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A cock is a cock. I care more about the man who owns it than what it looks like. Personally, I've had both and one isn't any better than the other when it comes to sex - it's all about how he uses it.
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BelleduJour
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Canada
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I actually do enjoy a bit of rough play every now and again BUT do draw some lines in the sand when it comes to having it go violent, abusive and/or degrading - there still needs to be a level of respect and care played out at all times otherwise it can go horribly wrong. When you have a partner you care about and trust and have some 'rules' established, it can be insanely HOT!
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Quote by Sarah84
Because I can, and here's a secret.... because I want to
Cheers and AMEN! 
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i have got her to remove her numbers from her profile, and she is careless with adding strangers... but have got her to remove them...quote]
Does anyone else not find this odd? I think I'd be questioning my partner about why they feel the need to add strangers to their profile in the first place and of all places. Just being careless? I'm not sure if you're making excuses for her or you're just being a bit naive, either way, I'm afraid I don't buy it. Good luck though.
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Fucking LOVE it! (and NO this does NOT mean I'm intereted in getting an invitation to watch you stretch your taffy for me on cam - thanks but no thanks)
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Wearing panties soaked with my partner's 'juice'? I will agree that it isn't exactly the most comfortable way to go about my day BUT it can definitely be HOT when my man and I want to kick things up a notch to kinky status every now and again.
Wearing panties soaked with MY 'juices'? Again, not the most comfortable feeling for long periods of time but when I'm aroused, I'm aroused and I'm just grateful I can still get as wet as I do for any number of wonderfully arousing reasons.
Wearing panties soaked with MY 'juices'? Again, not the most comfortable feeling for long periods of time but when I'm aroused, I'm aroused and I'm just grateful I can still get as wet as I do for any number of wonderfully arousing reasons.
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Like everything in my life and especially when it comes to sex and masturbation, I like variety. Watching porn, being visually stimulated, is indeed one way to get off that can be most enjoyable.
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I'm a bit of a shoe whore and have a bit of everything but have to admit to loving my heels - the higher the heel, the closer to God after all.
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Between best girlfriends, calling one another 'bitch' in jest is fine on occassion. As for hearing my man call me that in ANY context, personally, I don't particularly like it. I can think of a hundred other names I'd rather be called and 'bitch' isn't one of them.
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I go between shaving and waxing but have let my partner shave me on occassion - it's rarely done to 'my standards' but then again, who the hell cares? lol. Usually it's just another form of foreplay and if my man is into it and wants to shave me, who am I to say no?
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I think a little tease goes a long way - that goes for men and women.
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Hmm, the answer seems to be pretty simple to me...ASK him. Please tell me communication between couples isn't lost on everyone because if so, it will be a very sad, sad world if that happens.
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If it's an intense fight I would prefer to sit down and sort it out, THEN have the makeup sex.
I'm with Trinket on this one. I need to talk things out especially if it's a serious argument THEN we can fuck each other senseless
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Great advice posted here - can't think of anything more to add. Good luck!
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I've done the advanced road trip foreplay many times but can't say that I've done the cock-in-pussy experience while driving. I'm with DD, if I really want and need to get it on, I'd much rather pull over and do it right than run the risk of hurting anyone - sex shud be fun and exciting but not worth killing or dying over. Call me old fashioned.
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Casual Friday today so I'm in jeans, brown high heeled leather boots, Navy tshit and brown cable-knit sweater.
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I know this well but I won't bore everyone with the details (again) with my own experience regarding my marriage but will give you two pieces of advice that sealed my marital fate; (1) the realization that it takes TWO people to make a relationship work and (2) you need to ask yourself the question "If this is as good as it will EVER get, is it good enough?"- seems like a pretty simple question but if you think on it long enough, you'll come face to face with a mountain of feelngs and emotions that will ultimately make you realize what you're willing to live with and/or without. Good luck!
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My only advice is be VERY careful what you wish for. It's a slippery slope and one that often starts off with innocent and best of intentions only to end up blowing up in your face. Good luck either way.
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Yes I have although more so in the past than today - having been on here a while, I've learned a thing or two about how the online game is played and what I want my experiences to be. It's really not rocket science - choose your friends carefully, adjust your privacy settings and/or visit HIDDEN and finally, don't be afraid to speak your mind and/or get comfortable with your DELETE button - I know I have and that's why my friend list is as small as it is. Quality over quantity. It makes all the difference on here.
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Hmm, in the words of Eve Ensler in her award winning production of The Vagina Monologues, here are a few of my favs;
Sugar Dish
Secret Garden
Pussycat
Mimi in Miami
Split Knish
Coochi Snorcher
Cooter
Nappy Dugout
MushMellow
Fannyboo
And don't forget Cooka as affectionately nicknamed by the trailer trash tramps on Jersey Shore!
Sugar Dish
Secret Garden
Pussycat
Mimi in Miami
Split Knish
Coochi Snorcher
Cooter
Nappy Dugout
MushMellow
Fannyboo
And don't forget Cooka as affectionately nicknamed by the trailer trash tramps on Jersey Shore!
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LOVE biting! It's a HUGE turn on just about anywhere my man wants to nibble including...and never to be forgotten...my clit 
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I absolutely LOVE LOVE it when my man cums inside me...and ONLY my man...definitely NOT a fan of being a dumping receptacle for spunk. Yeah, no thanks.
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Quote by lovewhenuswallowI wouldn't admit that either
That teams just wasting away Ryan Miller's talent.
No arguments there. Season ticket holder if only for Ryan
I really miss the days when Drury and Briere were playing tho. 
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I don't want or need THINGS to make me happy, I just want and need some lovin' from my man be it Valentine's Day or any other day of the year.