Hello, I'm Cathryn. Or you can call me Catie.... but PLEASE, not Cathy, not Cat, not Cate!

I'm 40, single, never married, no kids, bisexual, my home is NYC.

In real life I date men and women, although 75% of my dates are with women. I look to men under special circumstances. :)

In chat, to be honest, I find very little gratification chatting with men, so I'm focusing on women.

Nobody would call me kinky, but I'm open to (some) suggestions, although....

... I'm learning about D/s with some wonderful "mentors", who explain to me the process. I lean D.