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BelleduJour
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Canada

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Guilty and absolutely, especially when he has beautiful feet ;)

Have you ever cum so hard you saw stars?
Oh my, there are so many but here are just a few I've learned...

1. Being grateful turns what you have into enough.
2. Expectation is the root of all heartache.
3. If you're not happy single, you won't be happy taken. Happiness comes from within, not from men.
4. Don't let yourself become so concerned with raising a good kid that you forget that you already have one smile
5. You already have the answers. You just have to be quiet enough and learn to listen. Trust your gut.

And finally...
6. Be good to those who are good to you and FUCK the rest of them
Honestly, and I know this is VERY hypocritical but I would NEVER want to see any man of mine in my real life join Lush (or any porn/sex site) EVEN if it's alongside me. I'm not very good at sharing my men and as much as I might trust him, I'd still be worried that this place would only prove to divide us rather than bring us together. Men are men after all - offer up a never-ending buffet of titties and pussies and MOST men lose all sense of control and focus. Kudos to those men on here who can find the balance cuz it definitely ain't the norm - trust me. Been there and done that and won't be playing that game again
Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
I see nothing wrong with it. It can be just as sensual as straight sex or lesbian sex. But it can also be a bit more rough than that, as well. Which is actually quite hot...at least in my opinion.lxMG99at70YsjsTt

I am in total agreement with slipperywhenwet2012. I actually LOVE m2m porn and find that I can get off just as easily and just as hard by watching it.
Quote by Nikki703
No I havent. But there are different type of love too. I tell a lot of friends I love them and I truly do. But I am not "in love'" with them. Saying I am in love with someone is not something I just throw around.

I agree. There is a difference but regardless, I would never be so cruel as to say it, whichever one, unless I truly meant it. That's just fucked up and I don't do fucked up
Came home from the gym, took a hot shower and have been sitting on the sofa in a fluffy white terry cloth robe and wet hair
What's the difference between you having to do it and the mother of your child? Don't you think it's hard and scary and stressful for her? Did she ban you from seeking help from your family and/or friends to assist you when it's your turn to have the baby? If not, what's the problem? There is NO question that parenting is hard and scary and all-consuming and quite frankly, sometimes it just plain sucks but it also has so many wonderful and beautiful rewards. If the mother of your unborn child hasn't cast an invisible shield that prevents others from helping you if/when you need them, there is NO reason why you, as the father, can't take care of your child from the moment it's born.

Congratulations by the way and good luck smile
Quote by JohnC
I love beautiful women. However I like them in the "normal" ranges. Not super thin, and not VERY obese. I do tend to gravitate to the larger ladies though. I love the curves.


Real men love curves
Although not my FAVOURITE time of the month to have sex, I have and would if the need is there and my partner has no issues with it. The best way to have it? In the shower
I LOVE tattoos on men provided they're done well of course. I even like them on women HOWEVER there is a fine line between tattos making them look sexy and making them look like they belong in a dirty strip club. It's all about choosing well, both design and placement.
Quote by JohnC
I am not a gal, but if I might......

While the physical things do matter, I suggest guys not think of foreplay as something you do directly before you want to have sex/make love. To me foreplay is a 24 hour a day thing. It begins with a smile in the morning, a kiss, a pat on the rear, a comment about how beautiful and alluring she is, and on and on. That "look", a wink, a note in her lunch or on the mirror, an email at work telling her you are thinking about her, and on and on. Sex, and more so making love, is mental on so many levels. If you neglect that, you are handicapping yourself.

That is just how I think about it, others may disagree. smile

I've always said that foreplay starts from the moment your wake in the morning and lasts all day until you're finally together again - and this goes for BOTH men and women btw! It's a shame that most men don't get it. If they did, I'm pretty certain there would be a lot fewer men complaining they never get any sex!

As for JohnC....yes...he definitely gets it
While married, only my husband's (not the cheating kind) but while dating? Well, that is another story...
When you order a sandwich and the contents are all piled high in the middle that you can barely fit in your mouth but the edges are just bread on bread. Same thing with pizza. Seriously, SO fucking annoying. Is it really that hard to spread the love so each bite gets to enjoy what it paid for? UGH.
Are you talking about masturbating or getting it on with another person?
Spitting can be a turn on when "fucking" but not so much when "making love" if that makes any sense. When its just raw, dirty, lusty sex than it can add to the vibe. But if is a romantic, loving, gentle event then it really doesnt fit.

Although I'm definitely not one to shy away from sex getting a bit messy or sloppy given the right circumstances, I do agree that spitting or the like is often much hotter and more fitting for those spontaneous unbridled encounters.
Spitting can be a turn on when "fucking" but not so much when "making love" if that makes any sense. When its just raw, dirty, lusty sex than it can add to the vibe. But if is a romantic, loving, gentle event then it really doesnt fit.

Bang on right!
Well, other than the usual 'Baby or Babe' (nothing too original with those) but I've had lovers call me 'Bella', 'My Bella', 'Doll', 'Baby Doll' and a even 'Mimi' which is my nickname in real life. Just depends on the man and how long we've been together and how comfortable he is with exchanging cute pet names, because some men can't wrap their head around it, lol.
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Quote by freakycactus
It's my favourite. With my legs wrapped around him holding him deep inside me, his hands pinning mine to the bed above my head, his lips pressed against mine in a breathless kiss - what's not to love?

AMEN!