Sprite - wow, thank you, that is a very thorough answer!
DM - sorry, I tired to search the forum because I thought it would have been asked before now, but didn't kind anything relevant.
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Basinah
1 month ago
Bi-curious Female, 154
0 miles · Toronto
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After a few drinks my best friend (male) and I got talking about sex. He asked me if I had ever squirted, and I replied I wasn't a squirter. He corrected me "No, you just never have. Every woman can squirt, you're just never had someone who can make you". He claims he can make any woman squirt ... but stopped just short of offering to prove it 
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I wax, just leave a little triangle at the front for looks, but I totally do it for myself, not for anyone else. My best friend talked me into doing it the first time, and she said once I did I would never want to go back; she was right. I like the way it feels, but more so it is so much easier to keep everything nice and clean. Most of my partners have appreciated it, but i don't think its ever been a deal breaker. Like I say, I do it for myself, because I prefer it. My choice.
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I love to give head, love the feel of a cock in my mouth, love the taste.
I DO NOT like it when the man I am with tries to force me or take total control - a bit of guidance as to what you like is nice, fellas, but please let me give you this gift. I am one who believes anything worth doing is worth doing well, so I have done my best to develop my techiques.
For the ladies who don't like it, we all have our own likes and dislikes; but I wonder if your first time was unpleasant (he tried to force you, he wasn't 'clean", etc) and that has coloured your view? I was lucky enough that my first time giving head was with an older man who wanted to teach me all the beautiful things about sex, he took things very slow and let me go at my own pace. I was very lucky to have such a kind teacher.
I DO NOT like it when the man I am with tries to force me or take total control - a bit of guidance as to what you like is nice, fellas, but please let me give you this gift. I am one who believes anything worth doing is worth doing well, so I have done my best to develop my techiques.
For the ladies who don't like it, we all have our own likes and dislikes; but I wonder if your first time was unpleasant (he tried to force you, he wasn't 'clean", etc) and that has coloured your view? I was lucky enough that my first time giving head was with an older man who wanted to teach me all the beautiful things about sex, he took things very slow and let me go at my own pace. I was very lucky to have such a kind teacher.
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I like the hands on my head, and tangled in my hair, but not "forcing" me to go deeper. I like a small feeling of him in control, and I like to get some feedback on what he wants, speed, depth, etc, but I do not like being totally forced.
I LOVE to give head, I truly do, but men who want to control totally and just fuck my mouth, vs letting me give them a gift, turn me off.
I LOVE to give head, I truly do, but men who want to control totally and just fuck my mouth, vs letting me give them a gift, turn me off.
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Games without Frontiers, the Bob Holroyd and Happy Rhodes version
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dlwPNjYPpqI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dlwPNjYPpqI
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I'm who I am; I've known temptation;
All that I've done, all that I've seen ...
Strength is not a stranger; I take it day by day.
I know it looks like I've been fighting;
I didn't get much sleep last night
Strength is not a stranger; I take it day by day.
Bet E and Stef, Day by Day
All that I've done, all that I've seen ...
Strength is not a stranger; I take it day by day.
I know it looks like I've been fighting;
I didn't get much sleep last night
Strength is not a stranger; I take it day by day.
Bet E and Stef, Day by Day
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Entirely too much untie-ing going on here.
SluttyKitty, I am going to leave you tied, and take a nice long feather, and some sparkly flavourved powder, and draw designs on your tummy, and then lick them off. Then the same thing to your arms, then your legs.
Then I am going to comb my fingers through your hair, and whisper naughty things in your ear, but not touch you. Maybe I will dust the feather lightly over your nipples while I whisper to you ...
SluttyKitty, I am going to leave you tied, and take a nice long feather, and some sparkly flavourved powder, and draw designs on your tummy, and then lick them off. Then the same thing to your arms, then your legs.
Then I am going to comb my fingers through your hair, and whisper naughty things in your ear, but not touch you. Maybe I will dust the feather lightly over your nipples while I whisper to you ...
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I have only been involved in a couple of tree-somes (and technically one 4-some) but my expereince, and that of friends I have discussed it with, is:
*It can add spice to an already strong primary relationship, but will tear a weak one apart.*
I admit I have a lovely time during my adventures, and would do it again in a heartbeat, * with the right people *. For my first experience, my partner became addicted to the rush, and "plain old me" was no longer enough for him. A lesbian friend of mine had the exact same experience, and I have heard it from others. That being said, these relationships already had other issues; this was just one more crack.
I agree with rockstar, lots of open, candid and sober conversation beforehand is very important.
*It can add spice to an already strong primary relationship, but will tear a weak one apart.*
I admit I have a lovely time during my adventures, and would do it again in a heartbeat, * with the right people *. For my first experience, my partner became addicted to the rush, and "plain old me" was no longer enough for him. A lesbian friend of mine had the exact same experience, and I have heard it from others. That being said, these relationships already had other issues; this was just one more crack.
I agree with rockstar, lots of open, candid and sober conversation beforehand is very important.