I prefer to make love with a partner. Although I have been known to occasionally enjoy a good hard fucking, often after alcohol was involved. Now one of my GFs apparently never heard of making love, she was more interested in putting on a strap-on and going nuts! Needless to say, we didn't get together too often. She's a great person, we just didn't mix sexually often, but for some reason she was always willing to buy drinks . . . I wonder why?
I would think so, but using anecdotal evidence rather than anything more specific. When I had a pic of me on my profile, I got a lot of unwanted attention even though my profile stated my preferences for contact. I started coming in set to Invisible because I got tired of the pop-ups. Based on that, I would have to think it would carry over into story attention. My assumption is there are many more male members here than female.
If that's true and the attention I got as a woman also increases my profile and story views. Even now when I am visible I get much more attention from men than women, even though my pic is currently a cute kitten. So my guess is women writers probably do get more attention than male ones. I am almost tempted to create a male profile and post a couple of stories and see how quickly they reach a certain number of views, but then I also realized I would need a new female profile or my friends and followers viewing would skew the data. Not planning on it, but it might be worth considering.
If I was still in college, it might make an interesting thesis paper :-)
I do find one minor interesting note, not sure if it might relate. The two stories of mine that have had the most attention are "Conversations with Jessie" from the Trans category, and "My Boyfriend has a Kinky Mom" from the Strap-on category. Wonder how the category interests are gender based?
Lady? I will deny that to my last breath!
Years back one of my friends asked me about the sexual differences between men and women. To set the stage I should tell you at the time i was bisexual and dated the person rather than their gender. I was thinking about this recently, especially since I have strictly been with women for years now. I wondered if my answer would be different now then then.
Back then I thought women were more sensual, softer, interested in cuddling as well as making love. Women burned hotter, but much slower. It took much more time to bring a woman to the brink of an orgasm, but it was time deliciously spent. Men, on the other hand were more like a firecracker with a short fuse. It's like if you look at them, they are halfway to cumming. Impatience seemed to me to be their defining characteristic, well that and a certain sword that fit my scabbard so well. One old saying I remember, women need a reason for sex, men just need a place.
Do those same thoughts hold true for me today, even though I am penis-free? I think my feelings at the time were simplistic and maybe a little naive. I found as I gained more experience with women, I discovered some who were in many ways a lot like men. Impatient and more interested in their own orgasm than taking the time to delight a partner. I also found the emotional side of men to become off-putting for the most part. Far too many of my former male partners seemed more interested in controlling a relationship than being partners.
I think that's what moved me to prefer my own side of the street. I became less interested in just sex and more interested in a relationship. I became much more choosy about who I got emotionally close with than who was fun in bed (or on the table, the stairs, the floor, or even the car :-) I found a tight circle of friends was more physically satisfying than any one-night-stand and also discovered that I love being in love, as long as the person reciprocates those feelings.
I know this is a ramble, but I often use such things to examine my own thoughts on a subject. I am currently not in a relationship, although i am not leading a sexless existence, my friends see to that -- although not nearly as often as pre-Covid. I don't know when lightening might strike again, but I do so enjoy looking for it and exploring the possibilities! Lightening might be quick, but it can lead to such a delightful fire!
Here's to following the lightening!
In a conversation today the question wasn't so strange, but the wording threw me off.
She asked, and I am quoting here, "What is your position on oral sex?"
My answer was simple, I said, "Normally on my belly with my face buried in a pussy!"
The look on her face was incredible! Apparently she was not only straight, but didn't think going down on her husband is something a lady doesn't do. So I guess my answer means I'll never be a 'lady' in her eyes, but I don't think I would like to be a 'lady' by her definition. But I can't get the look on her face from my mind. I've been laughing all day!
Yes! My first times (a girl first then a boy) were within a 24 hour period. Before I went completely girls only, only once and my advice to myself is never get involved with a married couple, even if they both say they are OK with it! Hmmm, might have to write that story up. But with girls only certainly, sometimes at the same time. I have a large bed! LOL
Is there any doubt? Hell yea!!!
I would sit behind her at a public event and then whisper all the things I would like to do to her until she's quivering in her seat. That's the point where they announce her name and she has to go up and give an acceptance speech!
Congratulations Susie, Sprite, and Annie! Superb stories! The top ten were also amazing, I will never be a judge because I wouldn't be able to make up my mind! This was a wonderful comp, so freaking creative! I love how the comps seem to bring out some of the best stories here!
Who in their right mind would pass? Not I!
I write mainly for me, as weird as that might be for someone who can't seem to stop writing. I think I've over something like 370,000 words across all my stories (Yes, my OCD is telling me to get the exact number). But I really do it for me. I have OCD and a slight case of attention deficit which is one hell of a combination! I started writing to work on my focus and the ability to finish projects that I start.
As for your options, (b) sounds exciting, but I think I would prefer (a). If I could make a living writing, I think I would be happy! But I would prefer the anonymity of a non-de-plume to protect my sanity.
I love Lush for giving me much of that. I get to write for me and I also get to meet people who enjoy some of the things I do and share my writing. The feedback has been both educational and, for the most part, quite positive. I am very happy submitting stories and even still feel a thrill when a story makes it through the process and I hit the submit button.
Almost always!
I usually have an idea how I expect a story to go, but as the old saying goes — no plan survives contact with the enemy. While I don't see stories or characters as enemies, once the words start going down and the characters are actually doing things, they often seem to get a life of their own and the ending I had envisioned falls to the wayside. It even happens with Micro-fiction stories, which seemed strange to me at first. I mean how far can a character steal a story line when you only have 100 words to work with. The answer turns out to be an awful lot! Just recently the ending of one story hijacked by the characters turned into the beginning of another story with totally different characters and I had no idea where the story was going to go. Sometimes I think I'm only along for the ride!
Brooke
Football!
Yes, there is a reason, a bet on with a friend. Go Niner's! LOL, we are double or nothing because my Giants won earlier today! Niner's win and I get taken out to dinner twice next week!!
Hell, Kitty, did you put fruit loops in my banana hammock?
I wouldn’t have minded the crunchy feeling, but the milk sogged them out!
Talk about adding insult to injury!
It makes it so hard to spank the monkey, so I guess I have to spank something or someone else!
I found I can't categorize it down to one thing, so many aspects of a person attract me. From a distance the way someone moves is one of the first things I notice. I think it's because I am tall and thin and am kinda . . . gawky . . . is the best word. Up closer i have to look for a smile, a smile that reaches her eyes. I swear to god iits one of the first things I notice. I will happily look at her body, but that's not what captivates me.
It gets read at least. I just think my readers are generally shy and would rather others didn't know what they read because of the nature of it. I think putting on the feedback required option was shooting myself in the foot. I only did it because I seemed to have angered someone and they went around delibriately downvoting my stories a few weeks back. I just like knowing that my writing isn't completely pointless.
