David and I had been together for about 10 years - while we were a gay male couple, we had a fairly open relationship and enjoyed playing with other people, both male and female. I’m Matt, a 49-year-old white guy who’s ageing reasonably well so far and in decent shape. David is a couple of years older but wearing even better than me (I hate to admit it!). He’s mixed race and ruggedly handsome with an athletic body. He oft...