Donald Duck. Both the character and how I wear clothes around the house.
Soft cheese or hard cheese?

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I like well written erotica but found I had to read a lot of dross to find good content.
This is exactly why I wrote my first story—if I was going to complain so much, I might as well do something about it. Though I've been writing my smutty little stories for years, I took a long hiatus during which I had not a single idea for a new plot. I revived this pen name in hopes that I could free up all the space in my brain dedicated to the dozen or so unfinished stories. Now, oops oops oops I'm migrating some of those stories here while I throw new stuff up on a subscription account. Fully back in the game, baby. Having spent such a long time writing in isolation, it's been good for me to connect with other erotica authors as well as get in the practice of replying to feedback.
Do I keep building on what I started? Or do I take what I’ve written, change the names, and turn them into stand-alone stories? I keep going back and forth.
When you create characters that you really like, and you keep their stories going, how much of that is for you vs. for potential readers?
If you're writing for pure pleasure, you get to do whatever you want. If you get bored, you don't owe people shit—not an alt ending, not a bonus chapter, not a HEA. You're the boss of you, baby. If you're writing for profit, however, you do have to keep your readers' investment in your characters in front of mind.
(Caveat: I often base characters on the most annoying people I've met in my life. I enjoy putting a real dumb dumb into a situation where they make sexy decisions that their real-life counterparts would never choose. It helps me be a little less precious with the fictional people I'm manipulating.)
If you want to keep characters going, it's worth figuring out why your audience likes them…or if they're more interested in the scenario you've built. And why not do both? A series that follows your favorite characters through various horny adventures, and a series in which various characters encounter the same horny situation but react differently?
One thing on my mind is how MM fiction is having such a cultural moment and (largely female) audience
No lie, I started writing because so many of the top MM stories on another erotica platform (we're talking 2006) were written by women, and I'd read them and think, "I don't talk like that. That's not how men describe each other. That's not how we think," etc. My first story was a test to see if I could beat them in the ratings with characters that behaved in a more familiar manner to me. I…am…[sigh] still trying.
I'm trying to decide which story gets put in Lush moderator purgatory next. Club bathroom quickie? The guy who gets turned on by thunderstorms? The straight bro who tries to fight his fiancée's male best friend and loses the fight and his anal virginity? Everything needs a good edit, and I made shitty covers for all of them (it makes me laugh, leave me alone), but the agony of the wait makes me want to upload one that I don't care about.
It took over a week to go from submission to publication, but my silly little story about a man discovering he's not as straight as he thought is finally up.
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/gay-male/sandalwood
You know those people who claim they're only a little gay when they're drunk? Straight
=sober, but tequila=make out with the closest person regardless of gender. (Maybe that was specific to my college, but most of those people came out later) This was my version of those people, dialed up to 11.
Nick blacks out when he drinks a lot, but his nerdy coworker might know what he gets up to
Gay MaleTo add to all the great suggestions above, one of my favorite things to do when distinguishing character voice is to figure out who in the story curses more. A buttoned-up nerd or bookish church mouse might not curse at all, finding dorky or antiquated replacement words. "Oh, fiddlesticks!" So it becomes a moment of character development when they utter their first real "fuck" on the page.
A brash person with little regard for their surroundings will curse even when it's unnecessary or inappropriate, and might have a smaller vocabulary than their peers because their favorite words all have four letters.
"Fucking gimme the thing."
"The what?"
"That little fucking thing. The buzzing thing. The shit you're holding right fucking now."
"Did you just forget the word 'vibrator?'"
"Fuck off."
Within a sex scene, one partner might say "yes please" while the other says "fuck yes" while the third is more "hell yeah" kind of dirty talker.
How someone curses, in the U.S. at least, can signify ethnicity or background without falling into racist caricatures. "Holy shit, you look awesome!" gives a different impression than "God damn you're looking good!" Or having a frustrated character say, "These fucking idiots are driving me batshit," feels different from, "These motherfuckers are about to drive me out of my god damn mind."