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AudriNichols

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10 Feb 2015

If you had an open no secrets policy before, and all the sudden he's hiding things...he's cheating. Don't fool yourself into giving him the benefit of the doubt. He's hiding what he's doing online because he knows he'll get caught if he doesn't. If it was something innocent he would have told you about it when he changed his passwords the first time. If it was something innocent, he wouldn't try to hide it from you like he has a secret to keep. People who keep secrets from their partners do so because they know they are doing something they shouldn't be. He's cheating.

Save yourself a whole lot of drama and just break up with him. Obviously he doesn't care about you, or he wouldn't betray your trust like that.

10 Feb 2015

I want to do something really nice for dinner for the two of us, but homemade.
I already have dessert planned, but I'm looking for dinner ideas.

My man requested a nice big salad, so that's a given.
I'm thinking shrimp of some kind, as an appetizer.
I'm kind of at a loss for something special for the main course.
He doesn't really like steak, so I'm thinking chicken of some kind, but I want to do something new.
Any ideas? What is your favorite chicken recipe?

10 Feb 2015

I've always dated older men. They tend to be more experienced in how to treat a lady.

10 Feb 2015

I enjoy it.

8 Feb 2015

If it's done right, I enjoy a good spanking. ;)

6 Feb 2015

When I was a child I watched Wishmaster and Hellraiser. Those two are the only ones that ever really scared me. Now as an adult, I find most of them either incredibly boring or totally stupid. Not scary. I prefer psychological thrillers, that make you stop and think, but they aren't usually scary.

6 Feb 2015

Quote by Guest
I guess it would have to be The Last House on the Left. What scares me most about it is that something like that can actually happen. There are so many sick weirdos in this world. The best part of the movie was when the main bad guys' head was blown up in the microwave. Now those were some great special effects.

I agree. It's the stuff that can actually happen that is more terrifying than anything else. I only watched it because of the actors in it. I had no idea at the time what would happen or how graphic and violent it would be. It's been years since I've seen that movie and I still can't get those images out of my head. Ick...

What bothers me most about that movie is that several someones actually thought of the subject matter as entertaining. Enough to spend millions of dollars to make the movie. That's truly disturbing.

6 Feb 2015

Quote by RumpleForeskin
A few that might stir some interest are:
1. Medical settings: doctors, nurses, EMT's, in hospitals, clinics, labs, out-patient, etc..
2. Sex in uniform: would expand #1 to include members of the military, law enforcement,pilots and flight attendants, etc..
3. Historical fiction: There seems to be a small but steady stream of stories on Lush set in the way-'back-when' such as: ancient Rome Victorian England or the 19th century US West. A separate category might encourage more.

These are really good suggestions. I was going to mention historical too. I think Lush should add all three, as well as a collaborative section for co-authored stories.

6 Feb 2015

I am a Switch. To me it's the best of both worlds.

6 Feb 2015

I enjoy it, if its done right. It's kind of like spanking, only a little more intense.
But I like a little pain with my pleasure. Not everyone does.
It doesn't really hurt. It's more of a shock sensation to me.

6 Feb 2015

6 Feb 2015

If you aren't sure what to get her, go for a kit. They usually range anywhere from $30-$100 and have a variety of toys to choose from.

Most come with a standard sized vibrator, two or three different types of vibrator sleeves, ben-wa balls, an anal toy, clit stimulation gel, sometimes a blindfold or handcuffs. Some come with nipple clamps or clit jewelry. It just depends on which kit you get. But that way she will have a variety of stuff to play with, and she can choose which sleeves she likes best. Then when she is more familiar with what she enjoys, she can choose a more expensive toy for herself.

Try something like this: http://store.lushstories.com/Vibrators/Kits-and-Sleeves/Extreme-Toyz-Collection/sku-CNVELD-PDRD147?a=lushadultstore
And be sure to add plenty of the proper batteries, and maybe a naughty book or a movie.

6 Feb 2015

That is actually a huge turn off to me.

6 Feb 2015

I don't really care what it looks like, so long as he knows how to use it.

5 Feb 2015

To be clear, I am not judging anyone for their lifestyle. It's really no ones business anyway. I don't really care what other people do, or who they choose to sleep with. I don't think it's right that society judges people based on that, as if they somehow less worthy to be loved, than anyone else. People have free will to live however they want. That is not in question.

It's just this idea that no one has a choice in their sexuality that seems ridiculous to me. After all, heterosexual people have the ability to change their sexuality to gay or lesbian, which happens every day, especially with women who are sick and tired of being treated like crap from men. They choose to "go lesbian". If no one has a choice in their sexuality, (like the LGBT community so desperately wants us to all believe) that simply wouldn't be possible. Those women would be stuck sleeping with men their entire lifetime, because they would have no choice.

No one questions their ability to choose to give up heterosexuality for homosexuality. Yet if a person is bi, or gay or lesbian, chooses to "go straight" they are suddenly lying to themselves? Can we say double standard? That concept of "I'm gay/lesbian/bi etc because I have no choice." is flawed at best, and I think deep down, people know it.

And now I've said all I have to say on the matter. smile

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Quote by She

I hear what you are saying and agree with a lot of it.
On this topic were similar discussions in the past, they got nasty, people got offended, I was deleted from friends lists, blocked and called names, even homophobic but I don't resent them nor do I judge them. We all fight with tools and knowledge we have and this topic is delicate and people have difficulties to wrap their mind around it, which is understandable because we were taught to think differently for centuries. I don't judge them, it is understandable.

If we could, as humans, give it a thought that we are bisexuals (or whatever label suits this definition) by nature and not heterosexuals that we are attracted to both genders, we would in this modern age have much less difficulties. After all it is just about who we fuck and who are we attracted to. Heterosexuality is a norm, a standard, something which is right way and I don't agree with it one bit. We are not born to be attracted to one specific gender, we have preferences of course as we have them in all different fields. We do not have sex with every person we are attracted to, we choose with who we will interact. During our life time we get influenced by everything what surrounds us and based on that we change. We have choices and we do take them, it just a question if we want to admit to ourselves that, because people love labels, they feel safe in them, secured and feel that they belong to something. It is understandable and I don't judge them, but labels are just there to monitor us.

4 Feb 2015

Dominate

4 Feb 2015

Zombie Hunter

4 Feb 2015

I don't follow any sports enough to have a favorite.

What is your favorite "secret guilty pleasure" chick flick?

4 Feb 2015

If I was single, yes.

4 Feb 2015

If the email is written in a funny way, or just makes me giggle, I will check it out. Most of the time though, I automatically put the story in my queue and read it when I have more time.

4 Feb 2015

Hot cocoa with mellows and whipped cream, and a little bit of caramel sauce on top. It's been one of those days.

4 Feb 2015

No, never. I'm not here to hook up with random strangers.

4 Feb 2015

I always look at profiles, even if I only talk to someone once. If they have no picture, no about me filled out, no stories, and no forum posts, and basically have contributed nothing to the site, I usually don't friend them. I figure if they haven't even bothered to do the simplest thing on their profile, they won't be on here much, or for very long. There is no point in sending a friend request.

4 Feb 2015

Good:

1. I've met some really cool people and made some good friends.
2. I've read some incredible stories by some amazing writers.
3. Overall, it's a good social site.

Bad:
1. Not very many people vote or comment on the stories they read. If you read a story, take a minute and tell the author what you liked about it. Especially if you vote on it. Reader feedback is important to authors who are looking to improve their skills.

2. Too many people barely fill out a profile...red and white avatars, with no stories or forum posts, and basically nothing on their profile page. How many profiles are completely inactive, taking up space? If you're going to be here, contribute something.

3. The overwhelming number of people who are only here to hook up and cyber with complete strangers, and then get all pissy when you shut them down. Not everyone is here for that.

4 Feb 2015

My man has three tats, two on one arm and one on the other. Because they mean something to him, they are sexy to me. If it is tasteful, unique and meaningful to the person, it's sexy to me. I've seen some that were absolutely incredible. I've seen others that were so poorly done I was sure the person was drunk.

So long as they can be covered or somehow hidden at work, there is no harm in it. I've seen some people so covered in macabre face tattoos, I doubt they would be employable anywhere. It makes me wonder what the hell they were thinking, and I often wonder if they regretted it.

4 Feb 2015

Ultimately, my body belongs to me and his belongs to him. I simply choose to share myself with my man. In those intimate moments, I belong to him, and he belongs to me.

3 Feb 2015

These are really good questions. I kinda wondered about the werewolf thing specifically. Perhaps these answers could be clarified in the introduction paragraph on the Supernatural category? Just to avoid future confusion and questions.

3 Feb 2015

It's so disgusting to drink straight. I put it in a little bit of apple juice. Or in a smoothie. You still get the benefits, but it doesn't taste like liquid death.

3 Feb 2015

I don't really keep track, but I write erotic romance for a living. So I think about naughty sexy things all day long. So I'd say every day, all day long. LOL

3 Feb 2015

Quote by She

Or we can look at it from other perspective and say humans are bisexual to start with and not heterosexual as most people think, and there then is possible choice in preferences.

I was curious for many years. I was friends with and fell in love with a woman. We were together for four years. I WAS bisexual. When it ended, I made the choice not to be with women anymore. I had several opportunities to do so over the years, and choseto turn them all down. I don't even see women in a sexual way anymore. It's been fifteen years now, and I have never once regretted my choice. I don't feel I am lying to myself, or missing out on anything. People do have a choice, in every decision they make every single day. Some people call it free will, or self control. Either way, we live with the choices we make. Some people just like to claim they have no personal responsibility for their life choices. For example, no one forces anyone to drink or do drugs. People choose to do so. They choose to keep doing it, until they become addicted. Now, society calls addiction a disease, like drug addicts and alcoholics never had a choice. It's a lie that makes them feel better about their own bad choices, and it's now politically correct to feel sorry for them and make excuses for their behavior. The truth is...they made the choice.

The concept that we are born one way sexually isn't even scientifically sound. Take identical twins for example. They are genetically and biologically identical in every way except their finger prints. If one is gay or lesbian or bi, (and really are born that way the way so many believe they are), then it would stand to reason that the other twin would automatically be homosexual as well, since they are genetically identical. Often that is NOT the case. It's actually rare for both sets of twins to both be homosexual. Several studies have been done on this.

Psychologically, a child's sexual map (How they view sexual relationships and desires) doesn't even begin to develop until well after birth, usually between the ages of 3-6 years old. This is the age when children begin to realize the sexual behaviors of their parents, the relationship they see in their parents and pretend play gender roles, play house etc. It isn't until right around puberty 8-13 years old that most children even begin awaken sexually and begin to see their peers in a sexual manner. No one is born anything. That is a lie that society has chosen to believe, simply to make unconventional lifestyle choices easier for the masses to accept.

Ideas about sexual desire are so bound up with misconceptions about gender and with the presumption that heterosexuality is nature’s default, that science has yet to approach this subject in an objective way. There is a claim that there is genetic proof of a homosexual gene, yet no one even bothers to look for the gene for heterosexuality. No one looks for a genetic link for masturbation or oral sex, or BDSM, or the desire to use sex toys. Because there isn't one. People choose to perform those sex acts, or not. Why should any logical person with common sense believe that homosexuals are the only people group who have absolutely no choice in how they behave sexually?

Lots of adults worry that if we allow little boys to wear princess dresses and paint their nails with polish, or play with dolls, they might later be more inclined to be gay. Even some liberal parents (including gay and lesbian parents) worry that if they introduce their child to “too much” in the way of homosexual material, this could be a way of “pushing” homosexuality on them. Similarly, many people worry that if young women are introduced to feminism in college, and if they become too angry or independent, they may just decide to be lesbians. But if we all really believed that sexual orientation was congenital—or present at birth—then no one would ever worry that social influences could have an effect on our sexual orientation. Several social, cultural, and psychological factors can shape our embodied desires and erotic possibilities. But I think that in reality, we all know that sexual desire is deeply subject to social, cultural, and historical forces. If the world today were a different place, a place where homosexuality was culturally normative (like, say, Ancient Greece), we would see far more people embracing their homosexual desires. And if this were the case, it would have nothing to do with genetics.

The concept of “sexual orientation” is itself less than 150 years old, and almost equally recent is the notion that people should partner based on romantic attraction. Most of what feels so natural and unchangeable about our desires—including the bodies and personalities we are attracted to—is conditioned by our respective cultures. The majority of straight American men, for instance, will tell you that they have a strong, visceral aversion to women with bushy armpit hair. But this aversion, no matter how deep it may now run in men’s psyches and no matter how nonnegotiable it may feel, is hardly genetic. Up until the last century, the entire world’s female population had armpit hair, and somehow, heterosexual sex survived.

Just because is politically strategic to claim that people are born one way sexually, doesn't make it true. In 2012, the extent to which gay biology had become a political imperative came into full view when actress Cynthia Nixon, after commenting to a New York Times Magazine reporter that she “chose” to pursue a lesbian relationship after many years as a content heterosexual, was met with outrage by lesbian and gay activists. Under considerable pressure from lesbian and gay advocacy groups, Nixon recanted her statement a few weeks later, stating instead that she must have been born with bisexual potential. She only said this under extreme duress because gay and lesbian activists harassed her. Because she made A CHOICE that went against their agenda. They couldn't accept that she was BORN heterosexual and CHOSE to be lesbian for a while. It goes against what they want the rest of us to believe. But people are constantly changing, all the time. For whatever reason they want. Some people even choose to change. On purpose. Just because they want to.
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DPW has a history of trying to start an arguments with me, simply because I didn't word something exactly how HE personally agreed with. He can't resist informing me about how wrong I am about my own personal life, even though he is a complete stranger to me. Anyone who has a different opinion than him, especially a woman, is just automatically wrong. He has a history of doing this to women all over the forums.

In conversation, Narcissist's think they are an expert at everything, no matter how important or unimportant the subject, and their opinion is law. No one else’s opinions, thoughts or feelings matter, because a narcissist has to be “right” all the time. If you dare to contradict them with intellectual arguments, logic, or legitimate sources they become furious. They can’t handle that someone doesn't agree with their opinions because they won’t get that burst of satisfaction to their inflated sense of self-importance and ego. They have to hear “you’re right”, and they will badger you until you give in out of sheer exhaustion and exasperation. When you do, they see this as validation they were seeking, and in their mind they have “won” the argument, which strokes their massive ego.