Are Females attracted to Musicians more than normal people?
What the fuck is a normal person lol, theres not such thing as normal, and if there is, i dont want to be it! Anyways its not like musicians are endangered species like the Jedi Order or some fuckin thing. Yes being able to play and instrument is definately attractive, but so is being a Fireman, so is being a Dolphin Trainer, so is being a good at dance, so are a comedians or actors, so is being a racing driver. The point is that in order to be found more attractive, you have to do something worthwile with your life, something that doesnt pull you into the flow of current with everybody else, just living life going to work all week and drinking on weekends, the same routine as everybody else. You have to have something or some quality that makes you, you. That doesnt mean being a musician, but just doing something that seperates you from the many. Something as simple as being a little bit different, is very attractive, and being the same as everybody else is boring. But usually i tend to think everybody is different anyway, theres no such thing as normal, theres you, and everybody else. But for the purposes of this discussion, yes being able to play an instrument is very attractive.
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erm...the only time i have any trouble (same for most people) is if im drunk, other than that then theres no stopping me lol. Cant really think of the reason why that would be, the only thing is, are you cut? Cos that can take away some sensitivity and make it harder to cum. (although im cut and its never really bothered me)
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(I know this is ask the girls but idc) If shes not even willing to try it, it sounds like she might worried about something. Pahaps she worried about her scent or if she tastes good down there. Im not sure, but i can imagine alot of girls get paranoid about if they taste and smell good or not, she might be worried that if you dont like her taste it will spoil everything?
I love giving oral sex to girls, but i'll be first to admit that some girls taste better than others, some have tasted great I could lick them for hours, but other girls havent tasted so good, or their taste was over powering, and in all honesty that puts me off alot. But to be honest, girls who are clean and take care of themselves shouldnt have that problem, bit like men who dont clean themselves properly have that same effect on women....
I love giving oral sex to girls, but i'll be first to admit that some girls taste better than others, some have tasted great I could lick them for hours, but other girls havent tasted so good, or their taste was over powering, and in all honesty that puts me off alot. But to be honest, girls who are clean and take care of themselves shouldnt have that problem, bit like men who dont clean themselves properly have that same effect on women....
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Yeah IC_n2U, the girl you posted is limit of when tattoos go from sexy to excessive, she is about the cut off point. Tattoos can be amazingly sexy, but having them everywhere is too much for me, i want to see your plain soft flesh as well as your tattoos, so its about finding the balance.
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Lauren thats probably one of the most sensible posts ive ever read on this forum! Kudos gal! 
Yeah I think there are a few of
on the forum ha 
To build on Laurens analogy, "its not the size of the nail, its the hammer you're throwing at it!"
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Amazing isn't it how many guys here reporting on this topic are claiming cock sizes of seven inches and 'above average' girth. Many concede average length but insist on thickness as being their redeeming factor.
Yeah I think there are a few of
on the forum ha To build on Laurens analogy, "its not the size of the nail, its the hammer you're throwing at it!"
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I did when i was younger, its only after being with a few ladies that your technique gets better. From my experience most ladies dont like big cocks as it can be sore.
Mine hits the spots ive been told.
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Anyways, yes i would hazard a guess at....mmm...at least 75% of men probably are not totally happy with their penis, i bet that figure wont be far wrong. I just like girls and their boobs in that respect. Alot of girls dont get boob jobs, but that doesnt mean they are 100% happy with them. I think we all have things on our bodies we would change if we could, but ultimately its about learning to love yourself with what you have and as you are, then once your are secure, that confidence will too. Besides i always think its more about being satisfied by your partner, then it is about being satisfied by yourself.
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For some reason, i always think a womans virginty is more precious than a mans, i have absolutely no idea why i think that, maybe its just because many men focused on "conquests" more than woman are. Its unusual for me to say things like that actually, as i always try and not tar everybody with same brush and not do double standards, but fact is you rarely see women going around bragging about how many people they have shagged, as opposed to some men, who do it alot. It seems to me on average, women have greater self respect than men when it comes to sex, and therefore their viginity means more to them, thus they hold onto it longer. This is purely my take on the stereotype though, there are plenty of guys out there who value their viginity just as much.
I couldnt wait to get rid of my virginity, but the reason was manly because of peer pressure, as most of my mates had already lost theirs before me, so i felt that i had to follow suit. So yeah, i first had sex at aged either 16 or 17 (cant remember exactly) in a backstreet, with a girl I didnt find particularly attractive. I Regretted it ever since, wish i had held onto it for somebody worthwhile, the only positives i could take away was a small amount of experience i guess, but other than that, wasnt worth it.
But then on the flip side, i sometimes think people take virginity too seriously. In my own opinion, virginity only matters at the time, looking back now, it doesnt make much difference, as ive obviously been with more girls since then, what does it matter if they are the 1st or the 15th, its only sex right? How many people can hold their hands up and say they are still with that same person? Ok some can im sure, but most cant....
So in an ideal world, yeah save your virginity for somebody who is worth it, but if you dont, i wouldnt beat yourself up about it, in the long run i think its neither here nor there.
I couldnt wait to get rid of my virginity, but the reason was manly because of peer pressure, as most of my mates had already lost theirs before me, so i felt that i had to follow suit. So yeah, i first had sex at aged either 16 or 17 (cant remember exactly) in a backstreet, with a girl I didnt find particularly attractive. I Regretted it ever since, wish i had held onto it for somebody worthwhile, the only positives i could take away was a small amount of experience i guess, but other than that, wasnt worth it.
But then on the flip side, i sometimes think people take virginity too seriously. In my own opinion, virginity only matters at the time, looking back now, it doesnt make much difference, as ive obviously been with more girls since then, what does it matter if they are the 1st or the 15th, its only sex right? How many people can hold their hands up and say they are still with that same person? Ok some can im sure, but most cant....
So in an ideal world, yeah save your virginity for somebody who is worth it, but if you dont, i wouldnt beat yourself up about it, in the long run i think its neither here nor there.
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Well intially it was the erotic stories that brought me here, but since i joined and actually looked around the place, ive been more participating in forum convo. I do really like the forum section, with a wide variety of sexual and non-sexual questions, that mean there is more than enough for people to talk about, and most people seem really genuine and I love the openness that is shared here, after all, its rare that IRL men and women get to answer and ask some of the topics that a brought up here, particularly without feeling embarressed or too forward, so find that aspect really intruiging and informative, as well as downright horny half the time lol.
Im not into chat or cyber sex much, I have a bit of a grasshopper mind, I hate sending messages and then just sitting waiting for replys, as when im on the net i like to jump across different tabs, webpages and sites, and then back to lush etc... and sometimes im doing things around the house at the same time, so usually when i chat i end up missing replys because of that. So yeah I prefer sending PM's, much easier in my view, i dont feel compelled to stare at the screen waiting for the reply. Anyways I engoy talking about sex particularly with the ladies, but the actually roleplay sex that people do on chat doesnt do much for me, maybe its because im not used to it, or feel a bit awkward doing it, but thats why I dont chat very often.
I am a bit of a nosey bugger, so i like scrolling through different girls profiles alot, if you get a friend request its usually because I like your profile or pictures, saw a post or topic one the forum at I found intresting, enjoyable or even just agreed with, or if I read one of your stories and enjoyed it. Its very rare i request anybody who doesnt at least have a decent avatar of themselves, and some info to go with it, hell it doesnt have to be a nude pic, but at least give me some idea of who you are, and a bit of info to read about you, I like finding out about people on a personal level, so a bit of info is what i like to see, doesnt have to be paragraph after paragraph, just a few words about yourself, its not much to ask is it?
I usually dont delete people though, i dont know what the point is, no im not collecting trophy friends, but I just like browsing profiles or people that im interested in, even if i dont tell them im intereted. Once ive added somebody, why delete them? Unless they are actually annoying me I cant see why I would delete them would make any difference, whats the point in adding them in first place then?..........I dunno...whatever...
Maybe im being a bit selfish, looking at girls nude pictures and not having any nude ones of myself for people to look at, i have no idea on peoples take on that, but im not uploading naked pictures of myself to the internet, dont feel comfortable doing that.
To be honest, I dont really know what im looking to get out of lush, im enjoying the forum topics, pics, stories etc etc....but I highly doubt im going to find anything beyond that, that will make any difference in the long term, the chances of actually meeting somebody from this site IRL are probably slim at best, but for now im just seeing how it goes. ; )
Im not into chat or cyber sex much, I have a bit of a grasshopper mind, I hate sending messages and then just sitting waiting for replys, as when im on the net i like to jump across different tabs, webpages and sites, and then back to lush etc... and sometimes im doing things around the house at the same time, so usually when i chat i end up missing replys because of that. So yeah I prefer sending PM's, much easier in my view, i dont feel compelled to stare at the screen waiting for the reply. Anyways I engoy talking about sex particularly with the ladies, but the actually roleplay sex that people do on chat doesnt do much for me, maybe its because im not used to it, or feel a bit awkward doing it, but thats why I dont chat very often.
I am a bit of a nosey bugger, so i like scrolling through different girls profiles alot, if you get a friend request its usually because I like your profile or pictures, saw a post or topic one the forum at I found intresting, enjoyable or even just agreed with, or if I read one of your stories and enjoyed it. Its very rare i request anybody who doesnt at least have a decent avatar of themselves, and some info to go with it, hell it doesnt have to be a nude pic, but at least give me some idea of who you are, and a bit of info to read about you, I like finding out about people on a personal level, so a bit of info is what i like to see, doesnt have to be paragraph after paragraph, just a few words about yourself, its not much to ask is it?
I usually dont delete people though, i dont know what the point is, no im not collecting trophy friends, but I just like browsing profiles or people that im interested in, even if i dont tell them im intereted. Once ive added somebody, why delete them? Unless they are actually annoying me I cant see why I would delete them would make any difference, whats the point in adding them in first place then?..........I dunno...whatever...
Maybe im being a bit selfish, looking at girls nude pictures and not having any nude ones of myself for people to look at, i have no idea on peoples take on that, but im not uploading naked pictures of myself to the internet, dont feel comfortable doing that.
To be honest, I dont really know what im looking to get out of lush, im enjoying the forum topics, pics, stories etc etc....but I highly doubt im going to find anything beyond that, that will make any difference in the long term, the chances of actually meeting somebody from this site IRL are probably slim at best, but for now im just seeing how it goes. ; )
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Well what kind of annoys me, is that often calling a girl "curvy", they think you mean fat. No definatley not right, you can be curvy and still slim, is all depends on size and shape of boobs and arse mostly. But every girl is different, and i find thin/skinny girls, and curvy girls equally attractive depending on how that particular girl. Some girls are thin, but have naturally curvy arses and big boobs, i would consider this, curvy. But I dont enjoy being with fat girls, who are clearly overweight, and there is a big difference between what I call curvy and what I call fat. But often girls think curvy does mean fat, which it doesnt, and some girls tend to think they are fat, when they are not. I dont like lazyness, and i dont think there are any excuses for people being "fat", men or women (barring medical problems are the exception, which do exsist). But being curvy is not the same as being fat. lol