I think I agree with everyone here - there is a time and place for such domesticity in stories that include such things as marriage and kids and all that that means but when it comes to the kind of erotica I enjoy reading, such realities are best left out or at the very least, left to one's imagination or however one envisions a happily-ever-after.
In jeans and a t-shirt, hair in a ponytail and sitting on my bed with my laptop for a few more minutes. Playing hostess to a houseful of teenage boys who are in the basement at the moment but will soon need some food and beverages. As for the horny scale, I'm at about zero :P
It depends on HOW bad. Sometimes it just takes a good venting to someone who cares about me over a few glasses of wine. Sometimes, a long meditative walk or hike alone to process things works fine while other times, if it's really bad, a good cry while praying for morning usually does the trick.
I've said it several times in various threads on here, a relationship, ANY relationship takes TWO people to make it work. One person can not carry it and especially save it alone unless they're seeking martyrdom. I know this all too well. On the flip side, if one takes the time to really think about things objectively, one would realize that it also takes TWO people to break a relationship. I agree with lafayettemister that cheating is rarely just about sex and it most definitely is NOT just about men not doing right by their women. Goes both ways. I think communication is critical to any successful relationship, that and honesty. I fear that withouth them, a relationship has a limited shelf life before it expires.
Sex in the City 2 (the movie) is playing on one of the movie networks but I've already seen it a few times so I'm not paying much attention right now.
At this very moment, I'm in a pair of yoga pants, tshirt and hoodie, bare feet, hair is long and straight (was at the salon earlier). Finally sat down on the sofa in the living room with my laptop and the television on in the background and waiting...I really hate waiting by the way...
1. Would you like your man to wear panties or thongs? If yes, Should they be yours or get him some? Also Daily or every now and then?
A: Unless its part of a silly dare, neither. I am not one of those women who gets off on my man wearing panties - mine or otherwise.
2. Would you like your man to be shaven? if yes where? All over, Legs ect?
A: I LOVE facial hair of all types on my man although shaven is acceptable on occassion :P As for the rest of him, I do like some body grooming and trimming but prefer him to stay away from doing a full-on shave anywhere on his body where he might be mistaken for a little boy - I like my man to look like a man.
3. Would it be a turn on if your man was bi?
A: If he was a casual encounter or a FWB, I think it would be a turn on for me but if it was someone with whom I was in a long-term relationship, I think it would eventually bother me if only because I would worry about competing against both women AND men!
4. What would you do if you caught your man on gay or trans porn?
A: I would talk to him about it and try to get him to open up about why he is watching that genre of porn and what is it that turns him on about it.
5. Would you want to have anal sex with your man? You or him?
A: Yes please to both!
6. What do girls think of butt plugs and chasity on their man?
A: Not sure about the chasity but I am all for butt plugs and anal toys for both myself and my man.
I find this post hilarious yet interesting! For me, I'm both a folder and a scruncher. If I do #1, I tend to fold neatly and use just enough paper to get the job done BUT (no pun intended!) if I do a #2, I'm a scruncher and tend to use much more than I probably need. I'm not sure about the theories regarding what that says about a person but what the hell do I know?
Now that I think about it, I'm curious about how people replace their toilette paper - with the flap over or under! I can't imagine what THAT says about a person but I know it has been the cause of some serious discussions among couples, lol.
P.S. For the record, toilet paper should be replaced with the flap OVER :P
Loved her candid and honest profile not to mention her pink heels!
Hmm, so many...
Into the Wild
Bridges of Madison County
Man on Fire
Blue Valentine
Wuthering Heights
Shame
I'm sure there are more but I'll end it here for now ;)
I've had both and have enjoyed both equally. For me personally, it's always been more about the man attached to the penis than the penis itself.
I find it ironic not to mention hypocritical that I'm being called 'judgmental' regarding my comment on this thread by two people who have been known to cast their own judgements in past threads.
I wasn't attacking or singling out any one person in particular but making a personal statement which, the last time I checked, I am entitled to do and shouldn't be chastised for it. Maybe I live by a different moral code than some people on here but if you've read any of my past postings, you will see that I am also a woman who believes in the saying 'to each their own'.
You want to cheat on your partner? Knock yourself out but I don't have to agree with it. Don't want an opinion that is not in favor of what you're doing? Then maybe posting it in the forums isn't very wise OR put a disclaimer that only those who are okay with cheating may respond. In either case, forgive me for expressing my opinion on a PUBLIC forum and especially for not celebrating infidelity.
Perhaps someone should consider policing the rest of the threads to ensure that no one else is ever offended again by opposing opinions and/or Lushies who appear to pass judgements. I suspect whoever that lucky person is, will be VERY busy.
And for the record, I have never been cheated on but have known many people and families who have been terribly hurt by it.
After spending a whole day outside at a soccer tournament with a cold wind blowing on me for 8 hours, I'm indulging in a hot cappuccino. Mmmmmm....
Hmm interesting. I don't think I've ever thought of it before, lol. I think I need to take a better look the next time I get out of the shower or perhaps ask my partner which one he thinks I look most like :-)
I thought my level of sarcasm was well established around here already. If not, I'll use you to reestablish such.
