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I prefer to be the one behind the camera. I love taking pictures, of any kind. I've done nudes for friends just for fun.
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Over 90 days ago
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I know he does it, but I've never caught him. That would be fun though...
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Quote by dpw
I don't think choose is the right word. It infers an option. You found you were not bisexual, so you were straight. If you discovered you were bi but lived a purely heterosexual life, then you would have chosen to be straight.
To say that anyone who is bi has absolutely no choice in their sexuality, would require that they must be with both male and female partners at the same time, all the time...they wouldn't have a choice. They must be a slave to their biology, and have no self control in their sexuality or their life choices. To claim that a person has no choice, means they are physically incapable of choosing who they have sex with. Only then, would they truly not have a choice. We all have choices every single day of our lives, how we want to live it. People do have a choice in their sexuality, and what desires they want to act on, whether they want to admit it or not. Choose is exactly the right word.
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The idea of pouring hot wax on myself and burning my tender bits just to rip the hair out is just all kinds of stupid. No thanks. I prefer to shave or trim. It's safer. LOL
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I was curious enough once. I tried it. I decided it wasn't the way I wanted to live my life. I chose to be straight.
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The eyes, the cocky smile, the hair, the body...so sexy. He's the only reason I still watch The Vampire Diaries.
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Considering the graphic content of the stories, chat and pictures, I'd say yes, it is. It's just in a different format than most porn sites.
But there is nothing wrong with that. We are all adults here.
But there is nothing wrong with that. We are all adults here.
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I love it. I have issues with my neck and shoulders because of Fibromyalgia, so my man has to be careful about it and do it slowly. which in some ways makes it even hotter to me, because I know he's doing it that way to protect me. There's just something so sensual about a big man with really strong hands being so gentle.
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I can't speak for all women, but for me, the first one is kind of a tease. It will often be small, and over quickly. Sort of like eating one bite of a really good dessert. You just have to have more.
The second and third are usually pretty good. They don't last much longer, but they are more intense, but thats kind of a warm up for me.
Everything's good and I need a bit of a break because my tender bits are super super sensitive. After a minute or two, I can go again and again after that, because it doesn't get too sensitive anymore. I need more stimulation. It's like something in me wakes up and I turn into this wild thing that can't get enough, like an addict. I have never reached an orgasm limit. The longest I went was six hours of continuous rolling orgasms, about one every minute or so...I only stopped because he begged me to let him sleep. I wore him out. Afterward, my muscles were so relaxed I couldn't even move. I could barely lift my head to drink water. I passed out and had the best night of sleep in my entire life. For sixteen hours. I was on a post orgasm high for about a week. It was great.
But normally, I after about ten or twelve, I stop because I don't want to break him.
For some women, after three or four, any touching is too much, and everything is too sensitive and just hurts.
The second and third are usually pretty good. They don't last much longer, but they are more intense, but thats kind of a warm up for me.
Everything's good and I need a bit of a break because my tender bits are super super sensitive. After a minute or two, I can go again and again after that, because it doesn't get too sensitive anymore. I need more stimulation. It's like something in me wakes up and I turn into this wild thing that can't get enough, like an addict. I have never reached an orgasm limit. The longest I went was six hours of continuous rolling orgasms, about one every minute or so...I only stopped because he begged me to let him sleep. I wore him out. Afterward, my muscles were so relaxed I couldn't even move. I could barely lift my head to drink water. I passed out and had the best night of sleep in my entire life. For sixteen hours. I was on a post orgasm high for about a week. It was great.
But normally, I after about ten or twelve, I stop because I don't want to break him.
For some women, after three or four, any touching is too much, and everything is too sensitive and just hurts.
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Foreplay is sex. It's part of what makes it great. Take that away, and it's just not as fun.
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Yes and No...it depends on the woman. Given enough patience, practice and lube, I'd say most woman can eventually take on a well endowed man. The key is finding a man who is patient enough to allow her body to adjust to his size so that if feels pleasurable.
Biggest I had was close to 9 inches (I measured), and I hated sleeping with him because he had no clue what to do with it. Personally I prefer average length and above average thickness. Repeatedly being hit in the cervix by a guy who's too long hurts in a way I don't enjoy.
Biggest I had was close to 9 inches (I measured), and I hated sleeping with him because he had no clue what to do with it. Personally I prefer average length and above average thickness. Repeatedly being hit in the cervix by a guy who's too long hurts in a way I don't enjoy.
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Any word designated as an insult toward a woman, just because she is a woman.
"Are you done yet?" When I'm in the middle of having multiples. (Gee...thanks for ruining my fun.) Ex #2
"I forgot you were there." OMFG...Really? Who were you pretending I was? (I'm never sleeping with your drunk ass ever again.) Ex #1
Bills. Parents. or any sentence that starts with "Did you remember to..."
Any talk of gross bodily functions
Other turn offs: Anal anything. Spitting. Ejaculate anywhere near my face.
"Are you done yet?" When I'm in the middle of having multiples. (Gee...thanks for ruining my fun.) Ex #2
"I forgot you were there." OMFG...Really? Who were you pretending I was? (I'm never sleeping with your drunk ass ever again.) Ex #1
Bills. Parents. or any sentence that starts with "Did you remember to..."
Any talk of gross bodily functions
Other turn offs: Anal anything. Spitting. Ejaculate anywhere near my face.
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An ex once wore one of my bras like a snow hat. It was hilarious.
I occasionally wish they were smaller, but I think that I'm so used to them the size they are, it would really freak me out if they were tiny.
Plus...no more hat bras.
I occasionally wish they were smaller, but I think that I'm so used to them the size they are, it would really freak me out if they were tiny.
Plus...no more hat bras.
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I've never reached a "limit".
I once had a six hour session in which I had multiples about every two minutes, and then it turned into one big ongoing orgasm that peaked every thirty seconds or so. At least that's what I was told. I was too out of it to keep track.
I had no idea so much time had passed. It felt like maybe six minutes to me.
I was floating on a cloud for days.
I had the best night of sleep in my entire life. For 16 hours.
I really wanna do that again, but no one will play with me that long.
I once had a six hour session in which I had multiples about every two minutes, and then it turned into one big ongoing orgasm that peaked every thirty seconds or so. At least that's what I was told. I was too out of it to keep track.
I had no idea so much time had passed. It felt like maybe six minutes to me.
I was floating on a cloud for days.
I had the best night of sleep in my entire life. For 16 hours.
I really wanna do that again, but no one will play with me that long.
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Anything, as long as it's not a picture of your dangly bits.
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I was accused of being anorexic and not eating enough when I was at a healthy weight and pretty much all muscle, at 5 ft. and about 125 pounds. I lead an extremely active lifestyle that included hiking, running, step aerobics, weight training and martial arts. Then, I got on Depo Provera as a form of birth control because my boyfriend at the time was too selfish and lazy to wear a condom.
I developed PCOS, within the first three months of being on birth control. Within six months I gained 80 lbs. eating pretty much just skinless chicken and salad. I exercised every single day for at least two hours. Within a year I developed Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and didn't know it until I literally collapsed in sheer exhaustion after doing five minutes of an exercise video. I couldn't even get my muscles to move enough to get up off the floor for two hours.
I've struggled for the last 14 YEARS to get my weight back to normal, since I got sick. I'm still sick, but I do what I can to exercise and I eat better than most people do. No coffee, sugary fruit juices, or soda. No energy drinks either. I drink nothing but water and herbal tea with honey.
Breakfast:
1 Cup Steel cut oatmeal with diced apple (real apple) and cinnamon, and half an orange.
OR
2 Egg Omelette, with spinach, red, green and orange bell pepper, mushroom, onion and 1 oz. of shredded cheese.
1 Slice of 12 Grain wheat toast.
Snack:
A Yogurt with Chia Seeds
OR a banana
Lunch:
Homemade Loaded Veggie Soup (Red Beans and 8 different Veggies) and a Turkey Pita with Tomatoes, Avocado and Sprouts
Or
A Grilled Chicken Salad and Whatever leftover dinner from the night before.
Snack:
A Raw Veggie Plate: Carrots, Celery, Broccoli, Cucumber, Mushrooms, Red Pepper, Green Beans, and a string cheese.
Dinner:
Grilled Herb Chicken/Yam or Red Potatoes/Spinach Salad
Or
Beef Veggie Stir Fry with 1/2 cup of cooked Rice
Or
Grilled Salmon with Lemon and Dill, Steamed Rice and Broccoli
I rarely eat dessert, If I do it's a yogurt I put in the freezer
Or
A Frozen Berry Smoothie, with a splash of almond milk.
I use coconut oil instead of butter or oil.
Honey instead of sugar.
I don't eat pizza, pasta, or white bread.
I don't eat fast food, french fries or other junk food.
I don't eat crackers, cookies, chips, candy or chocolate.
I don't eat any pre-packaged, processed or frozen meals.
I don't use condiments accept stir fry sauce, and I make my own salad dressing.
The most processed thing I eat is my yogurt and string cheese, which I only eat because I refuse to drink milk and I need the calcium.
I've been told by four different nutritionists that my diet is better than theirs and need to eat more.
Despite my healthy nearly vegetarian diet, and all the exercise I can manage, I haven't been able to loose more than ten pounds of the weight I've gain in the last 14 years. Not because I am lazy, but because my body just doesn't work properly anymore, because my hormones and metabolism are screwed up...all because I was trying to do the responsible thing at 18 years old.
Anyone who dares call me a lazy glutton had better be able to prove they are eating a cleaner diet than I am and walking at least five miles a day.
I developed PCOS, within the first three months of being on birth control. Within six months I gained 80 lbs. eating pretty much just skinless chicken and salad. I exercised every single day for at least two hours. Within a year I developed Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and didn't know it until I literally collapsed in sheer exhaustion after doing five minutes of an exercise video. I couldn't even get my muscles to move enough to get up off the floor for two hours.
I've struggled for the last 14 YEARS to get my weight back to normal, since I got sick. I'm still sick, but I do what I can to exercise and I eat better than most people do. No coffee, sugary fruit juices, or soda. No energy drinks either. I drink nothing but water and herbal tea with honey.
Breakfast:
1 Cup Steel cut oatmeal with diced apple (real apple) and cinnamon, and half an orange.
OR
2 Egg Omelette, with spinach, red, green and orange bell pepper, mushroom, onion and 1 oz. of shredded cheese.
1 Slice of 12 Grain wheat toast.
Snack:
A Yogurt with Chia Seeds
OR a banana
Lunch:
Homemade Loaded Veggie Soup (Red Beans and 8 different Veggies) and a Turkey Pita with Tomatoes, Avocado and Sprouts
Or
A Grilled Chicken Salad and Whatever leftover dinner from the night before.
Snack:
A Raw Veggie Plate: Carrots, Celery, Broccoli, Cucumber, Mushrooms, Red Pepper, Green Beans, and a string cheese.
Dinner:
Grilled Herb Chicken/Yam or Red Potatoes/Spinach Salad
Or
Beef Veggie Stir Fry with 1/2 cup of cooked Rice
Or
Grilled Salmon with Lemon and Dill, Steamed Rice and Broccoli
I rarely eat dessert, If I do it's a yogurt I put in the freezer
Or
A Frozen Berry Smoothie, with a splash of almond milk.
I use coconut oil instead of butter or oil.
Honey instead of sugar.
I don't eat pizza, pasta, or white bread.
I don't eat fast food, french fries or other junk food.
I don't eat crackers, cookies, chips, candy or chocolate.
I don't eat any pre-packaged, processed or frozen meals.
I don't use condiments accept stir fry sauce, and I make my own salad dressing.
The most processed thing I eat is my yogurt and string cheese, which I only eat because I refuse to drink milk and I need the calcium.
I've been told by four different nutritionists that my diet is better than theirs and need to eat more.
Despite my healthy nearly vegetarian diet, and all the exercise I can manage, I haven't been able to loose more than ten pounds of the weight I've gain in the last 14 years. Not because I am lazy, but because my body just doesn't work properly anymore, because my hormones and metabolism are screwed up...all because I was trying to do the responsible thing at 18 years old.
Anyone who dares call me a lazy glutton had better be able to prove they are eating a cleaner diet than I am and walking at least five miles a day.
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Mine are DD's. They get noticed no matter what I wear to cover them up. I'm used to it.
Strangers looking is expected and not offensive.
Strangers touching is not okay and will result in broken bones.
Strangers looking is expected and not offensive.
Strangers touching is not okay and will result in broken bones.
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It sounds as if the two of you need to rekindle the romance and remember what you love about each other. When you allow the romance to die, and the relationship becomes stagnate, you won't feel "in love" anymore. So now everything he does annoys you, you get bored, you become unhappy and you start searching for something more with someone else. What you are craving is the romance. The truth of the matter is, he isn't the problem, you are. Your approach to the relationship and your attitude is what is making you miserable.
Somewhere along the line, you placed an expectation on him he wasn't even aware of, and because he wasn't aware of it, you got disappointed. Disappointment breeds contempt and anger. So now, nothing he does is ever good enough. It's gotten to the point where things like how he snores or farts is more important to you than all his good qualities.
Here's the thing...you brought it on yourself. If you nag him about housework, and scold him like a child, he knows you don't respect him. When a man knows he is not being respect, he will close his heart to you. He will only withdraw from you even more. When a man withdraws from you, he isn't going to want to be romantic with you. He won't put forth the effort if he knows nothing he does is good enough to satisfy you, because you are always disappointed and angry with him. Deal with your anger issues first, before you blame him for your misery.
You admitted, your sex life is suffering because you get too bored to finish. That's not his fault, it's yours. Boredom is a state of mind. Happiness is also a state of mind. You are responsible for your own happiness. It's not his job to make you happy or keep you happy, it's yours. You have the power to rekindle your relationship and bring back the romance. Going to another man for attention isn't going to fix anything, because you are the common denominator in every relationship you ever have, and lets face it...any new man you get with is going to belch and fart and snore too. That's not a reason to destroy your family.
Somewhere along the line, you placed an expectation on him he wasn't even aware of, and because he wasn't aware of it, you got disappointed. Disappointment breeds contempt and anger. So now, nothing he does is ever good enough. It's gotten to the point where things like how he snores or farts is more important to you than all his good qualities.
Here's the thing...you brought it on yourself. If you nag him about housework, and scold him like a child, he knows you don't respect him. When a man knows he is not being respect, he will close his heart to you. He will only withdraw from you even more. When a man withdraws from you, he isn't going to want to be romantic with you. He won't put forth the effort if he knows nothing he does is good enough to satisfy you, because you are always disappointed and angry with him. Deal with your anger issues first, before you blame him for your misery.
You admitted, your sex life is suffering because you get too bored to finish. That's not his fault, it's yours. Boredom is a state of mind. Happiness is also a state of mind. You are responsible for your own happiness. It's not his job to make you happy or keep you happy, it's yours. You have the power to rekindle your relationship and bring back the romance. Going to another man for attention isn't going to fix anything, because you are the common denominator in every relationship you ever have, and lets face it...any new man you get with is going to belch and fart and snore too. That's not a reason to destroy your family.
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I think you need to find out why she won't even discuss it. There must be a reason, and you have a right to know what that reason is. Honestly, if she won't even talk about it with you, then your marriage has bigger problems than your lack of sex life. If she won't communicate, then ask her if she is willing to go to counseling. If she won't even do that, then there isn't much you can do to fix it and it's time to seriously consider filing for divorce.
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If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Don't rush into anything.
The willingness to wait reflects the value you place on what you wait for.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
A man who is in love with you will always find a way to make time for you.
No matter how busy he is, he'll make sure you know he's thinking of you.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better". It probably won't.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries. If he can't respect them, he doesn't respect you.
Respect yourself enough to demand he respects you back.
If something bothers you, speak up. Problems fester and infect the relationship.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. People rarely (truly) change.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...Even if he has more education or in a better job. You are just as important as he is.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are, only you define who you are.
Never take someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
Don't expect him to not act like a dog if you're throwing yourself at his feet like a juicy steak for the taking.
You should not be the doing all the bending. Compromise is two way street.
You need to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage.
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you.
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.
Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes. He will appreciate your presence more.
If you're always readily available to him, he will eventually take it for granted.
Never (for ANY reason) move into his mother's house. EVER.
Never co-sign for a man. Don't ask him to either.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful.
You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, make it abundantly clear he'll miss out on a good thing.
If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one.
They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Smart women don't believe everything they hear.
A smart woman lets his actions speak for him, not his words.
What is most important in a relationship isn't just communication. It is the fragile trust a woman gives her man, and the absolute loyalty of a man to his woman.
Ladies take care of your own hearts. Don't give yours away to someone who won't cherish it, and every moment he spends with you.
Figure out what kind of relationship you are looking for and what qualities you'd like in a man you are romantically interested in. Don't settle for less just out of loneliness. Call when you want to call and communicate when you want to. If he can't do that most basic thing, don't date him. Go out and do fun things together that give you a chance to share your hobbies and interests with him. Do fun things he enjoys, and learn new things. Talk about anything and everything, be open, be honest, and be real.
There should be no lies and no secrets between an intimate couple. So many people fail at relationships because they feel the need to hide who they really are to be accepted and loved. The truth is, the people who feel the need to do that the most, haven't yet learned how to love and accept themselves.
If you have to hide any part of yourself out of shame...
If you have to deny who you really are...
If you have to sneak around to feel alive...
If you have to lie to feel accepted...
If you have to cheat to get the things you really desire...
If you have to run away to feel freedom...
If you can't be honest, and expose yourself emotionally...
If you can't tell that person your inner most thoughts...
If you can't share your naughty fantasies and secrets...
If you can't let them look into your eyes and peek into your soul...
If you can't expose them to your shames and deep darks...
If you can't let them see the real you...
Then why bother trying to be in a relationship with someone you are constantly lying to? They don't really know YOU anyway.
If you are ready, find someone who you CAN be totally open and honest with, who will accept and love everything about you. Don't try to hide who you are, or belittle yourself just to please someone else. Be weird. Be a total goofball dork. Be random. Be who you really are. Don't hide. You never know when someone wonderful will fall in love with the person you are trying so desperately to hide.
This advice applies to both men and women.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Don't rush into anything.
The willingness to wait reflects the value you place on what you wait for.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
A man who is in love with you will always find a way to make time for you.
No matter how busy he is, he'll make sure you know he's thinking of you.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better". It probably won't.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries. If he can't respect them, he doesn't respect you.
Respect yourself enough to demand he respects you back.
If something bothers you, speak up. Problems fester and infect the relationship.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. People rarely (truly) change.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...Even if he has more education or in a better job. You are just as important as he is.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are, only you define who you are.
Never take someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
Don't expect him to not act like a dog if you're throwing yourself at his feet like a juicy steak for the taking.
You should not be the doing all the bending. Compromise is two way street.
You need to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage.
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you.
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.
Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes. He will appreciate your presence more.
If you're always readily available to him, he will eventually take it for granted.
Never (for ANY reason) move into his mother's house. EVER.
Never co-sign for a man. Don't ask him to either.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful.
You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, make it abundantly clear he'll miss out on a good thing.
If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one.
They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one.
Smart women don't believe everything they hear.
A smart woman lets his actions speak for him, not his words.
What is most important in a relationship isn't just communication. It is the fragile trust a woman gives her man, and the absolute loyalty of a man to his woman.
Ladies take care of your own hearts. Don't give yours away to someone who won't cherish it, and every moment he spends with you.
Figure out what kind of relationship you are looking for and what qualities you'd like in a man you are romantically interested in. Don't settle for less just out of loneliness. Call when you want to call and communicate when you want to. If he can't do that most basic thing, don't date him. Go out and do fun things together that give you a chance to share your hobbies and interests with him. Do fun things he enjoys, and learn new things. Talk about anything and everything, be open, be honest, and be real.
There should be no lies and no secrets between an intimate couple. So many people fail at relationships because they feel the need to hide who they really are to be accepted and loved. The truth is, the people who feel the need to do that the most, haven't yet learned how to love and accept themselves.
If you have to hide any part of yourself out of shame...
If you have to deny who you really are...
If you have to sneak around to feel alive...
If you have to lie to feel accepted...
If you have to cheat to get the things you really desire...
If you have to run away to feel freedom...
If you can't be honest, and expose yourself emotionally...
If you can't tell that person your inner most thoughts...
If you can't share your naughty fantasies and secrets...
If you can't let them look into your eyes and peek into your soul...
If you can't expose them to your shames and deep darks...
If you can't let them see the real you...
Then why bother trying to be in a relationship with someone you are constantly lying to? They don't really know YOU anyway.
If you are ready, find someone who you CAN be totally open and honest with, who will accept and love everything about you. Don't try to hide who you are, or belittle yourself just to please someone else. Be weird. Be a total goofball dork. Be random. Be who you really are. Don't hide. You never know when someone wonderful will fall in love with the person you are trying so desperately to hide.
This advice applies to both men and women.
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Okay, first of all, her body just went through almost an entire year of hellish hormonal and physical changes. Then, at the end of it all, she gave birth. Her body is physically exhausted, drained of nutrients and energy. She is recovering from having a human being ripped from her tender bits. Her entire pelvis was just pushed and shoved and bent out of whack making room for the baby to pass through, and now she is incredibly sore, to the point where walking, sitting and doing just about everything hurts. It's going to take several months for her body to recover, and that is if the birth was without complications or what doctors like to call "easy". It takes longer to recover if there were complications.
The last thing she wants is you shoving your dick in there and possibly getting her pregnant, to go through it all over again.
This is all emotionally and physically taxing, and you can't even begin to comprehend the magnitude of it. Now she has a brand new newborn to feed and care for at all hours of the day and night, depending on her to keep it alive, and happy. She barely has time to shower or eat a proper meal, much less perform on demand at night. What she needs most is SLEEP, not sex. So, sex is the last thing on her mind, especially since her hormones are trying to readjust to everything her body just went through, and her body is trying to heal itself from the most traumatic thing she will ever experience.
Realize that you physical needs pale in comparison to her need for sleep, and your brand new babies needs for food and care.
Help her get the child to sleep through the night in his or her own room, and your sex life will improve. Her hormones will adjust in time, and her sex drive will come back. Until then, suck it up and be the best dad and husband you can be.
The last thing she wants is you shoving your dick in there and possibly getting her pregnant, to go through it all over again.
This is all emotionally and physically taxing, and you can't even begin to comprehend the magnitude of it. Now she has a brand new newborn to feed and care for at all hours of the day and night, depending on her to keep it alive, and happy. She barely has time to shower or eat a proper meal, much less perform on demand at night. What she needs most is SLEEP, not sex. So, sex is the last thing on her mind, especially since her hormones are trying to readjust to everything her body just went through, and her body is trying to heal itself from the most traumatic thing she will ever experience.
Realize that you physical needs pale in comparison to her need for sleep, and your brand new babies needs for food and care.
Help her get the child to sleep through the night in his or her own room, and your sex life will improve. Her hormones will adjust in time, and her sex drive will come back. Until then, suck it up and be the best dad and husband you can be.
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What is your best Christmas Cheesecake Recipe? Is there a family favorite everyone loves?
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I like oatmeal, with pecans and dried cherries or cranberries in it, if I can't sleep.
Or, a thick slice of cheese, cubed, with a big dill pickle, if I'm craving salt.
Or, a thick slice of cheese, cubed, with a big dill pickle, if I'm craving salt.
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There is a fine line between sexy confidence and stupid arrogance (cockiness).
Scenerio:
You see a beautiful woman sitting alone at a table in a coffee shop. You want to approach her. If you decide to do it you have essentially two options:
A. Walk up to her and say, "Hi, my name is______. I saw you from across the room, and I wanted to introduce myself and take the chance that you might let me sit down and get to know you. Can I buy you anther cup and chat with you?"
B. Walk up to her and say "Hey baby, (insert cheesy pick up line). Let me buy you another?"
Scene A: You've given her your name. You admit you saw her, thought she is beautiful (without actually saying it), acknowledge that you are strangers, admit you are taking a chance by approaching her first. Being polite. Offering to buy her another drink. Asking a question, and inviting a favorable response, WITHOUT BEING CREEPY.
Scene B: Offers no information about yourself, doing nothing to put her at ease about being approached by a stranger, and are generally being a cocky, and a creep.
Women respond favorably to scene A over scene B nearly every time.
The Exceptions usually fall under 1 of 4 categories:
1. She's busy and in a hurry, not looking to chat with anyone.
2. She just got out of a relationship and isn't looking to meet anyone new.
3. She's a lesbian and not interested in men, no matter how polite you are.
4. She's already in a relationship with someone, and not looking to cheat.
If she says no, don't get all childish and butt hurt about it. Smile, say thanks anyway, and walk away. Don't pester her or make her feel bad. You won't win any non-creepy points by being pushy.
Scenerio:
You see a beautiful woman sitting alone at a table in a coffee shop. You want to approach her. If you decide to do it you have essentially two options:
A. Walk up to her and say, "Hi, my name is______. I saw you from across the room, and I wanted to introduce myself and take the chance that you might let me sit down and get to know you. Can I buy you anther cup and chat with you?"
B. Walk up to her and say "Hey baby, (insert cheesy pick up line). Let me buy you another?"
Scene A: You've given her your name. You admit you saw her, thought she is beautiful (without actually saying it), acknowledge that you are strangers, admit you are taking a chance by approaching her first. Being polite. Offering to buy her another drink. Asking a question, and inviting a favorable response, WITHOUT BEING CREEPY.
Scene B: Offers no information about yourself, doing nothing to put her at ease about being approached by a stranger, and are generally being a cocky, and a creep.
Women respond favorably to scene A over scene B nearly every time.
The Exceptions usually fall under 1 of 4 categories:
1. She's busy and in a hurry, not looking to chat with anyone.
2. She just got out of a relationship and isn't looking to meet anyone new.
3. She's a lesbian and not interested in men, no matter how polite you are.
4. She's already in a relationship with someone, and not looking to cheat.
If she says no, don't get all childish and butt hurt about it. Smile, say thanks anyway, and walk away. Don't pester her or make her feel bad. You won't win any non-creepy points by being pushy.