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Over 90 days ago
Heteroflexible Female, 58
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Quote by DoubleDs
I think it's sexy when I come home and my hubby has something laid out for me to wear and tells me he would like to see me in that.


Most secure real woman like that as much as you do DoubleDs.
If you are with a man, boy who is more interested in a video game than sex.

Move on and More on FAST
Shaved and waxed every place those little devils show up. However I am seriously thinking about Laser.

If more of our Lush Sisters have used Laser, I would like to hear about it.
I never have, but I never would say never.

I do know one Tranny, but there is no chemistry.

Beautiful and still has a large package, that could be exciting.
Quote by wanderlustlove
someone is confusing porn and reality again


Sounds like you have never have been to a Sex or Swing Party, dear.
Quote by BethanyFrasier
By another girl, preferably. We're the only ones who seem to know how to do it right!


I think a man can be trained.
Oh yes as an Exhibitionist I love to show off what I have. A Shelf Bra makes something that is fun even better. She will love it I think

The risk is she may end up going home with someone else.
I have a couple and wish I did not. OK I was young and stupid.

What is more beautiful than the the human body until we screw it up.

Last I checked even if you have it removed you will still have a scar.

If I am not up to date on the technique of removal, please let me know.
Several years ago I posed the question "Guys just how important is Oral Sex to You? or something like that.

Yes most of them loved and may not enter into a relationship with a woman that would not provide Oral. But I was surprised at the number of men who indicated that Oral Sex was not that important.

I am not sure just what this means and if it could be reproduced in a Controlled Study.

I have never met a man that did not want Oral Sex as an appetizer.

I guess we should consider I love Oral as much as a man.
I would certainly be pleased knowing it was for me even if it was not. Probably have a similar reaction as the young woman in the Photograph.

If he was older I would offer to help him with his problem. Being so young I would stay away from him and advise him to make an adjustment.

Or Would I?
Yes several times. Some clubs are great fun and some not so much.

Some great clubs have at times a group of people that may not be what you are looking to play with.

So give it a try and if it is not to you liking, you can always leave.
Guess I am somewhere between Black Velvet and Matilda.

I do not know just what the conditions need to be for me to squirt. But when I do I almost certainly be in a condition less than fully conscious. Maybe like the French say Petit Mort.

Clitoral and simulations G-Spot is very helpful. but at least for me it is not a guaranty. Extended periods of time with what later seems like one Orgasm right on top of the previous Orgasm is a strong step in that direction. Of course having sex with more than one man at a time is a huge aid in the direction of squirting. From what I can remember the next day after the event nearly every muscle in my body felt like it was in spasm.

Like Black Velvet after squirting my Vagina and Clitoris feels like one mass of nerve ending ready to explode with the slightest stimulation. Not sure it is for the extended period she mentioned.

Even if I have learned a bit about the cause of squirting, I still can not make it happened on demand or anywhere near on demand.

Other Sister must have experiences to share. I think we are all interested.
If you clean up very well I doubt if you husband will be able to tell that another mans semen has been in your vagina. However there are lots of other tell tail signs and they may betray no matter how clean you are.

If you decide on an Open Marriage, just so you can have Sex with your special guy. I can almost guaranty that sex with this guy will not be as exciting and dangerous as if you went ahead and cheated on your husband until you get caught.

Having said that your Lush Sisters have given you wise if not the kind of advice you may wish to hear.
Collector you know Yoga Pants are for showing off the assets , not for comfort.

Yes they are my choice for casual wear after dresses and skirts.
He did not ask me out. Our relationship was just about sex.

The closest thing to a date was the time it took to get from the hotel bar to the front desk to get a room.

You see he was married and I am married. He had a constant fear of being caught. Me not so very much.

Once we met in a public place and never got to a hotel, that was the wildest.
Quote by BethanyFrasier
Its my name! Apparently, I'm the only one here who isn't hiding behind a made-up username!


No Ms Frasier maybe some of the member do not have as much to offer as others and needed to be creative in attracting attention...Well it could
Quote by BethanyFrasier
Men belong on the patio grilling on the barby while I'm swimming in the pool. The kitchen is MY territory! Unless I give you instructions to chop onions, dice carrots, etc. you'd better keep your ass OUT of my domain!


Good thing you never met my Robb you would have a serious clash.
I am a very good cook and enjoy cooking greatly. But the kitchen is my husbands domain and If I acted as anything but a guest, I would be out on the street.

Worked for us very well for many years.
Quote by CurvyBlonde92
Yes, girls really like anal. There are many nerve endings in a female's anus and when stimulated properly by penetration it can become extremely enjoyable and can lead to very intense and knee-buckling orgasms. Allowing a man to penetrate me in such an intimate and erotic body organ causes my eyes to roll back, my moans to become much deeper, longer, and erotic, my knee's to become weak, and my anus to become very warm and sensational. It is probably the most erotic way for me to be penetrated.


CB92 you said just about everything I had in mind. My only objection is either condoms or proper prep.

CB92 I see you are new welcome come by and say hi one day.
Even the most classy and expensive Escorts who will do most anything for the right price.

Still are reluctant to kiss a John. Much too Personal and Intimate.
Lush Brothers tell the size of our Boobs is not a factor and then you guys go nutso over a thread like this.

What am I missing?

Have not been down this path at least 1000 times?
Quote by Mysteria27
Too many.

But only with my husband for the last 20 years.

Hugs,
Mysteria
xo


Mysteria how can it possibly be too many?
I love to dress in a sexy manner. It could be expensive Lingerie, it could be a classy be yet sexy dress, or it could be the very top of the Slutty List.

Do I do it for the man I am with that night? Oh yes, but I also do it for myself.

If I pleases him and at the same time pleases me, I think that is about a good as it gets.
Quote by Meggsy
Wetting myself - not to the stage of urinating but yes to the stage where I do get moist,damp,wet from mental stimulation involving sexual activity.
I am well past my teenage years but very active sexually and frequently have damp patches in my pants from stimulating thoughts.
Touching myself or being touched is a guaranteed dampness. I don't squirt when having an orgasm but I do become quite wet.


Thanks for stating the normal for most of us females. As you all know I am much older than the median on Lush, but I still become very excited about sex.
Quote by MichaelJBranch
Well, the word "demand" doesn't work for me either, but "ask" does. And within certain boundaries, my answer would be yes.

I have had that conversation with my wife in the past. She was surprised I would be ok with it. She never took me up on the offer though and I never pushed it. She didn't seem to feel comfortable with the idea. She did ask me once why I would be ok with it and asked me wouldn't I be jealous?

So to answer your question as to why, I will try to explain by what I told her many years ago when we had such a conversation.

1) I can separate sex from love

2) I am not the jealous type, which she already knows, since guys flirting with her and dancing with her - never bothered me

3) I really like seeing women let loose and enjoy sex. The more wild they get, the more it makes me feel they enjoy it. Seeing women really enjoy sex - is a huge turn-on for me. I like porn just as much as any guy I guess (we are visual creatures), but most porn does look fake. You can tell a lot of their enjoyment is an act. So seeing your partner really get into sex, would be a lot more real and way more of a turn-on than the fake stuff you see in videos.

4) I am open to experiencing a lot of different things sexually and I certainly couldn't be upset with her for wanting the same.

With all that in mind, I have some boundaries/limits, because although I would not be jealous of the sex, I would not want love to form that could end up causing problems in our relationship. There are precautions/rules that I would probably insist be taken to avoid those types of issues - my boundaries.

- I would want to watch or participate (mfm - meaning both me an the other guy giving her attention - I am not bi). Not sure if I would ever let it happen with me not there. I am guessing not. But since none of this has ever happened and probably never will, I can't be sure

- Communication would be key to make sure we always knew how the other felt.

- If I felt or she felt any deeper feelings were starting to take root, then there would be no more encounters with that person. She would have to assure me that she would speak up, if she started to feel that way. Again good communication.

- Each encounter and person would have to be approved by both of us. Because it is something we are doing for each other. Not something to be hidden and done without both of us wanting it each time.

- It wouldn't be something we do all the time, but something we do from time to time to keep the new erotic experiences flowing

- Either one of us could say we are done with this type of experience at any time and for any reason or no reason and it just stops - no questions asked.


If all those things were agreed to, I would not only agree to try it, but I would want to have her try it. Not going to happen though, since that is just my fantasy, not hers.

I don't know if anyone has noticed, but several men have said yes to this question, but I see mostly no to the same question asked in the "ask the girls" section. What does that indicate - do you think? Men can separate sex from love better than women? Or are there more men who don't get jealous compared to women? Or does my wife's explanation fit best - all men are just pervs - lol.

I always answer, you wouldn't want it any other way. Of course we are pervs, that is why guys always chase girls. And you seem to enjoy it or you wouldn't have let yourself get caught.



I would agree with just about everything you have said. Of course Robb never had to encourage me in the slightest.