I've pondered this a time or two, more like hundreds of times, over the years because I've been reading these types of stories for a long time. Yes, I'm older than a lot of you here but not dead. Nonetheless, erotica is more about fantasy in my opinion. Yes, some things that are written are true but some of the details and descriptions have been, shall we say, over blown for the sake of the story. There are times you can tell what's fact or fiction in the stories we read.
Yes, there are things to learn from these stories and I've always loved to apply or try new things I've learned. But that doesn't mean every time I have sex there's a story to be told. Also, when you've had that sexual that can be made a story, its fun to put it together and see if anyone else likes it.
Fantasies are great, aren't they? It's always interesting to read erotica because in truth, it's someone's mind that is telling the story, not their body or their looks. It's a mental thing...
I've been with some women that rarely had orgasms during foreplay and intercourse.
One position that I used to help them climax was her on her back, legs spread wide, legs over my shoulders or her legs over her chest with her feet by her head where I was able to push my pelvic bone into hers as we rubbed back and forth for maximum clitoris and g-spot stimulation at the same time.
Another position with the same concept is to have her on top facing you having push down and work herself back and forth while you're fully impaled by her. This worked just as good as well and gives her the control as to when she wants to climax.
I'm a manly man and I really enjoy it when she toys with my ass! She's not into the strap-on thing although I'd love for her do it to me that way since I haven't experienced it. I'm not bi or gay. This type of play was introduced to me by an older woman and I've loved it ever since. Orgasms while my prostate is tweaked are very powerful! But none of this makes me bi or gay...
Love all positions but doing her doggie style allows me options to her treats along with spanking her ass cheeks and pulling her hair...
Women, do you enjoy having your feet licked and toes sucked? I know I'm not the only man that enjoys licking a woman's foot and sucking her toes during foreplay or during intercourse but I'm curious to read some comments from the women of Lush...
I focus on "her" by making sure she pleased by enjoying as many orgasms as possible before I have one. That's the mental side of things. Dancing Doll touched upon the physical things you can do.
Reading erotic stories should help you out.
Love I contact when she goes down on me. Love to see her staring at me in a hot erotic way as she pleases me.
Until both parties are satisfied albeit 5 mins or 5 hours.
Love giving and if she's willing, I'll receive...