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BeautysBeast
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 154
United States

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Mrs will suck my cock clean ANY time I tell her. We often do ATM. She has said, "its my ass, and I can tell if your cock is clean". She knows I find it incredibly hot.
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Even if you said yes. There are a zillion couples, looking for a third.

Ive enclosed a really good article.. Will show you how many couples go wrong
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Your husband is:
1. A control freak.
2. Has ZERO respect for you, or your marriage.
3. Knows he is doing wrong, which is why he doesn't trust you.
4. An asshole.

You should IMMEDIATELY
1. Contact a lawyer
2. Get a restraining order, and a court order so he can't close you out of the money.
3. Get in therapy for yourself. It is going to take a long time to unfuck your head.
4. Get a divorce.

If you want to have a little fun along the way, after getting the restraining, and court order, order up any good looking young man, and while the camera is rolling in the bedroom, fuck said young man silly. Finish with looking at the camera and saying. "Just wanted to show you what you will NEVER get again"..
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I think the wife should understand if he has an actual relationship. Sex without emotional attachment is unfulfilling. I couldn't deal without the intimacy of sex with a partner I care about.
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True happiness only come through gratitude.

The alternative is angry self entitlement.

~ Carlos Santan
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Cheat, under my definition would be having sex, once or multiple times, and then hiding it, or lying about it. She doesn't need my permission to fuck anyone she wants. But if she broke my trust, or I broke hers, It would be over immediately. 18 years of marriage, and I trust everything that comes out of her mouth. I refuse to lie to her, or anyone else for that matter. I believe with every fiber of my being she has never lied to me.

The trust we have for each other could never be repaired if it were broken.
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I guess I have to be the asshole.

Seems your wife is selfish, and uses a legitimate medical condition to skip out on her responsibility to you.

Intimacy comes in many ways. If she is willing to take, and not give back. Quit giving.

Tell her your done with one sided sex, that you will always love her, but your needs are being ignored, and you will no longer accept this.

It IS absolutely possible to love more than one person. Find someone who you can also love who will meet your needs. Be honest and upfront at all times.
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Any you accept this behavior?

Stop the all day flirting. She is enjoying your misery.

Tell her that your needs aren't being met. If she isn't willing to meet them, You still love her, but you are going to get them met elsewhere.

I promise you, the marriage counselor will make it your fault, or she will quit going. She will change, when she WANTS to change. It is the only reason ANYONE changes.

Sucks, but it's the truth.
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You can live with it, but eventually you will end up resenting her about it. (9 Years in my first marriage, after year two, it bothered the hell out of me)

If someone can't handle perfectly normal sex act's, they have an issue. She is asking you to accept that issue.

Why buy a car with three wheels?

Do you think you deserve less than a complete lover? Do you lack the confidence to find someone who will satisfy your desires?
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This is a occasional part of our sex play. Yes she does ask me to slap her, and I enjoy doing it.

With that said, she says that rough, "Take her" sex, allows her to let go of all her stresses, and just get lost in the moment.
I would rather slap her, then see her taking a bunch of drugs to help with stress and anxiety.