Not really an issue.
If you are a good guy, I am interested no matter the race.
If you are a born and bred jerk, it does not matter what races you are because you still are a jerk and need to move on to someone who does not care of your race or Jerkiness.
I have had Orgasms with a few messages. I fact one was quite recently when a friend took me to a special spa day. The masseuse did not have any hesitancy to work on my sensitive spots.
She gave me several nice "Os" even if I was relaxed.
We both tipped her very generously and were invited back, together or individually. I hope next time she will a naked as I was.
Come on that is one of the questions without a solution.
Miquella C
If you want group sex to work the starting place that is a must.
Can you separate Love and Sex? If not you are playing with fire that will destroy your relationship
Cyndy is so right and there are so many reasons why she is no longer interested in sex. Some could be unhealthy and she should have a good medical workup as well as psychological. Getting her to do this may not be so easy without saying there is something wrong with you.
At least half the married men I meet have a similar story. It may be health, it may be stress from job or home or kids. When you get home from work is it time to watch the evening news, while your wife makes dinner, starts the laundry, cleans up the kitchen and helps the kids with homework.
I hope you do more than half of those jobs too. That is your meal, your laundry and your kids too.
If you are not and change your ways you may find you have a mate that just forgot about sex for awhile.
Not a weekend away how about a week, where she is pampered, pleased and made to feel like a sex queen.
It might may just surprise you.
I know there are still one or two around SoCal. Not sure just where. But when my Mom was young 40's and 50's she swears that nearly all the out of wedlock children were conceived in the back seat to of a Ford or Chevy at the Drive In.
Remember then an out of wedlock child was a big deal .
I wonder if my oldest sibling was born early maybe fifth or sixth month after our parents were married.
I would not be turned on in the least and I would have not interest in watching either.
At the same time I would not be upset as he has the same rights and privileges as I do.
Open Relationship means open for both of us.
We have always lived the Open Relationship Life. But I know many who have tried it and had a disaster. So be careful and communicate, communicate, communicate.
The turn on is tremendous, but so it the risk if things go wrong.
One day he may say" I did not mean for you to go that far."
He may throw that event in your face at every disagreement as long as you are together.
So be sure you are in agreement.
Discuss it and discuss it some more before you go there. Then discuss it one more time.
My husband loves it and has brought guys home strickly for me on any number of events.
What you decide, have fun and good luck.
Kissing and any kind of sex go together like Salt and Pepper.
We never even use the word monogamous in our house or relationship.
He knew that there would be many other sexual partners in my life when we married all those years ago.
Swing Parties, Couples to party with. Friends he has brought home. Girlfriends I have brought home.
He loves to watch and I love to be watched.
We have never known another way to live. But I think most couples would have problems after a period of months or years in a no sharing relationship.
I could not think of living any other way
I think you can tell from my Avatar I am not one of the guys.
Of course, it is cheating. But we have lived this open lifestyle forever it seems.
He has the same rights and privileges as I do.
We often share the outside experiences. That is some of the time but not always.
Some think I cheat more than my husband.
Could that be true?.
Most certainly, in fact, I rather expect it. Well, I expect it if you are planning to do me again.
David if your wife will not enjoy this pleasure, you know I will spread my thighs for you anytime you want.
Seems to me that it all comes down to the point of just how secure we are in ourselves and in our relationship.
I have watched my husband do a few hot ladies, but that is really not my thing. Now he has watched me with lots of different guys and sometimes more than one in a session.
However, we keep love and sex as separate experiences and I know that is not something everyone does easily.
I do not think most woman are a picture conscious as guys are. The printed word is very erotic to lots of females.
Now if we become friends there is a very good chance we will share pictures and if you turn me on you certainly will hear about it.
I have two small ones and at this minute I can not remember why I thought this would be a good idea.
God did a great job when he created the human body, why must we mess with it.
One of these days I want to have mine removed. But the last time I checked you will still have a scar.
Seems like this is more of a Guy Question.
Stop is a Four Letter Word that should never be used in Mixed Company.
Unless he has brought friends to join in.
Never understood why so many men insist on their Lady swallowing his Semen.
Would one of you men explain?
Oh most certainly. But I am a BiSexual so maybe it would be different if I was straight.
If you can not appreciate the beauty and sexuality of another woman, you may not be able to appreciate yourself.
Really hard to believe the is a woman who has not tasted herself.
Is she kidding herself or us?
I have had lots of vagina orgasms, but there is that word again.
But things have to be just right. I think it is just as much my fault as his when I fail to have an orgasm from Penetration alone. Even, if I do not have an orgasm My God it feel good.
Now if he gets me right to the edge, before penetration a most glorious Orgasm is almost a certainty.
Certainly, all of the above.
Mostly Masturbation is a individual sport, but is there any reason others should not join in the pleasure?
I guess I missed the Memo.
But, when did we become so insecure that our partner can not even check out other people.
If he has lost interest in woman, what good am I to him anyway?
