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BelleduJour
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Canada

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I'm always horny, seriously. Its kind of ridiculous and often wonder when this will fade. Period, no period it doesn't matter. I'm ready to go just about any time. But that may have more to do with being in my sexual prime ;)

As for syncing up of periods, it does happen but I agree with some on here that a group of women all on the same cycle is intense!
Absolutely! Unfortunately it doesn't happen as often as I would like but when it does, it's fucking amazing! For me, the dreams that evoke such a reaction tend to be very vivid and obviously sexually arousing but my release comes from me relentlessly squeezing my thighs together rather than using my fingers. Often times I'm in the middle state of sleep where you're partially awake but still dreaming...

The orgasms are very different compared to the usual manual stimulation and/or penetration but equally as satisfying because of the very slow build up followed by an expected release. I always compare it to that feeling you get when you ride a roller coaster - that very first initial slow climb to the top followed by the exhilarating rush of the first drop! As I'm climaxing, I do tend to wake up albeit a bit dazed and confused and always hope for one more before the sun rises ;)
Dear Mr. JohnC,

Forward, perhaps but agressive? I've been called many things in my life (all good btw) but aggressive has never been one of them, lol. As for watching my interactions with other members, I didn't realize I was interacting with anyone on the forums to any great extent so that too is new news to me.

Rather than answer my question and clear things up, you've only further peaked my curiosity and interest. Consider a private message sent
When I sit on the toilette, I always sit on the balls of my feet, almost like I'm pointing my toes rather than sit flat-footed. How's that for a T.M.I. moment?
I've always stayed active by enjoying some of my favourite activities like skiing, hiking, biking, swimming and yoga. I've also been a huge fan of adventure racing (Eco Challenge, Tough Mudder etc.) and am in total awe of the athletes that compete in them. This past November, I decided it was time to kick it up a notch and step outside my comfort zone and what better way than to sign up to participate in an adventure race this summer? I hired a personal trainer, who for 3 days a week, focuses on weight/strength training and basically KICKS MY ASS! On the off days I see him, I work on my cardio be it at the gym or on my own at home. Every inch of my body is aching these days but I'm committed to the process and am loving every single moment!
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LOL Thank you. Some more than others..... but I will not say where I fit in the spectrum. ;)

I have been watching BelleduJour for a bit now, and frankly her being so forward gave me a bit of a pause. Not that I didn't like it, but I needed to sit back and watch so I could make up my mind. Yes, I think I do like her a lot. She is a very sexy and sexual woman and she does excite me more than the average. This is wonderful and shows a lot about her, because a MIND is part of what I look for and what helps excite me. smile

I would advise others watch her as well. :-D


LOL so you have been watching me and had to pause to make up your mind about me? oh my, you can't make a comment like that and not expect me to take notice. Please elaborate JohnC, you've managed to capture my attention which is a difficult thing to accomplish at the best of times but especially on here

P.S. Thank you for the lovely compliment btw and yes, I am MUCH more than just a pair of tits
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never did not once in my marriage..he turned me down...

and that is what ended my marriage

once in awhile is so understandable but a constant no means...you lost that loving feeling

and saying no to sex all the time is the same as saying no to love....

to me men and women who deny sex in a partnership all the time break the vows as much as cheaters


Wow! Sounds like Blazestcyr and I have something in common. Hurts like a son-of-a-bitch, doesn't it? His loss
Having bumped into JohnC around the forums, he appears to be articulate, thoughtful, sincere and horny (but then again...aren't we all if we're on Lush?)
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Because it feels good, because its , because its sexy, because its a little raunchy, because its all about fucking, there is no making love to an ass... Its hot... Different strokes for different folks... Me personally... Love it.


AMEN!
I have made a few videos of me masturbating and/or doing other naughty things (anonymously of course) but I have never nor would I ever make a full-on sex tape with my partner - apart from the fact that I really don't fancy the idea of watching myself on film, you just never know what could happen or who will find it...and that thought just freaks me out. OI VEY!
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I like them, and have had them. The longest was 2 years, and I was "faithful" to her the whole time... as in, what we had online was only between us and I didn't talk sexually with anyone else the whole time.

As for the whole "is it cheating" thing..... I believe it IS. I will not be a hypocrite about it. If your partner does not KNOW and APPROVE of any sexual relationship (even if online, text, cam, etc.) it is "cheating". It is not the same as masturbating to porn.


I too have had a handful of special online relationships as a result of Lush. As for the cheating question, I totally agree with JohnC.
Like many have said already, I love and care for many on here

As for having falling 'in love' with someone on Lush, if I'm being completely honest with myself, I would have to admit that I have once and he with me but it was what it was and I've made peace with that a long time ago.
Never with two men but I definitely have enjoyed DP on my own or with my partner and my toys. I LOVE the feeling of being taken in both holes at the same time - makes for some very powerful orgasms.
An hour ago - came 3 times in a row and ended up gushing like crazy on the third cum that I had to change the sheets
Q: Would you or have you masturbated in front of your boyfriend or husband for their entertainment?
A: Absolutely, many times but do enjoy it when we masturbate for each other even more.

Q: How about a stranger?
A: Depends if you consider Lushies to be strangers or not...

Q: How about another female?
A: No thank you.
My main reason for shaving/waxing it all off is primarily because it's more hygienic not to mention that most men I've been with prefer a bare pussy and I'm always one to please my man.
We seem to keep bumping into one another! Date and depending on how that went, fuck buddies.
Wow, I thought I had heard it all and that I had done some pretty outrageous things in my life but this thread TAKES THE CAKE! I'm not sure what to say except that maybe I'm a bit more selective about what I shove up my whooha although I have tried popsicles and lollypops but those were always with partners and never on my own.
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I have not... thought about it, but didn't. I just don't think it is a good idea. Way too many things can go wrong, and once you cross that line, you can not go back (I don't care what anyone says, you can NOT... it is a bell that can't be unrung.). IMO it is best to leave that whole thing alone.


Agreed! I very much enjoy the flirtatious 'dance' that happens between colleagues and have thought about it many times but I have not and would not cross that line and have sex with anyone I work with on a daily basis. Perhaps it's different for people working in more transient jobs but as a professional with a successful and rising career, I would never be so short-sighted as to allow my libido to take over and risk all that I've worked hard to accomplish just for a fuck.
Oh yes, LOVE a bit of dirty talk but there is definitely a time and place and mood that needs to be set in order for it be as exciting and fulfilling as it can be.
I think it's a combination of how well a woman is intuned with her body and her orgasms, how relaxed and open she is to the idea of squirting and what it will take to get her to reach it and especially the right man and/or toy. Put all three together = Tsunami
I'm just under 5'5" and tend to prefer/date men around 6' but at the end of the day, it's not a deal-breaker if I meet someone who's amazing in all other areas except his height.