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ChandlerAja2
Over 90 days ago
Fluid Female, 35
United States

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You know I as a Dancer and an Escort. But maybe not an Escort like you may be thinking about.
I have a friend now just turned 50. Over the years she has met some very Rich and Powerful people. She has provided them with just what they needed.

She has now introduced me to some of her friends. After the first non-sexual meeting, both parties can decide if they want to go any further. Money is not mentioned, but each time I have walked away with a nice gift.

I have been asked to be a hostess for an event, I have asked to entertain friends and of course I have had sex with the host a number of different ways.

This seems to me to be a win win win situation. All of us get what they want. We all enjoy the sex and do love generous gifts.
Since I live in a warm climate and most would call me a beach girl, so I hardly ever wear anything on my legs.

Most guys seem to think my legs are just fine as they are.

Two exceptions.\:

1. when I go to a colder climate like San Francisco or NYC.

2. When a date request stockings or hose (his choice).
I am afraid I have lost control a couple of times in that manner.

Now that I think about maybe more than a couple of times.

Once he pushes his hard cock into us, can we really still call the guy a stranger?
My greatest spread was with a man that at the time made me jail bait in some states.

He was wonderful, kind, gentle and I believe help me find just what kind of a woman I am.

I still see him and can never express my gratitude for what he did for me.
I have no concept of life without a man or better yet men.

You are pulling my leg again aren't you little devils?
Race is not a factor. If you are interesting the same criteria apply to all of Gods Children.
I have been told I have good legs. So Why in the world would I wear Jeans.

Skirts, dresses or short shorts for me.
Quote by Milik_the_Red


That is the downside of people having their lives destroyed by allegations vs due process. The Me Too movement needed to happen, but it has fostered an atmosphere of trial by media that is destroying men without their constitional right to due process. Is that really just? Truthfully, I’m not wise enough to know, but human nature being what it is, we should expect men to start enforcing the “Pence Rule” in their lives simply due to the fact that one accusation leveled twenty years later could ruin their lives.

Just or not, that fear will change society for the good, but also in ways that may do more damage than it heals. Such is the risk with trial by mob.



Milik the Red

You sound like a very wise man to me and one who has much wisdom to share.
I see no reason that consenting adults should not practice the sexual acts in just the manner they chose. It is not a practice that anyone else need to approve or accept

However, at the same time with all the Me Too Publicity these days I am sure any couple who are practicing the style would do so only with great concerns. I am sure some of these guys have gone way over the line as to what is acceptable and what is not. I am equally sure there are woman who have accepted the benefits of what comes from a relationship with her counterpart. Only now to scream "Poor Me, I am a victim.

I know a number of rich men who have powerful positions, both in the public eye as well as private. I hear things like"There will never be a woman in my office alone again. They believe there is just too much vulnerability.

Just when woman's voice was beginning to be taken as seriously as a mans in the board Room.
We both have the right to be with others from time to time. Remember Sex and Love not exactly the same thing.

Could that be why I do no have a guy of my own.
A guy I see once in awhile loves Venus Butterfly's and often insist it be worn to dinner and dancing.

I bet you can guess what the evening are like.
Quote by browncoffee
No. Why doesn't he make an effort to meet someone himself? Why is he a lazy, useless blob? Sex isn't free. Nothing is ever free. Men are already spoiled rotten. He can get a life.


Brown Coffee you at so right they are spoiled. But they were that way when we got them out of the package from their Mothers. Cruel thing to be saying almost on Mothers Day.

But, what are we supposed to do? I have no intent or interest in going without.

I have never seriously thought of a guy going without, but if he was a good guy and someone I had known a while, I think I would. However it would be more or less a one time thing. He need to find a more permanent solution to his problem.
Quote by trinket


I think it’s a pretty shitty thing to do to post intimate pictures of others (especially your significant other)on the internet without asking their permission beforehand. Just my opinion.


Trinket you are right on the mark. Now I would not care but I would be pissed if he did it without my knowledge.
Very pleased not the largest and not the smallest either. While I think mine are just fine you may not and that make you right.
Fuck me Hard, Rough and Dirty. Sluts need to know what they are all the time.
Quote by DailyRhains
Giving someone a blowjob is something you can do for them for so many reasons. All that you listed and more! Happy Birthday, Merry Christmas or to just help get someone out of a slump.
I believe that sex in general has healing powers. I think a blowjob is even more personal, gives the guys a great visual and they LOVE it when you swallow the results!


You seem to have a good understanding of what sex is and should be for. In addition to procreation.
Quote by DanieGirl
I appreciate all of the answers. Except the ones about breaking up thats moronic. Thank you everyone for the positive feedback. I spoke with him in person and he told me hes not comfortable with it. i told him it was ok. I lost my virginity to him so i wanted to explore other ways of sex. thanks again everyone! Much Love!


I could not disagree more about sex without love. Have you thought about asking him to take baby steps toward Kink>
Quote by Johnyutah


First off you need to be patient, Most men think about sex more than women do, and he will come around... start with baby steps, you lay spread eagle on bed with some kind of restraints in hand and show him ,and say " this is how you can have me", teasingly, or tie him up, make a game out of it ... I would not break up with your boyfriend merely because he won't do those thing he will eventually, after has had time to process the whole thing trading a good guy for merely sex, which like anything in life can be learned and practiced a 1000 different ways would be foolish the journey will be the fun part he will come around, "you are just ahead of him" in the experimenting dept. But i am available for lessons..


Johnyutah Sounds like good advice. but how did you get in my head to know how much I think about sex. Just about all the time.
Quote by Daddysass
Since I have worked in a strip club, and been an escort, I would say yes. In both these situations I control who and if we fuck.



Of course you do! Tht is the prime difference between a Class Escort and a Street Walker/Hooker.
Quote by Martiann
I have had this fantasy many times. However, I do not know if I would actually have the nerve. If I had to sell my body to survive, than Of course I absolutely would. I just enjoy sex so much, that I would never want to do anything to diminish my pleasure with it. I think I would be afraid if sex became work, the pleasure would fade.


Beautiful Marianne, this I know even if the guy give a generous gift there is no reason not to enjoy the action.

I believe the Joy of Sex is not exclusive from the Joy of Money and Sex.

Have you forgotten me?
But it is good to have a pal. This just what you appear to and it may always be just pals.

I do dress for attention just about every where that kind of dress is acceptable. I want men to need to fuck more than anything. Maybe so bad they can not think straight.
It seems she is being kind and courteous. What could possibly be wrong with that.

If he is a good looking man in his fifties, I have no issue with him enjoying the swing in my backyard.
Not a thing wrong with asking her to shave. However since she is reluctant Don't be surprised if things have not changed.

She may not have the confidence to be different. I have been bare of a long time but she is not me.
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Anyone willing to do it multiple times a day ?


I can not think of one reason a person would not want to do it multiple times a day.
Not clear why you would want to use a toy if you have a guy or a girl there.

Hitachi or something like that is good in BDSM games.