Talk to your husband. You never know he may be feeling the same way and wondering why you don't want sex all the time. Introduce him to lush. Let him read some of the stories you've discovered that arose you and see if there is anyway of maybe role playing them if he's up to it.
If you still feel the need to be 'fucked' and cheat on him then make sure your concious can live with the consequences of you know and he doesn't or if you decide to fuck and tell you're prepared for him to be outraged or even leave you. Is that something you want? Or are you really looking to do ths as an out to your marriage as you feel its over and don't know how to get out? In which case you definitely need to talk to your husband.
I've done both but yet to find an effective way of shaving without getting an irritating rash afterwards as prefer shaved. Any tips? Also being large its kinda hard to shave yourself although I do manage it when I try.
I only joined the other day and instantly got bombared with requests from men! Some I accepted, some I didn't. Some of those I accepted I have to be honest and say I'm not 100% sure about :/ I'm kinda embarrased about joining still and have almost deleted my account. I joined to make friends as much as anything else and to explore the inner me which I don't let out in public.
I remember buying my first rabbit. I was so embarrased!! Literally ran into the shop garbled something to the assistants, stuffed it in a unmarked bag and ran out so embarrased but OMG the first orgasm I had using it was sooo good and had built up the anticipation lol.
I've just brought another vibrator and a few other things on line. If your uncomfortable going into a shop its a great way of buying, although I buried the packaging at the bottom of the bin. The one I just got was a Doc Johnson realistic one which I love for the thickness compared to my rabbit, but its not as long and I like my clit stimulated so usually end up finishing off with my rabbit so I get both.
Rabbits are fun and if you like your cllit stimulated and I highly recommend. If you don't then a normal realistic vibrator is just as good.
Thanks for the replies everyone and advise.
I think its a confidence not being myself around some of my friends - there is one who I can be. I've always been a bit of recluse almost when it came to going out with work etc as afraid (and still feel like it at times) that everyone is pointing and talking about me due to my size.
I guess I'm shy around memebrs of the opposite sex too which doesn't help.
Drunk guy was a definite ughh where as the other guy was 10 years younger lol, he had been drinking too but he was sweet, although I did spend all the next day doing numbers in my head like was it a joke with his mates to chat up the fat chick, did they take pics of it and are laughing at me etc.
What tips and advice would you give to someone who is shy and not very confident when it comes to all matters to do with sex. Its like its all up in my head but I have lived a very sheltered life and find it hard to talk about 'it'. I'm better then I used to be but sometimes I just clam up.
The other week for example this guy who was so drunk just started chatting to me an my friend and wasn't particularly nice. I just felt so uncomfortable and he kept invading my personal space. However, about a week before that another guy was talking to me and I was perfectly fine with it and even flirted with him.
Its not the first time I've shut down like that either :/ Is it just the situation or the fact I'm inexperienced etc.
Love to know your thoughts and help please. Sometimes I get so fed up of being alone I cry myself to sleep. Other times when I hear about all the trouble my friends have with men I'm grateful.
Could it be I the fact I never really let the inner me out for fear of what my friends would think??
Yes, but never admitted it to anyone except myself, even when someone asked me outright if I liked him, especially as said person liked him as well.
Embarrased to ask but is there a trick to squitering? I've done it a couple of times, nothing big but have to say enjoyed, but don't know how I did it lol.
Yours a bit embarrased and naive about things sorry
Never something I have thought of measuring before but got curious. Mine are 6cm!
