Generally this is how it I see it.
Pornography - Getting a sexual thrill/pleasure from watching other people having sex, however as it is a solo experience, its acceptable and is not cheating
Cyber Sex - Getting a thrill/pleasure from having sexual interaction with another person outside of your relationship, is not acceptable and is cheating (its no different than texting, videoing, phone sex)
Basically, stick with porn, its not exactly a fantastic and innocent solution, but its the least of all the evils.
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Over 90 days ago
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I dunno...I always think people should know how to act, im still a newb myself kinda, only been here a few months, but i still knew how to act and talk to people, its kind of obvious to honest. Its not exactly a secret that we are all here for one reason, because we're all horny buggers, but that doesnt mean we shouldnt show respect, or that somebody is gonna do whatever you say, just because they are horny. im sure at least most of us are completely normal people outside lush, so it just seems obvious to me that you should show tact and be poilte when meeting people on forum, particularly if you new.
Its like that guy who posted a topic about webcamming, not a shred of tact or decorum, i was reading the topic just thinking..CRINGE
Its like that guy who posted a topic about webcamming, not a shred of tact or decorum, i was reading the topic just thinking..CRINGE
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So a very messy party a Bondi Beach last weekend, meant there were plenty of hangovers around the next morning believe me. One positive result however, was that i met a girl that I really liked, in fact i'd go as far as too say i fancy the absolute arse off her. I think im a reasonable looking guy, but I almost feel like im punching above my weight shes that pretty. we just sorta hit it off and really got on well, had such a laugh and seemed to have alot in common, not to mention she is an absolute stunner. We stayed up all night and talked for hours, about all sorts of trivia crap, even though we had just met that night, i felt like i really got to know her. She gave me her number and insisted she wanted to meet up again really soon, i got her facebook as well. I couldnt believe how nice she was, she acted just as into me as was into her, it looked so promising.
Im sure most people have been there? You know, when you meet somebody THAT good, you cant take your mind off them, even when you havent know them long, something just clicks, and you really want it to go futher.
So i was texting and messaging this girl on facebook, she said she would come up and see me as soon as she gets time, she seemed so keen and into me, i really wanted it to happen. This was only 4 or 5 days ago, but since then she hasnt replied to any messages. I havent bombarded her with messages or anything, ive only sent a couple, but like i say, i always wonder what the hell is going on when people never txt back. I sent her an inbox on facebook that she didnt reply to, but i know shes been on facebook cos ive seen her status update (im not stalking her or anything...! 0.o), but not a sausage on my phone or my fb inbox.
I dont get what the hell goes through girl's heads half the time, its like one moment shes keen as mustard, then next she not interested at all. I know ive sometimes had a weakness in the past, when i really like somebody, of getting way too keen and ahead of myself too soon, so im trying to stand off and let her get in touch with me, but it feels like waiting for a train thats never going to come. Maybe i need to go into a corner and have a word with myself or something, but i stop thinkin bout her its driving me crazy, and ive only just met the effing girl! I think theres something wrong with me lol...
I know shes planning on going to mexico soon, im not sure how long for, but it just sounds like a general holiday for a few weeks or a month or so, and she has just been through the process of moving house, and she works alot, so i would have just put it down to being busy, because its only been afew days.........If it wasnt for the fact that shes been replying to others on facebook and not to me.....(and she uses her phone for facebook so i know shes got my txts). I dont think she spends very much time on facebook, but shes definatley been on a some point.
Womens minds absolutely baffle me, so like, what should i do? I think ive probably sent her enough messages already, i sent her 1 txt and 1 facebook msg, and she has replied to niether, but like i say, i know she got them. I cant send anymore, that would getting into "pushy" territory. So what, have i just been too keen or got a bit ahead of myself and possibly scared her off? Has she lost interest? Does it sound like she's just busy? Or is she still interested, but just doesnt have anything good to say at the minute. Or is she even just trying to keep me keen by not txting? Like a reverse psychology thing? I know you girls do funny things.....
I dont know what the answer is, but opinions are welcome, and it kinda feels good to get this off my chest. I dont have many people to talk to about this kinda thing...
Im sure most people have been there? You know, when you meet somebody THAT good, you cant take your mind off them, even when you havent know them long, something just clicks, and you really want it to go futher.
So i was texting and messaging this girl on facebook, she said she would come up and see me as soon as she gets time, she seemed so keen and into me, i really wanted it to happen. This was only 4 or 5 days ago, but since then she hasnt replied to any messages. I havent bombarded her with messages or anything, ive only sent a couple, but like i say, i always wonder what the hell is going on when people never txt back. I sent her an inbox on facebook that she didnt reply to, but i know shes been on facebook cos ive seen her status update (im not stalking her or anything...! 0.o), but not a sausage on my phone or my fb inbox.
I dont get what the hell goes through girl's heads half the time, its like one moment shes keen as mustard, then next she not interested at all. I know ive sometimes had a weakness in the past, when i really like somebody, of getting way too keen and ahead of myself too soon, so im trying to stand off and let her get in touch with me, but it feels like waiting for a train thats never going to come. Maybe i need to go into a corner and have a word with myself or something, but i stop thinkin bout her its driving me crazy, and ive only just met the effing girl! I think theres something wrong with me lol...
I know shes planning on going to mexico soon, im not sure how long for, but it just sounds like a general holiday for a few weeks or a month or so, and she has just been through the process of moving house, and she works alot, so i would have just put it down to being busy, because its only been afew days.........If it wasnt for the fact that shes been replying to others on facebook and not to me.....(and she uses her phone for facebook so i know shes got my txts). I dont think she spends very much time on facebook, but shes definatley been on a some point.
Womens minds absolutely baffle me, so like, what should i do? I think ive probably sent her enough messages already, i sent her 1 txt and 1 facebook msg, and she has replied to niether, but like i say, i know she got them. I cant send anymore, that would getting into "pushy" territory. So what, have i just been too keen or got a bit ahead of myself and possibly scared her off? Has she lost interest? Does it sound like she's just busy? Or is she still interested, but just doesnt have anything good to say at the minute. Or is she even just trying to keep me keen by not txting? Like a reverse psychology thing? I know you girls do funny things.....
I dont know what the answer is, but opinions are welcome, and it kinda feels good to get this off my chest. I dont have many people to talk to about this kinda thing...
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Wha.......jesus Jen is ok, in fact shes fit, but she aint no sexiest woman of all time, she wouldnt even make the top 1000! Plus her perminently erect nipples start to annoy me after seeing them for so long. No.....just....no....
Some others here are right, sexy doesnt just mean pretty, or even just having a great body, its an all round attitude, an aura, something extremely and overwhelmingly seductive about them. Jennifer Aniston is not seductive....in fact shes not even as sexy as her friends co-star Courtney Cox!!! Wtf is Mens Health doing....
She not my personal favorite, but how about somebody like Monica Bellucci?
Also add Olga Kurylenko, Natalie Portman and Milla Jovovich into the arena, all are way way way sexier than bloody jennifer aniston...
Some others here are right, sexy doesnt just mean pretty, or even just having a great body, its an all round attitude, an aura, something extremely and overwhelmingly seductive about them. Jennifer Aniston is not seductive....in fact shes not even as sexy as her friends co-star Courtney Cox!!! Wtf is Mens Health doing....
She not my personal favorite, but how about somebody like Monica Bellucci?
Also add Olga Kurylenko, Natalie Portman and Milla Jovovich into the arena, all are way way way sexier than bloody jennifer aniston...
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Women lie about their age, men lie about their cock size. From the topics i have seen, I dare bet 75% of men on luch have 
Guys actually lie about the size of the their dicks to other guys, as well as to girls, its kind of like an alpha-male/manhood thing, and to be honest its pathetic. Guys that do lie, are going to look like right tit heads when they actually get the girl into bed. "Hey I thought you said you were 9"!?",
"Oh...Yeah but I left 4" in the boot of my car, didnt think i would be needing it tonight...."
Fuckwits...
Guys actually lie about the size of the their dicks to other guys, as well as to girls, its kind of like an alpha-male/manhood thing, and to be honest its pathetic. Guys that do lie, are going to look like right tit heads when they actually get the girl into bed. "Hey I thought you said you were 9"!?",
"Oh...Yeah but I left 4" in the boot of my car, didnt think i would be needing it tonight...."
Fuckwits...
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Quote by Mazza
People read bios?? That's gotta be a first...
i read bois, i like to know a about people.
Yeah i get quite pissed off when i read a profile saying "NO MEN!", ok so you're a lesbian? Well what do you want a fucking trophy?
I can understand ladies not wanting to be bombarded with friend requests off tons of unwanted guys, particularly guys who are forward and have no tact (like sending messages saying "Hi baby im horny wanna fuck?") guys that do that are out of order, and probably deserve a slap, but if a girl put bisexual as her sexual preference, then surely guys are entitled to send a request. If they put lesbian, then any guy with half an ounce of common sense will not send a request, and the ones that still do can just be ignored. And yeah to be honest it would be an easy loophole for a guy to upload a few pics of a girl and pretend he is her, a little pathetic, but he would get what he wanted and all the girls who accepted him would not know any different. So at the end of the day, whats the point in writing it?
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Yes I have facebook, i dont know anybody anywhere near well enough for me to add them, the only people i would add would be girls that i feel i've gotten to know well, and trust alot, and thats nobody at the minute. I dont want people that I dont know, having access to my personal life. So if anybody wants my facebook, they would have to make an effort to get to know me much better, it would probably take several months of regular interaction, for me to feel like i know and trust them enough, and even then i may feel uneasy about giving it out. I have alot of close friends in real life on facebook, and dont want to risk anybody finding out something that they dont need to know, like about lush for example.
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well definatley in the 40's because I just watched "Austin Powers spy who shagged me" last night, and Heather Graham who is absolute sex on legs in that film is now 41, and would jump at the chance to get with her. Also Sandra Bullock and Julia Roberts still float my boat, so yeah I would probably shoot as high as 45 if she was really stunning!
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I would, but not for sex, or should I say not only for sex. i would want to date properly and take it seriously, just because we met on the net doesnt mean the rules change. Just because we are all highly sexual people here, doesnt mean thats all we are interested in. I would want to meet somebody who i really liked and connected with, not just somebody who wanted no strings sex and nothing more.
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Quote by Regello77
Yes , a beautiful young Italian girl , 29 to my 23 years . Married by family arrangement to a man who was completely impotent ; she had a baby girl by a fellow university student . The father fled to London when the baby was born ; she came looking for him , I directed her to his address and he was away for the weekend . I showed her a little of London and we became lovers . Our love affair lasted two years , but eventually distance brought it to an end . I think of her still and love her as I did when we were young ; she would be 80 now and I wonder whether she's still alive . In retrospect I regret using condoms , pre pill , that I didn't give her another baby ; I think she would have liked that .
I actually found this story very engaging and interesting, it almost sounds like the true love that never was. One thing i never try and take for granted is that everybody has a story to tell, and i firmly believe that. Its amazing how some of the most average joe, dull, boring, everyday people, can have the most interesting experiences to share (not that you are any of these things of course). Thats one thing i love about life, because some of the most ordinary people can really blow you away when you listen to their story. Thanks for sharing this, it touched me.
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Is that soccer for us on this side of the pond?
Doesnt sound like it...
And this is a strange one, because I dont think girls who are mega football fans are any sexier than if they wernt, its not something ive ever considered as a bonus. Having an interest in sport, great, but there is a line where a girl can be become too boyish with her hobbies/interests. To be honest I wouldnt want my girl to have the all the same interests as me, and i dont find girls who are into manly things, any more attractive than girls who are into girly stuff, in fact probably the the other way around. If a girl said she wasnt into the same sports i was, it wouldnt make a shred of difference to me, just so long as she didnt interfere with my interest in it. Simple fact is that opposites attract as well, so I think not being into the exactly the same things can be a positive thing.
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This gonna sound really wrong, but i once used the cardboard cylinder you get inside toilet roll rolls, i put loads of Aquious cream inside of it, and put my cock in it and used it to wank (like a fleshlight i suppose...), it felt pretty good actually, but i never did it again cos it made a mess. Standard...
Ok im really embarressed now so i'll be going, and wont be speaking to anybody for a several weeks...lol...
And ive just realised this is ask the gals.....shoot me please...
Ok im really embarressed now so i'll be going, and wont be speaking to anybody for a several weeks...lol...
And ive just realised this is ask the gals.....shoot me please...
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In no particularly order: Hayden Panettiere (Heros), Cheryl Cole (Singer), Arielle Kebbel (American Pie Band Camp), Samaire Armstrong (The O.C, Daniel Powter - Bad Day Video), Sarah Chalke (Scrubs), Kate Benkinsale (Underworld) Natalie Portman (Star Wars), Milla Jovovich (Fifth Element, Resident Evil), Thandi Newton - (Rock N Roller), Eva Longoria (Desperate Housewives), Maria Kanellis (WWE), Frankie Sandford (Singer - The Saturdays), Gwenth Paltrow (Sliding Doors, Shallow Hal), Monica Belluci (Matrix), Kylie Monogue (singer) Whew! *Deep Breath* erm...shall I keep going....?
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One of mine is the statement "you know" it drives me insane! Another is "like".
Well I use like quite alot, but thats because im from North East England, we use it alot up there. "Fancy going for a pint like?". Just seems to sound right to us.
"Chillax" really annoys me, and before i came to Oz i actually hated the word "Dude", but now im here everybody says it so ive started saying it too lol. Another pet hate is when people apologise before they say something for hardly any good reason, its completely stupid and pointless. "Im sorry but....I think we should do this", "Im sorry but....I think we should go there". Why are you saying sorry!!!? lol
I also dont like people saying "Im offended". It has nothing to do with the words, but basically thats what people say because they want to whine and whinge about something. Thats what makes me laugh when people say "that offends me", they now think that because they are offended they have more rights than everybody else. Being offended doesnt make fuck all difference, so fuckin what, deal with it, or learn to take a joke. (obviously some serious things DO offend, like racism ect...)
Other annoying sayings:
"Ten Dollars says.....I can beat you at pool" (money cant fuckin talk)
"Easy Listening" (What? Listening is easy, you stay awake and it happens in fuckin spite of you!)
"Theres a bug going round" (What...just one? o.0)
"Science doesnt know everything" (Well fuckin obviously, otherwise it would stop)
"You're being racist" (When dissing another country, with the same main ethnic background. This really gets on my tits, for example if an Dutch person says to an English man "I dont like the English!" people think its racism. Its not, you cant be racist against countries, you can only be racist against RACE, hence the name racism, and the same goes for religions too. People think Jews are a race, they are not the're a religion, you cant be Racist against them because thats not what racism means. Races are Caucasian, Black, Arabic, Asian ect ect...)
"The awkward moment when..." intially started on facebook with a couple of funny groups, but its expanded into loads of pointless and stupid groups most of which, wouldnt even be a fuckin awkward moment. "The awkward moment when you realise you left your mobile phone at home". Yes because thats really is a embarressing situation isnt it.... you couldnt just think "I'll get it later.." Jeez
Anyways ive rambled on enough, you can tell im bored lol
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well i have a few songs that i like to chill to, stuff like Bittersweet Symphony by the Verve, or Heaven is a Halfpipe by OPM, or Aerosmiths Dream On, (but i like loads and loads of different music cant name them all). Also final fantasy music is awesome to listen to, and even some film music, like stuff off Lord of the Rings.
