But as others stated, it's not the same as having a guy or a gal between my legs!
Seriously though, I think every woman should have the chance to try one!
But! I also think it should be in a more intimate setting than a party. If it is at a party, then is should only be with someone who knows the machine and the woman trying it is comfortable with the person assisting!
I've been to several parties with a Sybian and it is more fun for those watching than the individual riding it. Unless the rider is an exhbitionist or just doesn't care about an audience.
There are some things out there that are better and it just depends on the individual.
But it can be helpful to those who are unable to enjoy sex with their partners or never had the right stimulation.
Kisses!
Steph
Nothing! I hate panties and only wear them for that time...
The rest of the time, I wear nothing!
If I have to wear anything its one of my favorite pearl strang thongs!
Kisses!
Steph
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