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ChandlerAja2
Over 90 days ago
Fluid Female, 35
United States

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Maybe she is Praying to God that some guy will finally let her have an orgasm.

Could be for some.
You must be kidding! in

Your asking that question to this group of Sluts, Whore and Morally Deficient men and woman?

The one remember best. I am sure this was the first or second date. We had already Fucked and we went dancing. When he found out that I had neither bra or panties he decided to not miss the opportunity. We laughed saying no one knows what we are doing. During my life I have almost only first and second dates.

After the dance a guy came over asked me to dance. Within only maybe a minute he had a couple of fingers in me.

Could it be we were not being as clever as we thought?
I was going to say I work with a cock of any size.

But, on second thought there could be limits.
About an hour ago and I will go back to him in a few minutes and see if he is ready to continue the session.

That is the way it is supposed to be isn't it?
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Yeah, this is a lot of people's go-to when it comes to women being 'paid' for sex.

But I think guys cheapen themselves when they liken thoughtful or loving gestures to paying for sex. You're not paying to sleep with her...you're showing your appreciation for her.

Sure some guys make grand, expensive gestures to get laid...but if you're committed to someone, it's totally different.

As far as the OP's question, no I have not.


Dani I agree with you in a committed relationship. But men have given me substantial gifts and I may not see them again for a few months. It is all about sex and nothing but sex. Still I am considered to be a good person and do lot of things for lots of people in addition to sex. So there is this side of the coin too.
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No. Have been offered, but I don't see sex as a commodity. It's always been something I've wanted to do A LOT! For free! If I was in a position where I couldn't get any, would I pay for it? Without hesitation.


I promise, you will still have lots of fun when a guy pays you and why is it so bad to walk away with a few pounds or dollars. Money is not a evil, just a way to show appreciation.
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Truth.
Quote by PlayWithMyYoyo
One way or another, every time... everyone has and does... Don't you think?


I've not recieved a price for a sex act itself. But I've recieved gifts before.







Special men I have met recently do not want to talk about money but give me nice gifts. It is all the same.
I did once and only recently. I was invite it entertain some guys and in the playroom a door opened and two walls rolled out. Within minutes a penis poked through each hole. I had met each the guys but knew none of them well enough to define them by their male appendage. But I knew them much better by the end of the evening.
I have never and will never play the victim role. No I have never been discriminated in the work place or anywhere else.

I do seem to attract the attention of the male version of the specie. That I thank Mom for and feel blessed by my good fortune.
Now it would depend what restaurant we are talking about. It takes at least year for most of us to get a reservation at the French Laundry in Napa Valley. Yes I would like that and be impressed and love love love it.

But then if he is going to be doing the cooking and is a chef on the Bobby Flay level I would love that too.

Remember Guys you do not have to get most to us drunk to get Lucky.
Feminine pronouns work just fine. While I have some Bi tendencies, most my experiences has been with men.

I am not against LGBTQ causes, but the always seem to support the most Radical Left Wing agenda almost without exception.

Not always easy to swallow.
I am sure you will master the technique of making yourself Orgasm with just the use of you fingers. What works best for me may not be the answer for you.

Like school teachers say practice practice and then some more practice.

Remember many woman have problems in Orgasming and you may need to work at it for a while until you find just the right technique.

Good Luck
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If anything, it will be the other way around.


Not likely either. Even if they get pissed at us, they know they could never get along without us.
I find it very strange. But his religion may prohibit pre-marital sex and if he is very religious I understand. I have a friend in Europe who is about 10 years older than the man you are asking about and he claims to be a virgin also.

It is so unusual that a female who enter sex at a very young age, has a very hard time understanding not matter how I try.

Both I am sure are good people and with patience you never know where it could go.
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sigh, living in CA, flipflops and shorts can be over dressed...
i miss NY, and that's how i dress.


You must hang out in beach bars and surfer clubs exclusively. I would be considered a beach girl by most. However I cleanup well and know lots of places you are expected to be dressed for the occasion.

Ladies when I am out to dinner and see a girl that has spent some time to look as good as she can. Then her date is in a raunchy tee shirt, shorts, a ball cap and gym shoes. He maybe a nice guy but he looks like a bum.

Why do we put up with being treated like this. I do not understand. I thought the Power of the Pussy always wins.
There are several types of revealing wear.

Sexy but Classy that get you noticed. but little more than that.

More revealing the tells people I am available make me an indecent proposal.

Then there is the kind that hides almost nothing and send the message anyone who wants me can have me. Maybe even several at the same time.

You know i have all of these indecencies!
Kissing of course, you know the deep lustful, wet ones with tongues active that is about as intimate as it comes.

As I was think more about it, maybe when you are going girl to girl, with a beauty and your face is buried between her legs enjoying her sweetness, while she is doing the same to you.

When a guy has pushed his hardness into one of your orifices, I am not sure that is intimacy, more just need of power, animal lust and desire.

People that ask these kinds of questions get me so confused.
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Hi
Just thinking abou my past and encounters and was wodering how many frmales engage still in Quicke sex , just drop the Jeans, legins or lift up the skirt and go for it?
Back in the 80's there was a lot of it i saw or was part of it

Truth please lol


Somethings never change and my experience tells me this is one of them. Where could it happen. Let me see. Maybe in the record storage room at work, or maybe down the hall at a Bar (Pub if that works better), Maybe in the parking lot behind your favorite theater (porn or otherwise). For me it is with a neighbor when his wife is out for a period of time.

Anywhere that time is limited and the risk of being caught is high.

If anyone tells you Quickie do not happen today, they deal with the truth like a politician or they are no longer sexually active.
When in college I traveled back and forth with a guy. He love to Fuck me standing up at the edge of a Rest Area on the Interstate. Most could not see us, except anyone leaving the Rest Area and anyone on the Interstate could hardly miss the action.

I offered to help pay for gas, but he like the deal we had.
Only a man could ask such a dumb question!

Beffer I know Random Strangers when kissing you neck who could make you knees wilt.
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I can be fairly quiet while making love, but it's hard for me. Obviously sex it a lot hotter if you don't need to worry about making noises. I get pretty wet, so yes I get "squishy". When I climax I do have a lot of discharge kind of thick, but a clearish fluid. Not squirting though.


I do not squirt either, but there could be a flood most anytime he/she has made me Orgasm several time in a short period. I wonder if you can really learn to squirt.
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people like Cosby, Rapestein, Polanksi, etc, deserve to be destroyed. Others, like Franken and some others who committed relatively lesser acts, not so much. in fact, in the long run, vilifying assholes as opposed to monsters could be somewhat back setting to the cause. We're going to agree on that. and yes, it's supposed to be innocent until proven guilty.

and i agree with your concerns. There's a huge difference between consensual play or writing erotica and actual sexual abuse. hopefully it won't ever go down that rabbit hole - right now, all the media is concerned about are the big cases. the men in power, the celebs, etc.

i think what Me Too is doing right is it's started a conversation about what is right and wrong and what women go through on a daily basis. here's something for others to think about (i know this is something you're already aware of - your a good man, Milik - a lot of the men here are, and i would hate for the back lash to effect any of you):

women who are go through public scrutiny and mob trial on a regular basis. things that are brought up. how we're dressed. our sexual history. if we were drinking. all that stuff is brought up to discredit the victims. again, there's a bit of a 'this is what WE go through - it's your turn' going on here - i won't lie and say that goes through my mind at times like this.

btw, this, from 2 days ago:

A Tennessee teenager stabbed her classmate with a pair of scissors because he pulled up her dress, police say.

A male student allegedly pulled up a peer's dress in the classroom at Central High School in Memphis.

The girl reportedly responded by snatching a pair of scissors and stabbing him after multiple missed attempts.

Both students have been issued jury summons following the incident. It is not known exactly when the stabbing occurred.

The male student reportedly told police that 'he was only playing and never exposed the victim'.

He has received a summons for sexual battery, and the female student received one for aggravated assault.


She faces felony charges after acting in self-defence (imo) while he faces misdemeanor charges, since he was only playing. How the fuck was she supposed to know that? trust me, when someone's trying to lift up our dresses without our consent, can you blame us if we assume that it's a prelude to more unless we put an immediate stop to it? if i was walking to my car and some guy came up and tried to lift my dress, i would have stabbed him too - and if i hadn't, everyone would be asking why i didn't fight back and made it my fault that i let him do whatever he had planned to me.

btw, the boy received injuries minor enough that they were treated by the school nurse.



I would been equally unset as a teen if the fellow student pulled up my dress. However, the response needs be reasonable and appropriate.


If a thief breaks into your house and is trying to steal your Bling. In most states you could shoot for the threat and his action and not be charged with anything.


Although, this does not mean that when he drops your Bling and runs down the street that you can chase him down and then shoot him. Most places you are in serious Legal Jeopardy.


There is a line that a Victim should not cross and this woman thinks the girl with the pulled up dress is very close to that line.


Not a lot of good and reasonable answer anywhere on this subject.
Can not imagine calling a man I have sex with "Daddy"

Why would I?

Those of you who have kids I understand in family setting it would be easy.
Even if a man is less than adequate in Providing Oral Orgasms, it is not the poor dears fault.

So Teach them this fine art and teach them again and again if necessary.

There is an Important Message in the caption on the photo in question.
So much negativity. This is not my experience but a friend and I am sure they would not mind me sharing it with you.

He was in his mid 20's and she was in her late 30's. I did not know at them time of course. They worked together in a large office. He asked her out not for sex, just a date and was declined because of age difference. He asked again with the same result. The third time she agreed to have a with him and nothing else.

Now for how DANGEROUS office sex or romances can be. The unexpected happened, it ended in marriage and that was sometime in 1963. I know you can do the numbers.

We all would like to be idolized like she is even after all these many years.

I have seen pictures of her in her 40's and she was simply stunning. Of course that could not have been a factor.
Cowgirl is great so is reverse. But if she need a certain position do that.

I have little trouble ever having an Orgasm. Probably why I love to do it so much.

I think most woman can cum with a patient man and lots of practice.

PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE.
I would think it would be about the same as if she decided to have a child with an European, Latino or Asian Lover.
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When I was in nursing school I lusted after a very handsome intern! We couldn’t get together due to hospital policy and he didn’t seem interested! Fifteen years later I found out that he was interested in me also. Alas the next time we met we were both happily married. Since I’m separated if I ever find him again he’s mine...


Your Lust and Desire didn't over power Hospital Rules? I bet other Nursing Students and young Doctors had lots of hot sex.
Not sure there are any bad reasons for sharing such a wonderful experience with someone. Even if you will never be together again.

I do regret that I was not more cautious with my reputation in school. But, the sex I am not sorry at all. Not even once.