I'm an outgoing older woman, feminine, sensuous, active and in good health. I'm very hard to shock. I love reading, writing and sharing fantasies about sex as well as having sex with the right person, who is almost certainly another woman. Apart from that I love travel, good food, good wine, sea and mountains, lots of coffee and cats.

I have been accustomed in my working life to being in positions of authority and being assertive, and I now realise that inside I really crave being submissive, happy to let another take the initiative, coming on to me, seducing me gently and sensuously. I'm new to places like Lush and I don't really know yet how to signal this.

I have also become aware that there is a part of me that may be receptive to more extreme submissiveness.

Sorry, but I don't do pics. Not unless I know you very well. Please don't send me any unless I ask, Which once again I may if I get to know you very well.