Married to Seina
We met in 2013, she fresh out of college on a summer trip to Germany. Fell in love, had a 1.5 years long distance relation. I visited her in Japan, she visited me in Germany. While we were separated we each had our own sex life and when being together, we found likeminded people for sexy encounters together. Then she moved, we married and I found her a job. Her family disapproved of all this.
Starting in 2018 or so, we wanted kids but we found out that I am infertile. We started visiting fertility clinics and weighted the options. On a planned short trip to Japan Corona broke out and we didn't want to go back to Germany. The situation got longer, we lost our jobs in Germany and we were stuck in Japan. Our wish for kids did not diminish, but fertility clinics are so expensive here, and health insurance doesn't cover the treatments.
Given our quite open attitude, we decided to get Seina pregnant the natural way. We started dating guys where we lived, in Tokyo. We decided that they be westerners, since we want our kid to resemble me (at least a little bit). Some were okay with fucking her bareback. I was always there when they had sex, and I participated, too - of course. Then in April 2020, we were successful, and she is going to give birth in January.
Because of the difficult family relation (parents don't like me, even Seina's sibling started to shun us, when they found out how we 'solved' the infertility situation), our last resort was Lola (a college friend of Seina), who is offering us shelter in her home.
I found a job here in Sapporo in my profession as a cook. Lola is awesome, and we three live out our lives, in harmony at least for the time being. We live day by day, not knowing what will come tomorrow.

If there is any man with similar situation, or just any man (or woman, or LGBTQ person), I would be happy to chat with you.

Interests
Cooking, Family, Fatherhood