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Isn't that just called "Marriage?"
Awe that's just mean
It doesn't have to be that way... 
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BelleduJour
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Canada
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Awe that's just mean
It doesn't have to be that way... 
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I don't think it has anything to do with the guy 'being so nice and kind and considerate' that it GETS him in the friendzone but more that the girl just isn't attracted to him in THAT way right from the start.
Having said that, I also agree that age may play a part in it as well - most young women tend to spend their youth experimenting, sowing their oats and searching for wild adventures which often times includes dating bad boys while older women who've been-there-and-done-that, are more interested in settling down with a nice guy this time around.
To say that being kind automatically puts you into the friendzone is not only not accurate but not fair.
Having said that, I also agree that age may play a part in it as well - most young women tend to spend their youth experimenting, sowing their oats and searching for wild adventures which often times includes dating bad boys while older women who've been-there-and-done-that, are more interested in settling down with a nice guy this time around.
To say that being kind automatically puts you into the friendzone is not only not accurate but not fair.
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Although I'm no Chubaka-lover, I'm one of those rare breeds of women who loves her man to sport some hair, especially facial hair. I like a man to look like MAN and often prefer the more natural look with a bit of manscaping to keep things neat and tidy over the ouber metrosexuals who spend too much time looking at themselves in the mirror and in the bathroom getting ready - NEXT! Besides, I'm not one to selfishly ask such thing of my partner unless it was something HE wanted to do or was contemplating for himself - I just think it's all a bit shallow.
If your woman isn't crazy about your back hair and you're willing to remove it to please her, go for it! I think that is a lovely gesture and one that will most likely earn you a bucket full of Brownie point
If your woman isn't crazy about your back hair and you're willing to remove it to please her, go for it! I think that is a lovely gesture and one that will most likely earn you a bucket full of Brownie point
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Yes I have and although I'm very flattered that I can still turn the heads of men young and old, I'm also ouber careful never to cross any inappropriate lines especially where my son is concerned. I am a woman of integrity and I would never act on nor encourage such youthful and 'affections'.
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I don't know of any unusual ones (nor would I find any part of her body to be "unusual" for stimulation). But the MIND is often neglected.... never neglect her mind.
As the saying goes, 'Seduce my mind and you can have my body'. But you already know this
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OMG ABSOLULTELY!! I've all but abandoned any other toy I had in my toy chest, and that is quite a few. Tried, tested and approved. Worth every penny 
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As much as I enjoy watching m2m porn and especially LOVE that MY man enjoys anal play, I would not be interested in the idea of him engaging in m2m or any act that involved anyone other than JUST me. I don't like to share my man with anyone.
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Did you let her know that you enjoyed it? If not, maybe that's why you're getting the cold shoulder - she may be concerned it wasn't pleasant. Regardless, I'll tell you what I tell everyone looking for advice...COMMUNICATE! Seriously. If it's something you enjoyed and want to do again, tell her that! Geeez Louise 
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...I have my morning coffee while I see the posts on my wall that you specially chose for me 
The last thing I want to do is...
The last thing I want to do is...
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LOVE a man who can make me laugh...and John always makes me laugh 
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no but then was married for a long time..and now am celibate for private reasons
but hell yes...at 46 i havel the confidence i didnt have in the my 20's
but only if the man and i were monogamous....i dont share....period
Although I'm not celibate I was married for a long time so calling a guy up in such a way was not in the cards.
Now at 44, I too have a hell of a lot more confidence and have no problems doing that now but ONLY with someone I'm in a monogamous relationship with - I don't share either.
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Like many on here, I have my own collection that were viewable in private albums only and even then have always hand picked those who got to see which albums.
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Black skinny jeans, brown v-neck fitted long sleeve shirt, black high-heeled wedge boots and a chocolate leather jacket (for when I leave in a few minutes)
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I don't make it a habit of discussing such intimate and personal things with anyone, not even my girlfriends UNLESS there is a serious issue or concern and I need some advice or feedback. If I feel the need to talk to someone, I always lean on one special girlfriend (not a whole gaggle of them), in the strictest confidence and always do it in a way that is tasteful and respectful to my partner. Locker room chatter amongst women about our men? Doesn't happen...at least not in MY circle of friends.
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sexy is a state of mind... the rest is all icing
I will also agree with this - sexy, like most things in life, is a state of mind. Well said blazestcry =d>
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Personally, it's usually NOT 'what' but 'who' makes me feel sexy - MY man always does 
. Apart from that, heels. Yep, heels always make me feel sexy be it casual, formal or bedtime
. Apart from that, heels. Yep, heels always make me feel sexy be it casual, formal or bedtime 
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Had a lunch meeting with my trainer and had a grilled chicken with avocado and cilantro on ciabatta bread and a mesclun salad - yummy!
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If that is what you both agree to... that is fine.
Me? No way in hell. LOL I would simply not "share" my woman and if she wanted to fuck other guys she should not have been with me. But that is just ME and how I look at it. What others choose to do is up to them. I am sure my woman would agree with me on this one (Belle?). Oh heck, I KNOW she would... she said she would not share me in another thread here on the same topic. LOL
Damn straight! To each their own but in MY relationship there is only room for two of us - me and my man. Period. I'm his partner not some toy he can pass around at a party. Do couples really benefit from this? I think I may be a bit too old fashioned for this place if so
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I don't know if other girls experience it this way, but at first I'm aware I have a full bladder but then once I'm sufficiently turned on and progressing towards an orgasm, the 'need to pee' goes away and you're just left with this different sensation (tighter/fuller - almost like a distinct kind of pleasurable sexual ache). I believe the mechanism behind this is that the bladder is right behind the gspot so when the bladder is full it pushes against it. Since it's moved slightly forward into the vagina from behind, it allows more sensitivity and contact through thrusting or other mechanical stimulation. Plus it just feels good when something is pushing against it in general. After the orgasm subsides, it's not like I'm desperate to run to the bathroom either. It takes a little while for that 'need to pee' to return.
I have been known to drink a big glass of water if I have time to think of it before sex or solo-play - just because I know it's going to make the orgasms more intense. Plus this is another benefit of having morning sex just as you're waking up.
Abso-freakin-lutely!!!
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and so began my adventures into water sports...
Lol love it. Be sure to buckle up for the ride of your life
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That is rather interesting. Do you have the full bladder climax with a partner or is it as intense if you've masturbated?
Both ways work but regardless with or without a partner, deep penetration is what ultimately does me in. Having said that with a partner is always better for a number of reasons I don't think I need to list out
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Thankfully my orgasms, about 90% of the time, are extremely intense and insanely pleasurable be it on my own or especially whilst with a partner. As for having an orgasm that caused me to fall unconscious or become unresponsive, not yet (haha) BUT I have had orgasms where I have come close to blacking out and/or saw stars circling my head from the sheer force of it all. Those kinds of orgasms usually only occur when I'm engaging with a painfully full bladder Yes, you heard correctly - please tell me I'm not the only that loves climaxing this way??? Climaxing while having a full bladder not only exponentially intesifies my orgasms to the point where I nearly black out/see stars as it but when finally go to relieve myself, provided I catch the 'wave' at just the right time, the sensations only prove to extend and enhance my already mind-blowing and toe-curling climax! Yeah, it's about as good as it gets I think *sigh*
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If I'm not in really close proximity to him, I definitely notice height and body type first. If we are close, though, I immediately look at eyes and smile. If you have nice eyes and a great smile, I'm definitely hooked.
Ditto
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My son's laughter - especially his can't-catch-a-breath belly ones. LOVE that sound!