Is this a serious question?
If my man is CUMMING in his pants as a result of another woman rubbing up against him, yeah, I'm gonna be PISSED not to mention feel betrayed, even if he told me about it.
It's one thing to visit a strip club on occasion for a drink with the boys or with business clients and enjoy the views but it's a whole other thing to pay for an experience with an over priced trollop behind the black curtain.
I don't know too many women who wouldn't find some issue with this one.
Most of the men I've been with have either had straight cocks or a slight bend to them at the most. Apart from length or girth, I've never noticed a difference in how they felt once inside me.
It's pretty straight forward. It can be naughty or nice. GO!
That last thing I put in my mouth was a handful of Nibs - YUM!
oops. Duplication. Not sure how to delete this so feel free to let me know!
Well, if we're talking about , yes, that's about all we can do is sit and watch each other masturbate until we both cum.
As for when I'm with my man, of course! Just another delicious activity to help keeps things interesting. I will agree with slipperywhenwet2012 that it usually leads to sex at some point, even if we've both cum watching each other the first time - it only takes him a few minutes to recharge and get what's coming to him ;)
I've received both snippets of erotic/sexual scenarios as well as full-on first-person erotica since being here.
There is some guy on here that keeps emailing me what I can only assume is one of his erotic stories that goes on for PAGES! He's done it like 3-4 times I think. I have no idea who he is, haven't seen him around the forums or chatrooms etc., we are NOT friends, we've never chatted, and he doesn't even give an intro with these emails which makes me think he's sending it out to a bunch of Lushies hoping for someone to bite. I don't understand it but it is very odd especially because I just delete his email but he continues to send them.
Having said that, I did meet and friend a really nice guy on here (he deleted his profile a while ago) with whom I had many nice chats. He was a writer in real life who wanted to expand on his erotica and, after having spent time swapping info about our likes and dislikes, he ASKED me if he could write an erotic scene about us. I couldn't think of a reason why not and so it began, this email exchange of story telling that we each weaved together. We had taken the time to get to know one another and if there ever was a question about a scene that he wanted to play out, he would message me separately and ask if it was something that was okay with me BEFORE he put pen to paper. It really was a lot of fun and I enjoyed that experience very much with him BECAUSE it was very personal and respectful.
Bottom line, I think cold-calling erotic stories and/or scenarios with strangers is indeed creepy as already mentioned BUT I think there is something quite exciting not to mention arousing when it comes from someone you know, and even better if you're invited to weave the story together.
I think the "jealousy" component really can only happen if you've made a connection with someone I think. I mean, if you're on here for shits and giggles and you're one of those that chats it up with anyone that pokes at you including those with blank profiles and faceless avatars, you might not give a shit that you didn't make it to the top of their playlist.
But if you're someone that takes the time to get to know people on here, share a bit of yourself with them, you're bound to find those that you prefer to spend more time with than others. When that happens, it can be difficult NOT to feel a pang of jealousy once in a while. Just depends on your purpose for being here. And as Tiinkerbell so eloquently said, "a connection with someone (on or offline) can be intense and evoke all sorts of emotions including jealousy."
And yes, jealousy can be healthy but I really think that is more theory than reality when it comes to places like Lush. This is a place where people congregate because of our love of sex and erotica and fantasy and chatting and perusing pics and whatever else we're allowed to get our hands on all for our own selfish pleasure. It's easy picking if you want it so jealousy, the not-so-pleasant kind can run rampant on here if you're not careful.
Honestly, I have no idea because I don't sit around thinking about it. Even though I can't give a solid number, I will say that there have been many occasions where that number would have been extraordinary. I'm in my sexual prime, LOVE sex and being sexual and am multi-orgasmic particularly when I'm with my partner - nothing turns me on more than being skin on skin with him but I'm also a very resourceful woman when I'm on my own ;)
I can't speak for all women and I think some of it has to do with the size of one's breasts as well.
For me, it is problematic to do any kind of exercise particularly running. They just get in the way of everything and makes things challenging at the best of times. A good sports bra definitely helps but it's not the Holy Grail. Sleeping on my stomach is also not comfortable and can actually hurt. Going for a massage and having to lie on my stomach always proves to be an issue. Hell, trying to buy a bra that not only fits well but is also pretty that doesn't cost the equivalent of a mortgage payment would be nice. Finding lingerie that fits well, despite most many assumptions, is often a real problem. I've always been jealous of women who can go into a Marshalls and pull off a bra from the rack or order something online without having to try it on for size.
As many pros as there are for having large breasts, there are many more cons I think. It's not all sunshines and rainbows unfortunately but I have what I have and I make the best of it.
Ah, the wacky world wide web! Gotta love the anonymity the internet provides us. It has become a breeding ground for questionable characters with shady agendas more often than not. And those Catfish spoil it for the good ones unfortunately.
I think there are two streams of thought here; one is online dating and the second is online playtime.
As BiLadyDEe said in her intro, her initial frustration came as a result of her experience on an online dating site. That can be especially disheartening because most people on dating sites, paid or unpaid, are looking to meet people either for a hook-up or just a date or looking for a long-term relationship. There is a certain level of expectation that comes with being a member on one of those sites, the least of which would be an openness to carry on the conversation via email, text, and/or phone to see if the initial chemistry is there. Eventually, the goal would be to meet in person and see how well that goes, or not.
On sites like Lush, those expectations aren't there. It's understood that most people on sex sites are here for fun, fantasy, excitement, release. Anonymity and being guarded about one's personal information because of the genre is expected and accepted. That's not to say there aren't exceptions to either scenarios, because there are!
With regards to online dating, I've done it on and off for several years and have met my fair share of liars, cheaters, fornicators, fakes, scammers and profiles that just want some lovin' from yet another digit added to their ever expanding roster of cyber conquests. Yeah, I've met them ALL! Having said that, I have also met some pretty amazing men, had some memorable dates and even developed some great friendships along the way. Of course, that was only AFTER I learned a few hard lessons along the way.
And that goes for Lush too.
At the end of the day, you will NEVER really know who you're talking to be it on an online dating site or Lush unless you meet in person or at the very least, . It's that simple. BUT that doesn't mean there aren't wonderful people with productive lives who are honest and sincere on the other end of the computer screen, because there definitely are, LOTS!
As already mentioned, with regards to Lush anyway, some Lushies don't care who's on the other end or if someone is pretending to be someone they're not. It's irrelevant to them because it's meant to all be a fantasy anyway, and since there is no chance of meeting, who cares? For others, it's not that simple and I completely understand that.
So the only advice I can give you based on my own experience is that, if cultivating honest friendships is important to you, you need to be discerning. Ask questions, spend time talking with someone one-on-one and getting to know them, NOT sex chat just yet, just normal chat to see if you have anything in common. Read their profile bios and interests, check out their stories if they have any, read through their forum posts if that's something they participate in. I would also suggest checking out friend lists (although sometimes this is hidden); I think you can tell a lot about a profile by their friend list. If you really NEED to know something about someone, ask one of their friends in their friend list or someone that posts frequently on their wall. Why not? I've done it a few times and it has sometimes been a factor whether or not I friend someone.
The most important point I have for you is to try and NOT let all of this jade you so much that you aren't open to experiencing all the great things Lush has to offer because there are plenty. Be safe. Be smart and above all else, keep your sense of humour. It will make things even more enjoyable.
I've dated a variety men of all ages; twenty-something to early fifties and everything in between and although I didn't sleep with all of them, I did enjoy their company, some more than others. The biggest lesson I learned was that I had to throw out that proverbial "rule" book because nothing was as it seemed. As I've said in other posts about age gaps etc., being of a certain age doesn't guarantee anything, least of all better or worse skills in the bedroom. Just because someone may have more experience sexually either by years or partners, doesn't automatically make them good at it and vice versa.
For me, I'm all about having a partner who is eager and willing to please and learn and be open to new experiences, who not only hears me but listens too (two very different things), who can communicate his wants and desires as well as ask me about mine. Enthusiasm goes a long way too. Whether or not he comes with experience is irrelevant if he has these other attributes and therefore I'm more than happy to teach but I'm always happy to learn. It goes both ways.
Selfish and cocky bed behaviour is a SERIOUS turn off no matter what the age and really just shows a level of immaturity and insecurity that I don't have time for.
I mean, at the core of it all, it has more to do with communication than it does experience in my humble opinion.
A blindfold and his birthday suit. I'm in charge tonight ;)
Very blunt and to the point. And according to his profile, I just kissed his ass and became his bitch and didn't even know it.
I've got Skittles in my mouth...wanna taste the rainbow?
This morning in the shower.
I give NO apology for my intense crazy passion. That's me. That's how I NEED life and sex! It takes a strong special man to hold my passion. Someone with less courage bores me and my passion wilts like a flower without water.
As much as I preferred tampons because of the "freedom" aspect as already outlined by others, it too wouldn't be enough on it's own particularly a day or two into my cycle. Wearing pads or even tampons stuffed up one's snatch isn't something that we women look forward to and it can feel like diapers sometimes. Thankfully, since I've moved to an IUD, my periods are faint at best if at all so the days of dealing with those nasty contraptions for any noticeable length of time are but a faint memory.
