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Still in bed at the moment and wearing a short white lacey cotton nightie...and that's all ;)
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BelleduJour
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Canada
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Quote by trinket
I wouldn't be pleasing myself if my boyfriend or husband were close enough to be spying on me, he would be pleasing me.
You got that right!
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Personally I LOVE it mainly because, in my humble opinion, I find it to be much more intimate than spurting all over my tits or face - has less of a porn feel and more romantic one. I love the feeling of his cock stiffening even further, the change in his tempo as he prepares to cum, his body clenching up, feel his cock twitch and spasm deep inside me followed by a warm feeling filling me as he unloads is nothing short of heaven. Now, when he pulls out, that's when I can truly appreciate the glorious gift he left behind. What's there NOT to love about it? 
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Is this a serious question? Umm...HELL YES! It's really only as hot as how into it my man is - if he's loving it, I'm TOTALLY into it and can and will get off all over his face as many times as he wants me to 
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Quote by JohnC
Smacking ass.... check
Leaving scratch marks.... check
squeezing hard on my testicles.... um, no thank you
tying me up...... to some degree
tape my mouth shut.... not going to happen
hot was.... check
If my belle wanted to do rough things with me, short of ball gags, harsh physical restraint, cutting, and taping of the mouth, I am game. Nipple clamps, would work too.But I am far from a submissive guy. I just let my woman use me the way she wants to (within the guidelines I stated). I am not delicate. ;)
I'm ready for you hun 
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Quote by JohnC
LOL Oh my..... The idea that a man can't be manly AND do things around the house always makes me laugh. I am pretty darn manly (if I say so myself), and I cook, I do laundry, I vacuum and even steam clean the carpets, dishes too.... heck, you name it, I do it. I am not a servant, nor feminine. I also shovel all the snow, take out the trash, mow the lawn, fix things when they break, etc. Hell, what would people do if they didn't have a partner? Do things just NOT get done? (rolling eyes)
Again, doing any of those things are not by default showing a man is less "manly". A REAL man knows how to do it all, and does not depend on ANYONE to do things for him. And a REAL man is not afraid to help his woman do ANYTHING, or do it FOR her... not because she can't do it herself, but because he WANTS to.
Well said handsome! In my opinion, I think men who aren't afraid to pitch in with the housework to be thoughtful and absolutely sexy. Working together to get all the chores done just means there would be more time for much more enjoyable ways to be together where I could show my appreciation and gratitude for having picked such an amazing man in the first place
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Once again, I am dumbfounded when I hear of partners (married or not) suddendly deciding for themselves that they DON'T want to do something anymore without so much as a discussion with their partner or some kind of explanation. Seriously?? Granted, there may be things that were once exciting and enjoyable that for one reason or another, may no longer be BUT to just yank it off the menu without trying to figure out WHY through further discussion or perhaps even therapy, is just plain SELFISH! It just begs the question 'What's next?' Next thing you know, you're NO LONGER HAVING SEX - then what?? Seriously, people need to grow the fuck up and COMMUNICATE and realize that a relationship, ANY relationship, takes TWO people to make it work. And that goes both ways. Sorry for ranting, but these types of topics just hit a very tender nerve for me. Regardless, I wish you luck in your pursuit to bring back the french kissing you love so much.
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Quote by nicola
@ CD - there aren't any arguments, you are looking for drama where there isn't any. Scared? lol. I know you two are friends, but seriously, he's a big boy, you don't need to jump to his defence every time he posts anything and gets flak.
OMKN very often gets it right (as much as it pains me to say it), it's the way he says things that tends to rub people up the wrong way.
I believe he means well, deep down. He even gave a link to a mental health web site, which I totally agree with, is the correct online place for someone to go, who has mental health issues. He needs a professional psychiatrist, his first stop should be a trip to his GP to get a referral.
This comment however, is belittling and rather insulting to our adult community as a whole.
Incorrect. Lush is essentially an adult community, with erotic stories as a central core. This isn't a porn tube, designed to get people off.
For fly-by surfers, sure, that might be all they are here for. But for the majority of people who keep coming back, day after day, the central community, it's about the friendships, forum banter, learning how to improve their writing, discussing stories, chatting etc - a broad spectrum of adult entertainment.
Nicola, loved your response and will agree with you on all points. We shouldn't all be painted with the same paint brush for our reasons for being here. I don't recall a disclaimer upon signing up that said 'Check your heart at the door'. A little kindness, compassion and understanding should always be exercised no matter where we go in life and who we meet and that certainly shouldn't change just because we're online.
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I know it looks like we're hijacking this thread but I too can't pass this up...at the risk of sounding like a copycat, JohnC is just as beautiful on the inside as he is on the outside, incredibly sensual and romantic, passionate, intelligent and wears his heart on his sleeve. One in a million
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I'm half Italian and half French and can understand both languages better than I can speak them.
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I too am taking belly dancing classes and LOVE IT! Awesome work out not to mention the sensual moves all make it a great experience. Beyond that, I personally have found the tango to be very sensual and salsa, especially anything from Mr. Salsa Geoge! Dio mio I wanna dance http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qPvQjYMiX8
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Congratulations! Lelo toys are truly the best products on the market right now. Enjoy!
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Being a parent, it's hard to take such liberties at the best of times. Outside of that, I'm really not a fan of prancing around in all my naked glory unless I can enjoy it with my man - I just don't see the point otherwise ;)
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Go for it! I think men today appreciate and maybe even wish more women took the initiative in asking them out. It's a bit scary at first especially at the thought of being turned down but what always works for me is trying to put myself in the guy's shoes, it can't be easy for them either.
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I have several outside my front door but do enlist the help of some landscapers to keep them trimmed back and well manicured - nothing like a wild bush to keep people from knocking on your door 
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Dark grey dress pants, black high heels, white gentlemen's style button down shirt, long wavy hair and silver hoop earrings.
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LOVE my IUD for a million reasons not the least of which is that I rarely have periods anymore! Seriously the best option out there for women. Good luck!
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Quote by blazestcyr
you know what i call insensitivity on you both..this thread is called RELATIONSHIP ADVICE!!!!!!..there is a thread called sexual issues..LUSH is not a bunch of wankers!!!have you seen the writing talent that is shown HERE?? that is like calling erotica just porn!! shame on you both shame for not seeing this man's pain and for degrading what is one of lush's loveliest things the ability to share both sex and ideas on forums and stories...
shame...lush IS more than a masturbatory aid...wow...so you cant talk about sex without fucking yourself??control much???
good god if this was my site i would jettsion you both for this..wow..wow.....
Amen! Was about to post something very similar. You GO GIRL!
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Okay, awkward moment to say the least but it was a legitimate question and assumption by Trinket. Crap like that happens A LOT on here but glad to hear it wasn't the case with you. Carry on....
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Oh I think it would be down right amusing especially for those profiles that have their naughty bits AND their faces plastered in albums open for everyone to see - I would SO let them know I know ;-)
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Quote by JohnC
Yes I have.... and I probably would not return simply because of the location. But frankly I find no need to seek them out, nor avoid them. Having been to one I find them to be highly overrated and far less then the titillation I had expected.
Agreed. Visited once or twice in the past and its not at all what I thought it would be...but then, I'm not sure what I was expecting either lol.
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Black jeggings, brown leather boots, black long sleeve shirt and black poncho - lots of black today too lol.
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Sorry, not my style. Besides, those types of relationships, despite one's initial intentions, usually end up being way more complicated than they're worth. Kudos to those who can have their cake and eat it too 
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Quote by Dudealicious
I have actually lived out this scenario, I was in a sexless relationship for almost 5 years of my 10 year marriage. I am a very sexual person and started to wonder if it was me that was the cause of the problem. I asked on numerous occasions and was told that it was actually her that had the problem. I tried to be as understanding as I could but over time it became a friendship to me, not a relationship anymore.
Then one day hit, and I had enough of it. I called off the 10 year marriage and have found someone with a sex drive that equals mine....I have never looked back.
If there is no sex in a relationship, wouldn't it be just a friendship?
Sounds eerily familiar - been there and done exactly that except it would appear I'm still on a quest to find a partner in real life who's sex drive equals my own.