Quote by JesseS
A lot of the suggestioins here are really more applicable to a couple already somewhat experienced in this type of play. My advice to you, as a couple, is to start slow and with the known; the blindfold is already a huge change. If you immediatly jump to tingling creams and candle wax the party may end very fast and very rudely. Give her a chance to get use to being felt up, teased and pleasured, while blindfolded and/or bound, use what you know pleasures her. Then, when this is something that she already looks forward to, experiment.

Quote by Guest
Not for nothing but if you or your partner will add a little manual stimulation to the clitoris during intercourse then you may get the wanted outcome.

I always like, vaginal penetration, then swoop down and add a little oral, then penetration then oral...and so on. Don't be shy and tell each other what truly gets you off.

Quote by shawnababy
Find a woman 35-40. . She is just as horny as you are

Quote by trinket
OH! Lush is a dating site now? Nicola, as your Marketing Director I suggest Lush start charging fees for Dating Advertisements. I think around AU$200 per advertisement wouldn't be out of order, and charge AU$50 for each response received whether it be via forum, PM or Blackbox. This would more than cover the costs of the advertisements WE create to advertise the fact that we are now taking advertisements for Dating requests. There would also be quite a considerable sum left in the petty cash tin.

I'm not aware of how much money Lush made from the Lush Baby promo goods, but I'm guessing it was a rather large amount, or I would have been told off. Therefore, I was wondering if I might have a raise in salary? I have been paid $0 per week in virtual money thus far, it might make me feel better if I get paid in real money? Maybe if I even get paid? Glad I could help.

Quote by Buz
When we are in bed and my wife puts her hand on my cock she is not wanting me to sleep. She is usually waking me up for a wee hours romp. That is also why I am so groggy this morning and needing to drink an extra cup or two of coffee.

Quote by janet_haney
I am not exactly sure what the question is but my impression is you are wondering if this is proper or improper behavior. I think if that is the question I would ask does your wife know what is going on. I am pretty sure I know the answer so I would as next if your wife was doing the same thing with another guy how would YOU feel? Why don't you try doing it with your wife and forget the other woman?

Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
It seems as if you two have very different definitions of commitment. Either that or he figures as long as he's a member here, he can do whatever in the realm of cyber sex. The single thing in his profile would give me pause, simply because he asked for a relationship and none of the signs point to that. Or perhaps he doesn't want other people to know, which also isn't a good sign. It's not about giving up Lush. It's about him proclaiming his commitment but then not showing it. If he'd rather give up Lush than to let the internet world you're in a relationship, that's really a warning sign. Talk to him. Be honest and open.

However, I'm sure he's seen your post by now, and if he isn't taking the necessary steps for improvement, then perhaps he isn't as serious as you are, and it's time to cut your losses.

Quote by Dancing_Doll
Yes - but only with certain groups of friends and it comes up more when talking about fuckbuddies, one-niters or flings where no detail is spared once we're deep into the drinks. With BFs and long-term prospects there's usually a bit more discretion unless the guy is particularly brag-worthy.

Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
"I don't typically fantasize while I'm having sex, unless it's a roleplay thing I'm engaging in with my partner. If I'm masturbating, I usually fantasize about either my partner watching me, or the things he'd be saying/doing to me if I were fucking him instead of myself.

Quote by janet_haney
How would you feel if it was your wife and you found some young neighbor kid with her, It's pretty obvious you aren't mature enough for a committed relationship yet or you wouldn't ask the question. But I have always felt what ever you do in your life can come back to haunt you.