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2notches2many
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 154
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Also, it's been a long time indeed since we did oral sex. I can't really remember when. More than 15 months ago, that's for sure...not really my thing anyway, unless I do that to her. But then she would just not want to kiss again after that, and I really don't want to give that part up during sex anyway...so that is unrelated as well...
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Well, it's not that sex isn't great, just...I learned to fear and hate it for most of my life. The transition from virginity was difficult for that reason. I never had the chance to be in a normal, healthy relationship because I had no idea how to identify it. Long story. There was a cult in there somewhere, for like 20 years.
Anyway, back on topic, yes, there was pregnancy for her that was rough, so that's the reason for the long period without sex. But she told me about the aforementioned ability to taste it long before the pregnancy, so that's unrelated. I'm afraid of the thought that she would lie about that. There is no motive for it anyway. She has no need to offer a reason for not wanting me to come inside her.
Probably better to forget about it. Of course there are other issues in our marriage, but I can't see how this relates to that.
In all honesty, I didn't know what to believe. I trusted her and assumed she would be honest with me about it, I figured only she can know what she feels inside. Who was I to believe otherwise? But I was thinking about this today and it occurred to me that it files in the face of past experiences. There were times during sex when she would ask me if I had come yet. If she could taste it, wouldn't she know when I came? Why would she have to ask? But then, why make up a story like that? She could be scared of getting pregnant again despite the vasectomy. Even so...just doesn't explain it to me.
I really only came here to ask this question, since I figured I might get some opinions from folks with experience, and I don't have much by way of friends I would ask about this. I would go on about the problems, but this isn't marriage counseling. I would only embarrass myself further, and this is no place for that conversation, it would only lead to trouble.
Thanks for your replies.
Anyway, back on topic, yes, there was pregnancy for her that was rough, so that's the reason for the long period without sex. But she told me about the aforementioned ability to taste it long before the pregnancy, so that's unrelated. I'm afraid of the thought that she would lie about that. There is no motive for it anyway. She has no need to offer a reason for not wanting me to come inside her.
Probably better to forget about it. Of course there are other issues in our marriage, but I can't see how this relates to that.
In all honesty, I didn't know what to believe. I trusted her and assumed she would be honest with me about it, I figured only she can know what she feels inside. Who was I to believe otherwise? But I was thinking about this today and it occurred to me that it files in the face of past experiences. There were times during sex when she would ask me if I had come yet. If she could taste it, wouldn't she know when I came? Why would she have to ask? But then, why make up a story like that? She could be scared of getting pregnant again despite the vasectomy. Even so...just doesn't explain it to me.
I really only came here to ask this question, since I figured I might get some opinions from folks with experience, and I don't have much by way of friends I would ask about this. I would go on about the problems, but this isn't marriage counseling. I would only embarrass myself further, and this is no place for that conversation, it would only lead to trouble.
Thanks for your replies.
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New here...just wanted to ask the above question to see if any women out there have ever had this issue or heard of someone having it. My wife told me not to come inside her because it feels like she can taste it in the back of her mouth. It is strange to me because I can't see how that's even possible.
I'm asking because I have very little sexual experience in life, only two women and I am 30. So I have no idea about what women may feel down there. Kind of scary to talk about despite having had sex many times. But we went through a nearly 15 month period of no sex, and it's a bit frustrating to be told this, especially since I had a vasectomy and am sterile now. Too much information...but then this that kind of place, eh?
Any thoughts, ladies? There are days I wish I had stayed a virgin...have felt like I opened Pandora's Box before I was ready, though I waited until I was well into my 20s. Okay, time to shut up...
I'm asking because I have very little sexual experience in life, only two women and I am 30. So I have no idea about what women may feel down there. Kind of scary to talk about despite having had sex many times. But we went through a nearly 15 month period of no sex, and it's a bit frustrating to be told this, especially since I had a vasectomy and am sterile now. Too much information...but then this that kind of place, eh?
Any thoughts, ladies? There are days I wish I had stayed a virgin...have felt like I opened Pandora's Box before I was ready, though I waited until I was well into my 20s. Okay, time to shut up...